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TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

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VP91x · 04/07/2020 07:58

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

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MichT4 · 09/07/2020 16:21

@HE88 I imagine that is quite a nice feeling. Got any signs of anything so far?

@MrsK21 yes it has come back today after the dull ache thing this morning. It was more than I was happy with earlier but it’s calmed down again now.

I know it’s probably stupid but I’m tempted to take a test before I go tomorrow, but I don’t really know the point. Esp as I was thinking another cheapie to see if it’s darker, but I don’t have much faith in them now

I think they’ll do a test, they did last time and didn’t bother scanning me when it came back negative 😢😢 too many memories xx

MrsK21 · 09/07/2020 16:17

Hi @MichT4 I'm glad they're seeing you tomorrow. Fingers toes and eyes crossed it goes well tomorrow 🤞🏽hope you have something nice planned this evening to distract you. Has the spotting been back at all? X

HE88 · 09/07/2020 16:17

@MichT4 I'm doing fine thanks patiently waiting in my tww no idea how many dpo I am but I'm feeling really good about not knowing. Xx

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 16:12

Thank you @HE88. How are you doing? xx

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 16:12

Fingers crossed for you @Rebecca1992. When do you think you’ll test? xx

HE88 · 09/07/2020 16:11

That's good you have your appointment tomorrow @MichT4 keeping everything crossed for you xx

Rebecca1992 · 09/07/2020 16:00

@SmileyT ....thanks! 😊 I've a feeling about this month 🤞

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 15:57

@VP91x oh that’s not so bad then. Just want some answers, although appreciate they might be after a second blood test.

I tell you what, if this turns out to be ok, I need you to virtually slap me every time I worry. It doesn’t help at all. Just hope it’s all an unnecessary trip (aside from reassurance) Xx

VP91x · 09/07/2020 15:54

@MichT4 ah great news! they'd be able to see a yolk sac at least (I think that's the right terminology) I would think xxx

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MichT4 · 09/07/2020 15:52

@VP91x yeah they called and I’m going at 9am tomorrow. Have to go on my own. They said they’d scan me but I asked if they’d do anything else as I doubt they’d see anything now anyway. Hoping they take blood too xx

VP91x · 09/07/2020 15:46

@SmileyT just done a little OPK comparison as my easy one was definitely darker than it has been. Imagine if I ovulate by d14!! I'd become an ambassador for soy iso 😂 xx

TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)
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VP91x · 09/07/2020 15:45

@MichT4 so so glad they have referred you, do the EPU contact you now? Some doctors have no empathy sometimes they become so clinical they forget there's someone distressed at the other end of the phone. Xx

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MichT4 · 09/07/2020 15:44

Thanks @SmileyT and @Northernsoul90. I’m in tomorrow at 9am xx

Northernsoul90 · 09/07/2020 15:43

Glad they have referred you @MichT4 🤞🏼🙏🏼

SmileyT · 09/07/2020 15:31

@Lollol86 I took coq10 throughout the whole cycle as it helps with egg quality, DP also took it as it helps with sperm quality and calc flour is supposed to help with implantation in the TWW but I took it throughout my cycle as it has some other benefits. There is a YouTube video about implantation from Inge fleur which is where I got my recommendations x

@Rebecca1992 ideally wait at least a couple more days so that you know you will get an accurate result but if you do test there is no judgement here ☺️

@MichT4 glad they have referred you 🙏

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 15:27

Thank you for you lovely wishes. I did call, and spoke to a moron of a receptionist. Doctor called just now and first tried to say they wouldn’t see me until 7 weeks. I explained about the last miscarriage and he’s referring me now.
Think it plays in my favour I have mega long cycles as when I say 5 weeks, he’s probably thinking I’m stupid and over 6 weeks. Every cloud xx

Northernsoul90 · 09/07/2020 15:11

Let us know how you get on @MichT4 some GPs are just useless! Definitely call back as @VP91x says if you have no joy. Hoping that all is well and sending hugs xxx

MrsK21 · 09/07/2020 15:00

@micht4 you're not being negative at all dont worry about how you're coming across! Honestly this is a stressful time and everyone here appreciates that. We've been in this situation and totally get the anxiety you must be feeling so please don't apologise for your feelings.

I really hope the GP calls you back soon, though if they're as shit as mine you're better off calling them yourself ASAP as they're probably not treating it as urgent x

Diorissimo1985 · 09/07/2020 14:55

@MichT4 thinking of you and have got everything crossed that all is well lovely xx

Lollol86 · 09/07/2020 14:44

So I’m currently taking vitamin d and folic acid, I’ve seen some of you ladies comment about coq10 and calc Fluor, would someone be able to explain to me, why you take them, when to take them and how often please?

Rebecca1992 · 09/07/2020 14:41

Ladies, please STOP me!!⚠️ Currently 7dpo and had a full day of a heavy pulling type of feeling in my belly yesterday....I keep telling myself it's too early to even contemplate testing but my mind wonders....😓

VP91x · 09/07/2020 14:40

@SmileyT yeah I got her the exact same one, and some extra bits, haha! Oh so fab. Im dying to get my brows laminated. Glad you had a nice treat! 🥰 You can get home and comfy now. I've got a hair appt for the 15th xx

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SmileyT · 09/07/2020 14:36

@VP91x are you going to get her the exact same table? At least she is at nursery so you can get in and out. And yes I feel so fresh with my hair and brows done (although I'm pretty sure it's a little illegal 👀)

@MichT4 oh babe I really feel for you, do whatever will make you feel better and they should be able to do at least the bloods straight away so that you have peace of mind. Did you take the other test to compare to last weeks line? I agree definitely give the GPs a call if you don't hear back soon. Sending you so much love xx

@Rb486 no night shift tonight I hope? Yes such a treat isn't it, I always get so relaxed I want to nap here xx

HE88 · 09/07/2020 14:30

@MichT4 hope the gp calls you back ASAP and you get to see someone at EPU, sending you love xx

Rb486 · 09/07/2020 14:26

@SmileyT I’m in the hairdressers too. What a treat after all this time. I’m also falling asleep, I did a night shift last night and didn’t sleep before my appointment. I’m well and truly ready to jump into bed when I get home 😄

@MichT4 that is really nice they were so accommodating. Hopefully you can be seen ASAP. Let us know what happens, sending lots of love to you x