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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Started Ttc in July 2019

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Missgoldilocks · 09/07/2020 18:51

Hey! Looks like our thread filled up

@Positivity2019 @Wearenotyourkind @hwotsit @jx0x0

@Wearenotyourkind nothing us women can't handle. It was just like an uncomfortable smear but nothing to faint over how some women were saying it was but then again everyone is different. I didn't feel the dye go in or anything :)
How are you?? X

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Missgoldilocks · 10/07/2020 11:39

@Positivity2019 oh hunnie that is so sweet 🤗🤗🥰 I totally get you having that urge!! So so glad your partner is super supportive and understands. Bless you, I'm really hoping you get some good news of a very sticky bean soon! You do hear of people miscarrying and having ectopics and going on to get pregnant shortly after because they become more fertile. I totally have my fingers crossed for you and @Wearenotyourkind that it happens quickly!!

@hwotsit fingers crossed you get some good news but I do get that feeling of "nothing" in and thinking you are out. Xx

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jx0x0 · 10/07/2020 11:20

Oh well done @Missgoldilocks for setting up a new thread!

@Positivity2019 - How are you doing? x

@Wearenotyourkind - I am sorry things are so up and down for you. It must be such a testing time. Hopefully next week you'll feel some sense of renewed hope when you ovulate. Nice that you and @Missgoldilocks are cycle buds now!

Good luck to you all. I am on day 22 of 28 (or 29 normally). Not feeling any different to other months so not feeling too hopeful but keeping everything crossed.

Lets hope it's a lucky month for one of us.

x

Positivity2019 · 10/07/2020 11:17

Hi guys, thanks for the new thread @Missgoldilocks. I was in the old one just now then realised it was full and was like oh no how will I find my peeps. Then I went into emails and had links to the new thread.
So glad to hear your hycosy went well and you got some good news from it. Also that it wasn’t too uncomfortable. How are you doing just now?

@Wearenotyourkind I’m so sorry that you are feeling so sad at times and I can absolutely relate. However, I am glad to hear you’ve had your first AF and are looking to a new cycle. I’ll check out that book. I’m reading a lot at the moment and am always on the look out for something new and interesting to read.
I am also away to start taking Coq10 along with Vit B6 and Vit B complex and the pregnacare vitamin. Plus I still take iron for my blood loss.

@hwotsit @jx0x0 hope you are both doing fine. Happy belated birthday @hwotsit. I was upset when I turned 35 and now I’m nearly 36 and just have to keep rolling with it.

I am doing ok. Physically feel nearly 100%. Emotionally I have some ups and downs, however AF arrived on the 6th and it’s finishing today and it’s a relief to know things have returned to normal so quickly and that we can now start trying again safely.
I was incredibly emotional when I went to the supermarket the first time I could drive. I found two gorgeous neutral baby outfits and I bought them. I came home and unpacked the shopping and toyed with not telling my DP and just put it in the wardrobe. But I decided to tell him I’d bought it and that I needed it. It was so gorgeous and I was just so sad that I keep missing out on buying lovely things for us. I cried and he just hugged me for ages and told me he understood. I thought he might think I was crazy. Anyway, I’m not going to go mad buying lots of things. In that moment I just needed those little outfits and I have promised myself and him that I have bought them for a tiny person that we will have one day.
Talk about a mini essay. Thanks for being supportive and caring. I feel lucky to have found a good solid group. I’ve been a little absent but I’m feeling good now about moving into this first cycle TTC. ❤️

Missgoldilocks · 10/07/2020 11:03

@Wearenotyourkind I've heard about that book, glad it's helping you. Great we are cycle buddies! Let's hope for some good news xx

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Wearenotyourkind · 10/07/2020 10:17

We are cycle buddies now @Missgoldilocks!

Had a good cry yesterday and feeling a bit better today. Lots of people I know having babies at the moment, which is hard. I've been reading a really good book, if anyone is interested, it's called: 'the inpatient woman's guide to getting pregnant'.

Also got some extra vitamins. I've started taking high strength CoQ10, vitamin b6 and DHA. Also continuing with Agnus Castus. Still desperately trying to extend my rubbish LP.

Hope you're doing okay lovely @Positivity2019

Missgoldilocks · 09/07/2020 21:34

@Wearenotyourkind I hope it ends for you soon and you can start trying again! I I can only imagine, of course you'll have good days and bad days and you need all the support you can get xx

@hwotsit no worries! Where are you in your cycle? Cd12 for me, will start dtd from Friday ready for ovulation Sunday I think x

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hwotsit · 09/07/2020 19:27

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Wearenotyourkind · 09/07/2020 19:10

Thanks for the new thread! Ah you're a trooper - glad it was bearable and brilliant that you got good news. How do you feel about it?

I'm okay - good days and bad days. Some days I still feel so sad about losing the baby.
I'm on day 12 of first AF since MC, light now so hopefully coming to an end. Hoping I'll ovulate next week, so we can get back to trying.

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