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TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)

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VP91x · 18/07/2020 09:33

Hey ladies,
I'm missing loads of testing days, so just let me know your updated days if you have one and I'll make a note xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa

@fafi- 17th July
@2020wish- 17th July
@fafi- 18th July
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@GraceG26- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna- 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@VP91x- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2- August?
@Northernsoul90- not testing
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Chickoletta
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992

Update from me CD20, 3DPO (I think) 🥰.. Nothing going on at the moment, will wait impatiently for the next week xx

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VP91x · 19/07/2020 06:15

@2020wish I know it is easy to say when you are not in the situation, however I would try maybe some audiobooks or a good podcast and going out for a walk. Clear your mind. Until anything shows you otherwise, you must trust that everything is okay with your little bean otherwise you'll spend all your time in a worried state which isn't good for your mental health. Remember with each pregnancy the odds are in your favour to be a healthy one ❤️

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2020wish · 19/07/2020 06:10

Ladies I’m really struggling. My anxiety and nerves are through the roof, I need some forum of relaxation techniques to help me not worryZ my lines are all strong today and my digital is positive! 11dpo. I couldn’t be anymore happier!! I want to stop testing now but every morning I wake up knowing it could all be over. I’m shaking... had anyone any advice... I feel like I am going to cause a loss with the worry going through my body right now. The bottom one is a femometer test that I have never gotten a positive on has it’s less sensitive so first day getting a BFP on that lil bugger

TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)
2020wish · 19/07/2020 05:54

@VP91x could be an implantation dip!! Dot lose hope. I always had a dip at some point after ovulation and it always went back up even when I got my BFP. It could be implantation as I said or other external factors

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VP91x · 19/07/2020 05:51

Having a wobble this morning because had a temp drop. This is my chart now and if I didn't actually ovulate this month I'll be devastated. Can't have two months in a row 😩. Xx

TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)
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2020wish · 19/07/2020 05:12

@Pugprincess aw :( I know how you feel :( first time trying after a mc is very surreal. Be kind to yourself. Yes ylove I many ovulate a bit later this month, so maybe just continue to DTD every 2 days to keep u covered x

Pugprincess · 19/07/2020 00:23

@2020wish just ordered the easy as home tests 🙂

Pugprincess · 19/07/2020 00:19

@2020wish thanks ❤️

I know it’s tmi but we just DTD and I cried straight after 😪 just emotional I think as last time we did it I was preg still and obviously the thought of having to try again is sad. Now it’s technically Sunday so I’m cycle day 11 since day 1 of mc full flow bleeding. I used to ovulate around day 14. Think we will get another in tomorrow. Can’t see it’s worth using the opk at this point as I still had a faint faint line on preg fest this morn so that’s going to give me false results. Going to be interesting to see how on earth this cycle pans out length wise 🤔 xx

2020wish · 18/07/2020 23:54

@Pugprincess easy@home 10miu I’ve been using on amazon and then clear blue 6 days early

@Firevie sounds amazing. Glad you had a good sat night

fafi · 18/07/2020 23:53

@Renna I'm just the same as you - a day or 2 late but don't wanna jinx it and test too early. I'm trying to hold out until Monday or Tuesday.

I think I've ovulated on CD11 before! I've drunk a fair bit during my TWW tbh - I was like ah well might be hopefully last time for a while.

Sorry to hear what you have to go through with your DH ex! Sounds like a nightmare.

@Firevie your evening sounds so dreamy!! ✨

Lollol86 · 18/07/2020 23:00

@Firevie that’s sounds amazing, so glad you have had a lovely evening.

Firevie · 18/07/2020 22:34

Little update from me ladies - Roka dinner was delicious! Walk down memory lane, good music, dinner on balcony and lots of wine from our honeymoon in South Africa couple of years ago, lol! We have got to enjoy ourselves right?! Hope you’re all having a great Saturday evening! Xxx

Pugprincess · 18/07/2020 22:25

Evening all, sorry been quiet, had a long nap this aft and then took dog out and not long had dinner 😳

I was just wondering from reading your messages what tests are good to test early with? I don’t fancy spending loads on the clear blue type brands if testing daily x

2020wish · 18/07/2020 22:12

@Rebecca1992 yay so happy your further along!! How many dpo does 3 days late bring u? And how many dpo did u find out again?

chloedancer897 · 18/07/2020 22:12

Guys, what apps are you using to read your OPKs?

@2020wish when did you start aspirin in your cycle? I'm just going to try it. I'm trying everything this month!

Rebecca1992 · 18/07/2020 22:10

*flys

Rebecca1992 · 18/07/2020 22:10

@VP91x I hope it fits by for you, I'm wishing yous all the best of luck with rainbow babies this month!❤🌈

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VP91x · 18/07/2020 22:07

@Rebecca1992 of course, please don't leave🥰 great news that all is going okay. Exciting that you are having an early scan, not long to go. I'm 3dpo I think, wishing the days away 👀 x

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Renna · 18/07/2020 22:05

@VP91x thank you 😘

Rebecca1992 · 18/07/2020 22:03

@VP91x thanks for the new thread.

I hope it's ok for me to stick around to hear ye all get your BFPs, I've gotten further than last time 3 days late on AF and still testing positive for pregnancy, I've booked an early 6+ week scan for august 5th.

Symptoms are some serious bloating and boobs started to get sore this morning. Lots of CM (TMI) 😊

Where is everyone else at in their cycles??

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VP91x · 18/07/2020 21:53

@SmileyT yeah definitely get it, it's so handy I think! Also check out birth_ed on insta, all about the positivity on there so much balanced amazing info xx

@Stayinghopeful92x oh my god!! Look at that cutie 🥰🥰 does he ever go spiky when you hold him? We are getting a Belgian Malinois - he will be a working dog xx

@Bellabubble 😂😂😂 they are so funny, my bunnies have been doing the same. Coco always steals carrots from Milo too and it's hilarious to watch. She's the naughty one! Yeah, we had two so got a couple more to join in the fun. That sounds like a good relaxed plan for next month. Hopefully it is a lucky month!

@littletandme oh no, I'm so sorry it was a chemical this month 😔. Hope you are okay xx

@Hayley19835 ahh, have you contacted your GP? Or tested? That doesn't seem quite right xx

@Renna sorry that your stepsons mum is being such a cow, so bad when people do that and put the kids in the middle of it all. She will never be reasonable probably. Good luck for when you do test, sounds positive so far if AF hasn't arrived ❤️

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2020wish · 18/07/2020 21:41

@littletandme very similar to my chemical in may. So nervous this time around

littletandme · 18/07/2020 21:40

@2020wish I had faint positives from 10-13dpo. But after 11dpo they didn't get any stronger and my temp wasn't rising either, whereas in both my previous pregnancies it had shot up well above any "non pregnant" temps I had before.

2020wish · 18/07/2020 21:37

@Bellabubble thank you 🙏🏻

@Hayley19835 aw no :( how strange. Have you tested or anything?

Hayley19835 · 18/07/2020 21:34

@2020wish have had a bad few days. Been bleeding for the past 4 days even though I had normal AF at the right time, right over FW too so that's me out this month as have managed to DTD once before this all started. Never had mid cycle bleeding before just want to catch a break 😫 x

Bellabubble · 18/07/2020 21:33

@2020wish huge congratulations to you!! Fingers crossed for an extra sticky bean for you xx