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August Testing Pond (Follow on from 24th-4th July) thread 3

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Littlebee1990 · 30/07/2020 06:29

We’re nearly full so made us another thread!

How is everyone?

I’m 6DPO CD31.. going to be a 40+ day cycle.. as if 30 doesn’t feel long enough!! Nothing to report aside from that.

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1992EM · 01/08/2020 21:36

@nottherealslimshady . I am.glsd they are doing tests . Fingers crossed all is well . I also know someone who had bleeding right through and everything was fine, so it is possible. I completely understand . I don't think I could tell anyone just because I then no ill get asked constantly if we are pregnant again and I don't think I could handle that. Although they might be supportive and help you through it too.

dogmam · 01/08/2020 21:33

@kalecat and @nottherealslimshady so sorry about both of your awful news, hope in time you are both ok and positive about trying again xx

@Littlebee1990 perfect, almost like it was meant to be!!

@gymbelle that's annoying, hope the specialists are more supportive and can help.

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Littlebee1990 · 01/08/2020 21:12

@Nottherealslimshady That’s really good, I was literally told “oh we’re so sorry”.. no scan, no bloods, nothing! I’m so glad you’re receiving better care ❤️ I honestly have everything crossed that it’s ok. My friend bled huge amounts every month and her little boy is now 2, she thought she lost him 4 times! Xx

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Nottherealslimshady · 01/08/2020 20:45

@Littlebee1990 that's great news about the hot warm tub!

I've spent the day at the hospital, had bloods taken and an internal examination, got a scan monday and more bloods. She said my cervix is still closed which is a good sign 😯 but if I lose that amount of blood and keep this pregnancy then I'm starting a new religion because it must be the next Christ!.. so trying not to hold on to too much hope.

I'm not decided on whether to tell anyone irl, I'm glad I've got support on mumsnet but I feel I'd have to support others through it if you know what I mean and I dont think I can be responsible for others emotions around it.

1992EM · 01/08/2020 18:18

@littlebee1990 that is great news about the hot tub.

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Littlebee1990 · 01/08/2020 18:09

I have no words @kalecat and @Nottherealslimshady.. it definitely helped me talking about it, we told our nearest and dearest because I would’ve probably hit someone if I got the baby question weeks after.

Update on the hot tub situation this weekend.. it’s broken and doesn’t go over 29 degrees so situation averted!!

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mrswilso · 01/08/2020 17:06

@Nottherealslimshady & @Kalecat I'm so so sorry for yous 💕

1992EM · 01/08/2020 16:07

@kalecat I am so sorry. 😔
@nottherealslimshady fingers crossed next cycle is the one . Must be so heartbreaking. Hope you enjoy hiking 💕

@gymbelle sorry to hear that and that is really poor of the doctor to not even ask about your questions. Hopefully you get some answer when the consultant phones.

Kalecat · 01/08/2020 16:01

No need to take a test today, AF has started. Bleeding and cramps in full force. So upset...

Nottherealslimshady · 01/08/2020 14:37

Thank you guys, truly the hardest thing I've been through. I've had a big cry, and I'm having a down day today then hiking tomorrow and starting the next cycle. Trying to look forward and keep hope.

@Kalecat I hope you're ok today x

@Gymbelle sorry to hear of your tube issue, I cant believe they'd dismiss you like that, hopefully the consultant has more answers for you. Maybe think of the questions you need answers to so you're prepared.

Gymbelle · 01/08/2020 13:02

@Nottherealslimshady I am so so sorry.

@Kalecat everything crossed for you.

I had my HSG test yesterday and it showed my left Fallopian tube is either blocked or in spasm. The nurse just said ‘oh you only need one anyway’ and then hurried me out, not asking if I had any questions and just said the fertility consultant will call me. Not really sure what to think. Not heard from the consultant yet but hoping I will do next week. Anyone got any experience of this?

1992EM · 01/08/2020 12:46

@nottherealslimshady I am so sorry. 😔

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Littlebee1990 · 01/08/2020 12:10

@Nottherealslimshady I’m so sorry 😢❤️ There really are no words, it’s just so unfair x

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Pika93 · 01/08/2020 11:59

@Nottherealslimshady so sorry to hear that

Nottherealslimshady · 01/08/2020 11:54

Massive bleed this morning and all symptoms gone. Devastated

Pika93 · 01/08/2020 11:46

I'm getting so frustrated now! 3 days late (have never been late in my life and still bfn. Feel like if I squint really hard I can see something in the frer but I know it's just me imagining

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Littlebee1990 · 01/08/2020 10:51

@mylittlebean2019 I’ve been tracking mine but it’s a stupidly long cycle cos of the CP. Have attached my chart for you to nosey at x

August Testing Pond (Follow on from 24th-4th July) thread 3
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mylittlebean2019 · 01/08/2020 09:59

@Kalecat and @Nottherealslimshady I’m sorry to hear you are going through such a worrying time. Some bleeding is normal in pregnancy so fingers crossed for you both everything is ok 💕

I got my peak on CD34. I’ve been tracking my BBT but I’ve struggled to do it at a similar time each day as my DD wakes up at different times. That being said i don’t see a noticeable increase in temp to suggest I’ve ovulated since my peak. Are you any of you tracking your BBT? If so, how much of a increase did you get after ovulation?

Dinosaurus86 · 01/08/2020 09:57

CD8 now here so nothing much to report from me.

Dinosaurus86 · 01/08/2020 09:56

I’m so sorry to hear your news @Kalecat and @Nottherealslimshady. I hope very much that they are false alarms.

1992EM · 01/08/2020 07:45

@nottherealslimshady and @kalecat I have everything crossed for you both that it will be positive news 💕. Thinking of you both as can imagine how worrying it must be . Xx

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Littlebee1990 · 01/08/2020 06:41

@Nottherealslimshady @Kalecat Ladies my heart is aching for you both because I just remember the fear and pain last month. I am really hoping it’s nothing and everything is going to be ok for you both.

I don’t think any of us knew how hard TTC is 😭

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Nottherealslimshady · 01/08/2020 00:55

@Kalecat I'm so sorry it's happening on your holiday, if it's just light pink blood and not a lot it could still be fine 🤞

DHs van broke down on his way back from work 4hrs away so I'm just in bed with the dog waiting for him to come back. I feel like I just know it's going. Absolutely devastated, no one prepares you for this stuff.

Kalecat · 01/08/2020 00:39

@Nottherealslimshady I'm sorry. this is awful. OH and I are gutted. Never experienced a loss before until now... it's terrible. 😞 Especially on vacation when i'm supposed to be enjoying my time.

Nottherealslimshady · 01/08/2020 00:22

My spotting is getting heavier and redder, I'm afraid in the morning I will probably be bleeding fully 😔