TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

@littletandme I can see a faint line 🥳 fingers crossed for some good like progression over the next few days xx

@DBTJ I can definitely see line progression! Xx

@Renna Sorry that you are having a bit of a thought time, it sounds like a lot to deal with! I hope you are feeling okay! Xx

@VP91x fingers crossed for your static/surge soon!! The flashing smileys drive me insane... I think I had 9 or 10 one cycle and no peak like you it's very frustrating xxx

I'd be very grateful for some line eyes please - just as a reminder, I had my first pg and MC end of May at 7.5 weeks and haven't had a period since. I had plenty of negative tests white as snow prior to today.
I think I may have ovulated between 30 June to 2 July which can put me at something like 11 - 13 DPO. I've had sore boobs on and off the last week or so and had a weird pulling cramp a few days ago.

I thought I'd take a cheapie one step pg test and I think I'm imagining things but there might be a vvvvv faint line. I want to think it's a very early positive but also think there's a real possibility I'm going bonkers.
I took it out of the casing too as lots of reflection on these tests.

Please help!! Xxx

@MichT4 I would second what @Baba458 says and consider letting your boss know so you have the support there if you need it. Sending you lots of love today xxx

@VP91x how many flashing smilies do you normally get? I hope you get your static soon and the Soy Iso's have done something to help.

@littletandme I can definitely see a line - tentative congratulations to you! I really hope this is a sticky one for you!

@Renna hope she manages to find her own space soon, not ideal when you want to be maximising DTD. Sorry to hear your OH's ex is being difficult too. Hope you manage to get some down time, sounds like you have a lot going on at the moment.

@DBTJ I can definitely see your lines are getting stronger. Again, tentative congratulations and pray you have a healthy 9 months to look forward to. These tests aren't the best either, I bet if you did a FRER you'd get a really good strong line! X

@MichT4 I'm ok thank you. Please take care of yourself.

So ladies, I've been having right sided cramps for the last few days on and off. I send a urine sample off thinking it was that but it came back clear. It's more like a stabbing pain, not like period cramps. Anyone ever had this? I'm 10DPO x

@VP91x Yeah I tend to do an early start early finish. I didn't tell him, and now it's awkward to bring up. I will tell him, no rush I guess. Just when the time is right I will mention it.

@DBTJ @littletandme Congrats on your lines and/or developing lines. Fingers crossed they develop nicely over the coming days.

@SmileyT How are you today?

@littletandme looks like my first FRER I did 2 days later was a strong line congrats xx

@DBTJ I assume the top one is today? There is still progress so that's the most important thing.

Aww @Bellabubble, I hope it' is just IB. How far along were you on previous losses?

@littletandme great news! Fingers crossed for some stronger lines of the next few days

Oh @Renna that sounds like a terrible time! Are you comfortable telling your sister your are TTC? Maybe there can be a code word between the two of you when you might be DTD so she can go out! Ha.

Just catching up on what I can :) been having stressful times lately with my step sons awful mother making my DHs life so so so difficult just to see his son 🙄 and my sisters BF broke up with her Saturday so I was round their house grabbing all my sisters stuff and she may now be living between ours and my mums temporarily... I said to my mum I hope she realises were currently trying to baby make.... lol so gonna make the DTD tougher! x
@MichT4 so sorry for what youre going through xx putting the ava back on probably felt good as you had the spotting for a while so you just wanted to know either way xx sensing hugs xx
@SmileyT hope you're doing well and I hope you can relax and try enjoy this lovely time xxx try not to think into everything too much xxxx

Morning ladies. 10dpo and a squinter!! Tweaked slightly to make it show up better on the photo but definitely very present IRL. Can't believe it, it's only our first proper cycle since the miscarriage.

Morning ladies, hope everyone is well.

@MichT4 Thinking of you 💕 you are stronger than you think, you are an amazing support on this group so please don't ever feel like you are being negative.

@DBTJ Good luck for today xxx

@Baba458 Sorry you got a bfn 😔. You still aren't out yet though 🤞🏼

Temptation got the better of me.... I took a test and received a BFN why do we do this to ourselves 😣 x

@VP91x Morning!! feeling ok today - but have started some spotting when I wipe (10dpo) but as much as I’d love to think it was ib, all my cycles post mc have started with spotting, so I’m not holding out hope for this cycle! Think I may look at some private tests for over the summer holidays, it will be 6mths next cycle! How are you? xx

@SmileyT yea i had a faint line 10dpo i have taken another at 12dpo and 13dpo. They aren't frer but i was hoping it would have been darker.

@Lollol86 & @MichT4 thank you hopefully the consultant rings early as it has dragged on long enough.

@SmileyT yes I'm thinking I may crack at 12dpo 🙈 xx

@VP91x I usually count every symptom as a sign and then end up sadly disappointed. However this month has been completely different.... I just don't want to experience disappointment again xx

@MichT4 I think you should tell your boss. You need looking after at the min, emotion can come at you at any time and if you have one of those moments it will be better that he/she knows so they can be supportive. The sadness surrounding all of this is inside you and it will show itself at some point. Try not to hold it in and keep it to yourself, sharing is caring as they say. Just tell your nearest and dearest and get that support you need xxxx ❤️

@SmileyT it’s so easy to watch isn’t it 😆

Hey @chloedancer897. I’m ok thanks. Not sure if any of it’s sunk in really. Even the positive test that once was. Maybe that’s a good thing. How are you? xx

@DBTJ good luck today xx

Thank you @Tink20058 xx

@VP91x @Baba458 I’m not too bad at the moment thank you. I’m at work already, actually quite a nice distraction coming in. Still can’t decide whether to tell my boss, it’s hard to just bring up.
I put my Ava back on last night and it felt oddly refreshing this morning, just to pick myself up and get back to it with (at the moment) no stress. Have a few calls to make today, see if I can get some answers/advice.

How are you? Flashing still? xx

@VP91x how are you? was it a flashy this morning? X

@Lollol86 haha I started Saturday I think and I'm half way through season 2 🤣

@Baba458 I reckon anything from 12dpo will give you a pretty accurate result on a FRER so don't feel bad for testing 🤞x

Hope you're ok @MichT4 ❤️❤️❤️

@MichT4 I am so sorry your going through this sending love ❤️❤️❤️ Xxx

@VP91x good morning. Well, I'm 11dpo today and still have no symptoms at all! I'm trying to not over think it but this is very unusual for me. Although I'm experiencing a few unusual things, like I woke up yesterday with sore thighs.... like I'd done a 1000 squats the day b4 (which I hadn't) , and their still sore this morning. My AF is due Friday and it's taking me all my strength not to test. I'm unsure if I can wait till Friday I may crack and take a test.
@MichT4 hope your feeling okay this morning. Sending lots of love and support your way xx