TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

@SmileyT it would be lovely. Doesn’t sound like me though 😂

How was your dinner?

@Renna that is really annoying. I’m sure they can’t give you less than the value. I hope you get somewhere on your call. Enjoy the vino x

@SmileyT Thank you! Ooh that's good to know and gives me a bit of hope 😊 how are you feeling?

@Pugprincess Yes hcg can show up on opks, I posted about it earlier on today I think it's still been showing up on my opks almost 6 weeks after mc. I am still getting the faintest of positives on sensitive tests (with fmu). I think normally people advice to start opks once you have a negative test. I don't think there is any reason to wait to the dtd until you get a negative? Obviously just once the bleeding stops and as when you feel ready 😊 xx

@Lollol86 I had some soya milk and my body did not agree with it, I was sick last time I tried it last Monday and that made me test so maybe my body no longer likes soya. Considering my parents don't eat dairy so basically drank it everyday when I was at home, and always get coffees at work with it, it's strange but hey ho 🤷🏾‍♀️

@MichT4 ooh that is a dark opk would be great if you get a nice early ovulation and your body is reset x

@Northernsoul90 my opks fluctuate during the day and by the day and those hcg tests look pretty much negative 🙌🏾 mine was darker than that and I ovulated a couple days later. Bet you just can't wait to start a new cycle and start a fresh, hope it happens for you quick xx

@Sjk89 I'm so sorry for your losses hopefully you find some comfort in this group xx

@Niisa that's good that your EPU is walk-in, mine I had to go to A&E wait to be seen to get a referral 🙄 haha you sound so relax I need to embrace this, I was actually going to get another early scan at 6weeks but trying not to 😂

@Hayleylou89 I'm glad you had a good break, bet you feel well rested and ready for scan on Monday isn't it? I'm all good, apart from being sick at work, no real symptoms at all but still super early so trying to not think about it x

@2020wish definitely test again in the morning, hopefully comes up in the timeframe tomorrow with an extra day for levels to rise🤞

@Renna I'd be fuming aswell 😤 definitely find a phone number and give them an earful and enjoy your vino 🥂 xx

@2020wish god knows I've just got the email now so I've replied asking why only £25 . It went via hermes as it was an option ebay suggested when I used their service called 'packlink' and packlink have compensated me £25 as it looks like what they insure you for for parcels ..but Hermes are the one who declared it lost ... having a glass of wine to calm down and look into if I can speak to someone on the phone 🙄 xxxx hope you're ok xxx

Evening all, I still have a faint line on test but it’s a bit fainter than yesterday so I think I’m going to test tomorrow morning to see how it’s looking with a fmu. I did a cheap ovulation test too and that’s also got a faint second line. On the cheap ones I never get a second line that’s as dark as the control line, but I think it could go darker yet, unless the hcg left in me is messing with it? I’ve hardly bled today just a tiny bit of brown so I think the bleeding done. Would I be safe to DTD now with the whole waiting cause infection or should I wait for neg preg test? X

@Renna that’s shocking! Why are they only compensating 25?

@Hayleylou89 glad you had a lovely time in spain xx
I'm CD28 my last cycle AF came on CD29 so AF she tomorrow really, previous cycles AF has come on CD27 and CD26 but no sign yet but think it may be tomorrow she is due and based on femometer app. Not that I got confirmed ovualtion ... so dunno if my cycle is normal this month 🤷‍♀️ xx
I'm fuming . Sold my ava like a month ago on ebay . I sent it have proof of sending it... and the courier has confirmed they lost it. So of course the girl who didnt receive it needs a refund as she never received it ... but they are only compensating me £25 !? Instead of the £120 I sold it for .... when I have evidence I sent it and the carrier admit they lost it ... so I had ava for one month... didnt get on with it didnt get pg and now down £100.... 😓😓 sucks . Wont be selling anything on ebay again xxx

@2020wish no need for rage, it’s always early with FMU. Only a sleep to wait, with an extra DPO so hopefully you’ll see it even through blurriness x

@VP91x stairs are hellish. I’ve had a couple of times where I can’t really bend my legs, it’s the weirdest things. We had a night away booked with friends and I couldn’t walk barely at all 😂, oddly after one of my lighter sessions.
How has your training been, this week aside?

Hmm that’s a strange choice. Maybe she thought she was over the potty. Bet she’s well proud of her little knickers xx

@MichT4 @Northernsoul90 thanks for the replies. Raging at myself now throwing the head up in a huff this morning without looking properly

Thank you @Emsnewmum. I think I’ve learnt to never assume anything with the body.
How are you? xx

@VP91x it was good, I didn’t fall over again 😂
I jumped back in where I left off so it was a fairy heavy session after quite a break, so that said, it went well. I felt deflated how weak I was but it’s hardly surprising.
Anyway, I got it done so that’s an achievement in itself! I think I might be immobile tomorrow, so maybe DTD tonight is crucial 😂🍆💦

How did Bella get on today with her potty training? 🩲 (the only pants emoji I can find) xx

@michT4

Maybe it's gone of your spotting, or is just early this time. But yes your right it's all so unknown really as it's different for every body. Definitely looks promising x

@VP91x I was surprised it didn’t, especially when glow marked it as positive - normally that’s the stingy one.

I think I am ready to, I’m conscious it might cause some spotting maybe. It almost feels too soon in a ‘should I feel guilty’ way. But then if I am trying to ovulate, maybe I should go with it xx

@fafi @Emsnewmum @Northernsoul90 thank you. And definitely no harm @fafi. It’s funny because after my first MC I didn’t even think about DTD and maybe I missed the crucial time. Who knows.

@emsnewmum thing is, if day one of proper bleeding is CD1, then I am only CD5, way too early when I’m usually a CD27ish ovulation girl. But then I started spotting a week before so perhaps I am later on than that. I guess it’s all a bit unknown after a MC, even more than normal.

I’ll just keep taking them and DTD when we can. As I said I have no expectations with this cycle, so will just see what happens xx

That's definitely darker! @MichT4 surely it is LH then?... I would keep doing them and hopefully you will see a peak soon!

@michT4

I can understand why your worried but they look like really good strong lines!!

I have definitely read that alot of people can ovulate pretty fast after misscarriage and that the first day of bleeding in misscarriage is counted as cd1.

If your comfortable trying again I'd def make the most of thay peak!

Xx

@michT4 I mean it wouldn't hurt to get on it hehe 🍆

@2020wish it's so great your manager is being so supportive! Fingers crossed that's a line and it gets stronger!!

@stayinghopeful92x good to hear you're making progress with tests.

@sjk89 welcome to the group, sorry to hear you've been going through such a tough time. This is a great group and fingers crossed we can support your way to a healthy pregnancy. Is this your first?

@Niisa I hope all goes well with your scan tomorrow! 🤞🏼

@Hayleylou89 glad you've had a lovely trip!! Good to hear from you 🌞

I just did another one and it’s darker. I took a photo on glow which just registers positive or negative and it actually showed as positive

Still not convinced 😂 I don’t trust any lines any more xx

@Sjk89 Aww your new pup sounds lovely!! Everything seems such a long wait but hopefully you will get there with your appointments xx

Thank you @MichT4 ☺️

@2020wish I agree with @MichT4 im not sure about tests after a few hours but definitely retake in the morning!! Fingers crossed for you that it's a bfp 🤞🏼