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TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

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VP91x · 10/07/2020 15:07

Hi lovelies,

Gorgeous to see some more BFPs!!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Chickoletta


@Jazper
@Sunflower1988 - 8th July
@ManchNic - 11th July
@elliew818 - 11th July
@AC2020 - 11th July
@Eli2020 - 11th July
@littletandme - 13th July
@mrsssk - 14th July
@Rebecca1992 - 14th July
@fafi - 17th July
@chloedancer897 - 17th July
@Lollol86 - 17th July
@2020wish - 17th July
@fafi - 18th July
@HE88 - 19th July
@Rainbowhope11 - 20th July
@Bellabubble - 20th July
@GraceG26 - 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby - 21st July
@Renna - 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985 - 26th July
@VP91x - 26th July
@Rb486 - 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2 - August?
@Northernsoul90 - not testing
@Sophj19 - not testing

@Banbi
@busby85
@calimommy
@Quail15
@Re6ecc4

Update on me CD12 - in FW waiting on ovulation. On Soy Iso this month and doing a (reduced) SMEP approach. 🥰

Anyone else would like to join please do xx

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chloedancer897 · 17/07/2020 17:44

@2020wish tentative congrats! I really hope this is it for you xx

VP91x · 17/07/2020 17:43

@chloedancer897 oh god, I have no idea I've not had that before. Why don't you ring the GP anyway and they can see you? I would get checked out regardless xx

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chloedancer897 · 17/07/2020 17:42

@Emsnewmum yes I've had one period since the MC. You're right I think I'm just hyper aware. I've just never seen that before. Thanks so much x

Emsnewmum · 17/07/2020 17:37

@chloedancer897

Did you have a period before this one as it probably would have come out with that ( but I'm no expert)

You could email the misscarriage association they are amazing and respond fast if your worried although they dont open weekends.

But honestly it can be totally normal to pass tissue in periods as it could just be the lining of your uterous shedding as normal, could be a bigger piece than normal and because you are super away you are noticing it!

Try to relax if you can and if you see more maybe call your epu for advice.

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Firevie · 17/07/2020 17:33

@Northernsoul90 yay so wine it is tmr then with home delivered Roka food💖
@MichT4 thank you! Hope you can also do something nice on the weekend xx

chloedancer897 · 17/07/2020 17:13

@Emsnewmum it was in May. So maybe it's from that? I didn't think about that 😞

chloedancer897 · 17/07/2020 17:12

@VP91x no I didn't because I'm in the hairdressers. If I pass any more I'll take a pic for the docs. What do you think it is? I really think my issue is implantation. It could have been a fertilised egg?

VP91x · 17/07/2020 16:34

@chloedancer897 did you keep it? Might be worth showing your GP?

@MichT4 love a little Boots trip, get out for a little bit. Although gutted that there are no testers atm, I want to change my foundation but, unsure on colour 😩 such first world problems. Xx

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Emsnewmum · 17/07/2020 16:32

@chloedancer897

I have passed tissue in come of my periods way before I ever started concieving and never had any problems from it I'm sure I looked it up and its not abnormal.

Also I was told when I was having my mmc that I had less than a cm of tissue left and they said it would come out with my next period. How long ago was your miscarriage ? Did you have a medical or natural one? Sorry I lose track of peoples stories

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chloedancer897 · 17/07/2020 16:21

Hey guys, massive TMI but I'm CD1 and just went to the loo and passed what looked like tissue? I've never had that. I sometimes pass small clots but this was like stringy and white mixed with blood but wasn't a clot. Sorry, I know that's not an attractive sounding sight but it's really scared me.

MichT4 · 17/07/2020 16:19

Enjoy your day tomorrow @Firevie. Sounds lovely 💕

@VP91x yeah that’s the plan. Need to detach myself from any expectation though, or I’ll keep possibly being disappointed. Will keep POAS, while you enjoy your toastie I’m sitting with a dry mouth trying to distract myself from liquids 😂
Might go to boots just for the hell of it to keep me occupied. I wonder if I should increase my vitamin intake although I am wondering when it becomes too much 🤔

MrsK21 · 17/07/2020 16:18

Good luck with testing @fafi! All sounds positive for you, really hope it's 3rd time lucky after all you've been through xxx

Northernsoul90 · 17/07/2020 16:17

@Firevie No I don't think there's any reason to not drink after an EPRC... not to my knowledge anyway! Enjoy! 🥰

Firevie · 17/07/2020 16:11

Thanks everyone! I am very excited about this plan for tomorrow! Something to look forward to🥰 hope you all have a great weekend, too! Treat yourselves! You’re all such amazing and strong women! Xx

VP91x · 17/07/2020 16:09

@Firevie that sounds like a brilliant plan. I love Roka 😍😍

@fafi fingers crossed for you!! 🤞

@MichT4 wispa is a brilliant choccie choice. Yeah it will definitely be a cycle to keep an eye on, anything could happen! Just do your opks a couple of times a day and DTD as and when you feel like it and see what happens❤️
I am so tired and now starving, but productive afternoon. Going to have a toastie and a sit down for an hour then get Bella xx

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fafi · 17/07/2020 15:59

Sorry I meant complete MC, what on earth would complete CM look like, haha!

fafi · 17/07/2020 15:58

@Firevie Hey! Thanks, I haven't had a period yet no, I was 6 weeks when I miscarried and the bleeding resulted in a complete CM so needed no medical assistance. I asked if I should wait before TTC and they said I might wanna wait until I had a cycle but didn't ask me to avoid DTD for 2 weeks / or wait explicitly.

I was gonna wait but I set myself a silly bet that if I got a +OPK we would try. I had never been successful with them before and just tracked BBT but had some spare so thought 'why not'. Low and behold I got a +OPK so we DTD! Figured why not!

In fact I haven't had a normal period since April because I also had a chemical pregnancy in May and then conceived again right away resulting in the MC in June. Crazy really. Fingers crossed for 3rd time lucky.

@Emsnewmum I have only had the will power because we have no tests in the house! Lets see how long I can wait when the box arrives, it'll be hard to resisted peeing on them all as soon as they arrive haha.

Thanks @MichT4 @Lollol86 @2020wish @Northernsoul90

2020wish · 17/07/2020 15:55

@Firevie that sounds like a lovely plan!! We have just celebrated our 1 year engagement last week and it’s my birthday next week so I’m thinking I might order myself some yummy Japanese food for that also now that you have put me in the mood lol

Firevie · 17/07/2020 15:47

@Northernsoul90 thanks 🥰🥰 can I drink post ERPC? I’m paranoid

Northernsoul90 · 17/07/2020 15:42

Good luck @fafi 🤞🏼🙏🏼

@Firevie That sounds lovely! Definitely go out and celebrate and enjoy a glass of wine (or 3) you deserve it! ☺️ xx

Firevie · 17/07/2020 15:34

Also it is my 4year anniversary with my hubby tmr / not wedding anniversary but of our first date. We just went on that one date and got together and the rest is history. Whilst it’s been a rubbish few weeks and as we have to self isolate for two weeks post my ERPC I have just decided I will order fancy food from Roka tomorrow (yummy Japanese food) - might as well celebrate the lovely people and things in our lives. Might even have a small glass of wine because why not hey?! Xx

Firevie · 17/07/2020 15:27

@fafi - fingers crossed for you! Sorry I may have missed this but have you had your first period since MC? I had my ERPC this Tuesday. Doc said no need to do pg test, my follow up is on 6 August. My bleeding from ERPC is starting to subside. All I’m doing is BBT at the moment but nothing else yet. Oh and doc said no DTD for two weeks lol. Basically just checking in to see where you’re at post MC. Thx xx

2020wish · 17/07/2020 15:20

@fafi so excited for you!! Fingers crossed x

Emsnewmum · 17/07/2020 15:20

@fafi

Ohhhhhhh good luck! I'm also on first cycle since mc. I don't have the will power you do though I'm only 9dpo and started testing sl as expected gotta bfn but def still go time. If my cycle runs as it should af due wed so il know by then!

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MichT4 · 17/07/2020 15:16

Good luck @fafi 🤞🏼🤞🏼

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