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9dpo and cramping ttc driving myself mad hoping this is baby number 2 on the way

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Nls90x · 24/07/2020 19:20

Hi everyone,

As above 9 days dpo and experiencing cramps. Stupidly bought 20 one step tests online and have been secretly testing every morning for two days.

Recently had a chemical I have a 19 month old and we are ready for bundle of joy number 2 .

Is it normal to be this crazy and hiding testing so you don’t look like a mad woman lol

For all those trying I wish you all baby dust in the world :) :) :) I just needed to get it out there Grin x

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TJ17 · 29/07/2020 17:10

[quote Nls90x]@LaceyMermaid well my AF is due today and I still don't have any line mine would of shown by now I've come to terms that next month is my month 💋 [/quote]
Would hate to get your hopes up incase this is not your month but just thought I should let you know it took me 6 days after late AF to get the faintest line this time round (2nd DC).
It was 9 days after AF was due before I had a strong line so you just never know!

I was driving myself mad too and was praying for AF to arrive to put me out of my misery as I was convinced there was no way I could be pregnant when I was still getting BFN when 5 days late!

You're not out til AF arrives. Good luck everyone SmileThanks

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Nls90x · 29/07/2020 13:16

@Kitkatb0808 ❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉 this is amazing news I'm so happy for you!! Xxx

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LaceyMermaid · 29/07/2020 11:58

That’s great news, good to have a plan! @Kitkatb0808

clkx · 29/07/2020 11:58

Aww that’s great news @Kitkatb0808 💕

Kitkatb0808 · 29/07/2020 11:24

Well just spoken to my wonderful doctor
On iron tablets folic acid multivitamins
Bought the digital plus tracker thermometer and charts and a sperm test kit for next cycle
If no bfp this time of course
If no joy next month he will send me to ivf because of my age so everything crossed may get the happy ending
Also suggested if I do get a positive to call him and he can give me progesterone tablets to help it stick ..........
New journey possibly with plenty of sticks to pee on!!!!
Ben and Jerry also made my evening copeable 😂😂🙄
Let’s hope we are all on a lucky thread together ❤️❤️❤️❤️

LaceyMermaid · 29/07/2020 11:15

I think it’s helpful but also adds to the stress! @clkx

clkx · 29/07/2020 10:55

@LaceyMermaid 100% I’m limited to time too so really felt the pressure. This is my last month trying before having to hold off until next year 🙄 I never tracked with my first we just let it happen so this time round has been completely different for me too!

LaceyMermaid · 29/07/2020 10:34

@clkx It’s so hard isn’t it! This is my first month so all the tracking etc is new to me, never did this with my other dc. I think because I don’t have time on my side I’m putting too much pressure on myself! I think it would be sensible to wait until AF - whether I can make it is another matter!

clkx · 29/07/2020 10:29

@LaceyMermaid I’m the same I think I’m just talking myself into it. I did the same last month and then was devastated when AF arrived. Trying not too this month

clkx · 29/07/2020 10:26

@LaceyMermaid I was thinking the same, Do I go out and buy a frer 🤔🤔🤔
I think I’m just going to wait until AF is due now.

LaceyMermaid · 29/07/2020 10:25

@clkx @Nls90x you’re not out until AF ladies!
I’m wondering if 10dpo is too early to show too as that what I am @clkx or maybe I’m just convincing myself!

clkx · 29/07/2020 10:22

Fingers crossed for you all 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼
BFN for me too this morning. 10 DPO so maybe it’s just too early still. AF due Saturday so we shall see!
I did eat a full tub of Ben and Jerry’s last night which is usually an indication that AF is well and truly on the way 🤣

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Nls90x · 29/07/2020 10:18

@LaceyMermaid well my AF is due today and I still don't have any line mine would of shown by now I've come to terms that next month is my month 💋

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LaceyMermaid · 29/07/2020 10:17

Would a frer be more likely to pick it up or shall I just give up? 🤣

LaceyMermaid · 29/07/2020 10:13

10dpo here and IC said bfn. Not sure it would pick it up as it’s not an early detection test but now I feel like it’s not going to happen so maybe I’ll wait and test at weekend when AF is due (I think)

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Nls90x · 29/07/2020 09:42

Another BFN for me too!

Not my month for sure! I just want AF now so I can try again! Xx

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Baby2123 · 29/07/2020 09:09

@Kitkatb0808 BFN for me too.

AF due Friday, starting to think FRER would of picked up by now. Still not counting myself out until AF arrives.

Keeping everything crossed for you! X

sindylouwho · 29/07/2020 07:46

@Kitkatb0808 it's still early. Keep the faith x

Kitkatb0808 · 29/07/2020 07:26

Another bfn ☹️☹️

sindylouwho · 29/07/2020 07:19

Did another test this morning and got another positive. Af due this weekend. Don't think I'll properly believe it until she doesn't show. Good luck everyone

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Nls90x · 28/07/2020 22:10

@Kitkatb0808 night night hope you have a nice sleep 😊 xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 28/07/2020 21:40

N night ladies xxx

LaceyMermaid · 28/07/2020 20:07

🤣 I just think I know it’ll be negative

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Nls90x · 28/07/2020 19:15

@LaceyMermaid you've done really really not to we have upped the game to twice a day! 😂😂 xx

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LaceyMermaid · 28/07/2020 19:14

🤣 there’s lots of faulty tests around!

I think I’m going to have to test tomorrow at 10dpo although I know it’ll be neg but the urge to POAS is real!

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