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TTC with SMEP

139 replies

SmileyT · 07/07/2020 06:06

New thread for our SMEP adventures ❤️

Cycle days 1-7
◦ CD1 is your first day of full flow
◦ Stock up on Ovulation Predictor Kits (OPKs)
◦ Stock up on Pregnancy Tests
◦ Mark start dates on your calendar:
◦ CD8 = BD (“Baby Dance”/have intercourse/”try”) every other day until you receive a positive OPK (+OPK)
◦ CD10 daily OPK tests
Cycle day 8
◦ BD, and plan to BD every other day until +OPK
Cycle day 10
◦ Start daily OPK testing until OPK turns positive
+OPK day
◦ BD today, tomorrow, and the next day.
◦ Skip a day and BD one more time.
◦ Mark test day on your calendar: +OPK day + 15 = test day
◦ If OPK never turns positive, BD every other day until your period (AF or “Aunt Flo/Flow”) arrives or until CD35
Test day (or CD35)
◦ If AF has not arrived, take a home pregnancy test
◦ First morning urine (FMU) does not always yield the best results, you may wish to try with your second morning urine (SMU) or an afternoon test after a 3-4 hour hold (no liquids)

Anyone feel free to join us ❤️

OP posts:
Butterfly134 · 12/07/2020 10:30

Hi ladies, I hope you don’t mind me joining in. We’ve been following the SMEP as this is our cycle #2 ttc. I got a peak opk yesterday so DTD but not sure OH will be in the mood for it today (day after peak) would i still be in the running if I DTD tomorrow instead? Xx

serialplanner · 12/07/2020 09:44

@VP91x oh exciting key time! You are normally peak around CD21? Crazy we know these details hahahaha.

Good luck babe xxx

serialplanner · 12/07/2020 09:43

Hello @V1601

This was our fourth cycle and third one trying SMEP (Although first try of SMEP was silly because I didn't get a peak on a OPK) and the cycle most sex we managed in the fertile period so we are extremely fortunate.

CD7 - low - BD
CD8 - low
CD9 - low - couldn't be bothered to BD so tested again before bed another low so skipped
CD10- low - BD
CD11 - straight to peak - BD
CD12 - automatic peak - BD
CD13 - low - BD
CD14 - stopped testing - BD
CD15 - tested because we were too tired to BD again - low - no BD

We didn't skip and then do another day because the last BD was a Sunday so we were let's just go tonight when we don't have work to be stressed about.

I was very relieved we BD'd on CD10 because it went straight to a peak.

The last two times were a force so hopefully the baby was conceived before when it was more loving hehe

So we followed SMEP but also adjusted when we didn't feel like it I think it's @Seafrontsky that said to go with what you want as a couple too which is good for keep the pressure off DH and also if you have to keep trying makes it more positive long term.

We were also using conceive plus and this month I didn't bother sticking my legs up after sex! Equally I didn't dash out of bed to go toilet after so was naturally laying down for a few minutes.

Can't wait for more BFPS!

serialplanner · 12/07/2020 09:42

Hello @V1601

This was our fourth cycle and third one trying SMEP (Although first try of SMEP was silly because I didn't get a peak on a OPK) and the cycle most sex we managed in the fertile period so we are extremely fortunate.

CD7 - low - BD
CD8 - low
CD9 - low - couldn't be bothered to BD so tested again before bed another low so skipped
CD10- low - BD
CD11 - straight to peak - BD
CD12 - automatic peak - BD
CD13 - low - BD
CD14 - stopped testing - BD
CD15 - tested because we were too tired to BD again - low - no BD

We didn't skip and then do another day because the last BD was a Sunday so we were let's just go tonight when we don't have work to be stressed about.

I was very relieved we BD'd on CD10 because it went straight to a peak.

The last two times were a force so hopefully the baby was conceived before when it was more loving hehe

So we followed SMEP but also adjusted when we didn't feel like it I think it's @Seafrontsky that said to go with what you want as a couple too which is good for keep the pressure off DH and also if you have to keep trying makes it more positive long term.

We were also using conceive plus and this month I didn't bother sticking my legs up after sex! Equally I didn't dash out of bed to go toilet after so was naturally laying down for a few minutes.

Can't wait for more BFPS!

serialplanner · 12/07/2020 09:29

@duckii I used Clear Blue Connected the bluetooth one.

I can't see why it wouldn't work? That would be a lot more sex though so if it's too much for you maybe adjust the dates but if you guys are happy with it crack on :)

Vea1601 · 12/07/2020 09:12

Morning @serialplanner so good yo hear your positive news? How long were you ttc? Was this your first month doing smep xx

duckii · 12/07/2020 08:35

Hi I'm on cycle 3 of trying so would like to get smep but I have long cycles, averaged at 42 days. Will it still work? What opks and apps do people recommend also?

VP91x · 12/07/2020 06:57

Hey @serialplanner I'm on CD14 now, still waiting for ovulation, been getting twinges and high readings on OPKs but no peak/temp rise yet. Hoping not too much longer.

Glad to hear you are feeling well, exciting that you have a scan booked soon!! Xx

How is everyone?

serialplanner · 11/07/2020 23:04

@Hoping41 how are you getting on? And @VP91x ? Xx

serialplanner · 11/07/2020 23:03

@Vea1601 good luck! 5 days in a row = a BFP for us so fingers crossed!

@Jilly1988 thanks for asking I am good thanks. When my period was due had very strange cramps for a few days but now I don't feel anything just wee a lot and waiting for sickness to kick in. I am 5 weeks today and have an early scan booked in for 2 weeks time. So a different TWW! I am really excited and being positive but it is in the back of my mind that something bad can happen. Not drinking around drunkard friends is hard!

serialplanner · 11/07/2020 23:03

@Vea1601 good luck! 5 days in a row = a BFP for us so fingers crossed!

@Jilly1988 thanks for asking I am good thanks. When my period was due had very strange cramps for a few days but now I don't feel anything just wee a lot and waiting for sickness to kick in. I am 5 weeks today and have an early scan booked in for 2 weeks time. So a different TWW! I am really excited and being positive but it is in the back of my mind that something bad can happen. Not drinking around drunkard friends is hard!

AKcheer · 11/07/2020 09:14

@SmileyT oh no I’m so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. It must have been so hard. But it’s so positive you got your BFP not too long later - what a blessing.

It was our first month trying last month :)

VenusStarr · 11/07/2020 07:37

Haha @Vea1601 I suspect we might have to do 4 days in a row... I'm still early in my cycle though, cd9 today and already have ovulation cramps but hoping my body holds off until at least Monday 🤞

@Dizzttc good luck :)

Vea1601 · 11/07/2020 07:06

Cycle day 15 and Lh surge detected on CB digital with static smiley face. We dtd yday and now also have to do it for the next 3 days. FOUR in a row. Not sure I'm capable haha. Time to get that preseed out. Do the deed. Lie with my legs in the air. All the stupid tricks ha.

SmileyT · 11/07/2020 04:20

@AKcheer I had a MC in March after accidentally falling pregnant and then got my BFP exactly 16weeks later so it was our 4th cycle ☺️ how long have you been trying?

@Jilly1988 yeah I'm still very cautious but also just enjoying every minute... no real symptoms apart from fire nipples just can't wait to get to my early scan and see what is going on, feel like I've started another 4WW but also feeling so grateful 🙏 How are you doing? x

OP posts:
AKcheer · 10/07/2020 22:51

Hahaha good advice @SmileyT :) Thank you. I will try not to. I’m hoping it won’t - il just have to manage the hubby and make sure I’m not demanding around his PlayStation time! How long were you trying for?

Jilly1988 · 10/07/2020 22:20

@SmileyT and @serialplanner how are you both feeling now? Has the good news started to sink in?

SmileyT · 10/07/2020 21:23

@AKcheer I loved having SMEP as a guideline but just don't let it become a chore 😂 we had a few tears (probs from us both) over the months with me demanding that we must DTD because it's a set day x

@SonjaMorgan fingers crossed AF doesn't arrive for you x

OP posts:
AKcheer · 10/07/2020 19:35

Congratulations!
Oh wow this thread has such positive vibes! I’m on CD1 as good old AF made an appearance today :(. However I’ve decided to try this when AF goes! So it’s so good to hear everyone’s experiences.

SonjaMorgan · 10/07/2020 19:01

I will check out selling sunset, my DH works long hours and goes on business trips regularly so I am always on the look out for shows I can binge.

I have been feeling so crappy and tired the last week. AF due tomorrow but I don't always have regular cycles so could be anytime.

How is everyone else doing?

Dizzttc · 09/07/2020 21:20

@VenusStarr hi

Cycle day 18 for me i got my peak today and BD earlier. Im actually exhausted and its kind of becoming a chore but we're persevering. Having some ovulation pains already.

I cant lie i wish I ovulated as early in my cycles as you do lol

Beet of luck to you

VenusStarr · 09/07/2020 18:27

How's everyone getting on? Cd7 today and my opks are getting darker. I have ovulated as early as cd9, kind of hoping it'll be a few more days before I peak. We started smep on Tuesday, so going again tonight :)

Hoping41 · 08/07/2020 22:29

This is the thread for over 7 months ttc - sorry, I don’t know how to link it but you should be able to search for it.
6 months plus ttc (continuation of 6/7 months ttc) all welcome

Hoping41 · 08/07/2020 22:27

I also have 2 or 3 day periods that are very light! Wonder if that's a coincidence? The day 21 bloods are actually only for people with 28 (the "norm") day cycles. If you're not 28 days, you want to book it for 7 days before af is due. It was spoken about in the book I've just listened to, period power. I think when we're so needing info, we want it to be as accurate as possible.

Vea1601 · 08/07/2020 21:02

I'm cycle day 12 today. Day off dtd tomorrow thankfully. Very much not in the mood ha. Ovulation sticks still negative. Cycles can range from 26 to 31 days. Average is about 28/29. But then the odd random short or long one. Lh surge has been around day 15. But then we've rarely had sex on day 16 of 17. Normally day 13-15. Maybe we've not been doing it on the right day.. M

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