Morning gorgeous ladies!
@SmileyT you have been a bus driver star ⭐️ and thanks @Juno231 for putting your hand up! Get those spreadsheets ready babe.
@Vil10 not sure if you remember a couple of months ago I was in a similar position as you - had my bday party on a Saturday night and was about 12DPO. I decided to not test and drink that night, preceded to get BLIND (and had a bloody great night), to the point I was not well the next day when I had planned to test (reminder - spewed in the Uber eats bag 🤢).
AF showed the Sunday night, which I felt relieved at in a way after how much I drank! If I had my time again I would've done same but had less to drink (ie still not tested sat morning and had a good night being naively optimistic that it could be a BFP, rather than depressed during my party because of it being BFN).
Difference with your situation is 10DPO there's no certainty even with a frer!!
Lots of different thoughts on this though and you can only do what's right/comfortable for you! 💗
@lucyrp agreed FW is not a time for hard to get! If he's playing his games I think you need to get those sexy knickers on and go sit on his face.
@notyetamumbuttrying I don't have anything specific of yours to reply to, but just wanted to say I am SO gunning for you to get your BFP. I want all these lovely ladies to of course, but shit when your day comes (and it will) I'm legit going to scream and then take myself out for a celebratory champagne in your honour.
@Clairey844 slightly disappointed you didn't manage to DTD during your caravan holiday - I was looking forward to the hilarity of how that would work!
@Mococo1 im so sorry to hear you're feeling so anxious, and completely understand wanting to take a break. If you do happen to see this though, I have everything crossed for you and sending massive virtual good vibes that everything is fine and you will not be ttc again for a very long while xx 💗
Ooh congrats @Lettie365 !! Lovely line there 😍
Hi hi to new joiners! And good luck!!