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TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

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VP91x · 04/07/2020 07:58

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

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Northernsoul90 · 09/07/2020 18:04

It really is @MichT4 so shit at the minute with covid. I know there's a good reason for it but that doesn't make it any easier, just know we will all be thinking of you and as soon as you're out OH will be waiting for you xxx

AC2020 · 09/07/2020 18:02

@MichT4 how far along do you think you are?

Northernsoul90 · 09/07/2020 18:01

@VP91x I am good thank you, I've ordered some coQ10 and some calc Fluor today and will start on the coQ10 as soon as it arrives. Im going to test on Saturday to see if I have a negative yet and then when I get that I will start doing opks I think. Just trying be proactive which is why I've ordered more supplements at least then I feel like I'm actually doing something towards getting pregnant whilst I'm waiting if that makes sense 😂.

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 18:01

@AC2020 thank you
Not sure I’ll see anything so early annoyingly, I just hope I get some answers (hopefully good ones!)

@Northernsoul90 thank you too. Going in alone is daunting but all of your virtual hand holds makes me feel comforted. Poor OH having to wait in the car! Bloody Covid!

VP91x · 09/07/2020 17:57

@Cels22 welcome 🥰 did you get a negative test after your MC? You might be super early which is why you won't see any further line darkening just yet 🤞

@Northernsoul90 hope so!! How are you? Xx

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AC2020 · 09/07/2020 17:57

@MichT4 I hope everything goes well tomorrow and you get to see your little one ❤️

Northernsoul90 · 09/07/2020 17:57

Fingers crossed for you @Rebecca1992 for your bfp! It's so hard waiting and the symptom spotting is enough to drive anyone crazy. I hope you can keep distracted until you are ready to test xxx

Northernsoul90 · 09/07/2020 17:57

Fingers crossed for you @Rebecca1992 for your bfp! It's so hard waiting and the symptom spotting is enough to drive anyone crazy. I hope you can keep distracted until you are ready to test xxx

Northernsoul90 · 09/07/2020 17:54

I'll be here for you tomorrow @MichT4 offering a virtual hand hold 💕. Definitely PMA all the way ladies! @SmileyT yes I think change the apps over 😁

@VP91x Those lines look good! I would say you aren't too far off peak hopefully the next few days you will get the static 🤞🏼

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 17:44

Hey @Cels22. Welcome to the group and congrats for your bfp.
I assume you weren’t tracking, so you don’t know when you ovulated?
When did you take the first test? Which are you taking?

Cels22 · 09/07/2020 17:35

Hey ladies, sorry to jump on your thread. This is my first time posting on here so not sure whether I'm doing this right!?😂

I've tried to read as many of your stories as possible and can totally relate to some of you. I had an early miscarriage on the 22nd of May. I've not had a period since then so tested last week and had a BFP. I have no idea how far along I would be but I'm worried my pregnancy tests aren't coming up dark enough. The only symptom I have at the minute is really sore boobs. I'm such a worrier! I've literally tested like 7 times 🙈

Sending you all positive vibes! 🥰💛 xx

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 17:30

@Rebecca1992 I am literally amazed at what a MC does to us. So many girls here, including me, weren’t doing a think pre falling before, wasn’t tracking or thinking about it at all. I can’t believe the impact of a MC, it makes it all feel so much more stressful and I really wish there was something done for people suffering losses to try and manage that a bit.
No suggestions as to what, but the mental affects are something else.

Just a random little outburst there, just think it’s sad the innocence gets taken and suddenly everything seems magnified.

Excited to see your results on Sunday, or earlier/later if you choose xx

Rebecca1992 · 09/07/2020 17:23

@MichT4 @SmileyT

I am trying so hard to hold off until at least Sunday (10dpo) to test, I wish I could hold off until AF is supposed to arrive but I have zero patience especially now that I'm symptom spotting!! I've had more CM the past 2 days that I usually don't get and a full tummy feeling since yesterday but again I drive myself mad so who knows if its anything really or whether I'm just on high alert for any symptoms!!

On my other 2 girls (7&3) I never tested early or done OPKs until I had a very early MC last month, i feel like I'm way over anxious now.

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 17:12

I meant I thought I’d said....

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 17:12

@VP91x I thought I’d say, but then I also think that was wildly different to my plan to wait a week so I was probably a secret tester. It still says pregnant so I’ll see how I feel in the morning, if not I can take that with me.

Hope to be joining in the PMA very soon 🤞🏼 Xx

VP91x · 09/07/2020 17:08

@SmileyT yes definitely change it to pregnancy mode! P. M. A all the way 🥳🥳

I know yeah, I think they get darker because the strip is thicker so can hold more dye.

@MichT4 thank you 🥰🥰 love how you casually drop in the digi you done. See how you feel in the morning, if you don't fancy it then, you've done a few already anyway Xx

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MichT4 · 09/07/2020 17:01

@SmileyT yes change the apps! All about the positivity (don’t mind me!), enjoy it! That’s what I was trying to do before I was greeted with hurdles!

And thank you, I hope you’re right and all is a-ok in there. I know it might get me ahead of the game, just so worried it’s not darker than last week. I’m torn whether to do one or not. I could always take the digi I did last Saturday (did I confess to that?) that said pregnant, If it’s still on there, so if they challenge me I can say I’ve taken that that morning. Scheming 😂

I was almost 7 weeks last time xx

SmileyT · 09/07/2020 16:55

@VP91x it's crazy how that easy at home one looks so much brighter can't work out if I like them more than femometer ones... I was thinking about switching all my apps to pregnancy mode as I'm going for this blindly positive attitude 🙈

Ahh really hope you get your BFP @Rebecca1992 🙏 will you test in the morning? x

@MichT4 my EPU also did a test before scanning me last time, and I don't think it's stupid to do a test but I'd do the one you did last time, so you can compare tests over a week rather than over 1 day (like I did today). I'm sure you've said but how far along were you last time? Hope you know that we are all behind you, but I've got a feeling everything is going to be fine x

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 16:51

Thank you @VP91x. And I, yours. Here for you tomorrow too lovely 💕💕 xx

VP91x · 09/07/2020 16:49

@MichT4 hopefully they don't cause too much fuss, will be virtually holding your hand tomorrow morning xx

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MichT4 · 09/07/2020 16:42

@VP91x yeah I guess. I did tell them I’d done one today and it was positive. I might do one in the morning, could either do the digi without the weeks, or the cb line one like I did last week.

Your OPKs look promising by the way. I don’t reckon that’s far off at all 🤞🏼

VP91x · 09/07/2020 16:37

@MichT4 I'd take a digi if you do it, or a proper stick one instead of a cheapie just in case. But, I always go into situs like this ready to defend myself because sometimes you get fobbed off when you know something is up xx

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MichT4 · 09/07/2020 16:35

@VP91x yeah you’re right. I’m hoping as the test was positive this morning that it will be tomorrow too, if they do one.
Do you think I should take my own in the morning? xx

VP91x · 09/07/2020 16:33

@MichT4 regardless of what their tests say, make sure they scan you. They never tested me before scanning me, interesting how they all work differently. Take your digi test with you. Don't feel silly for being so anxious though, please. I would be exactly the same!! xx

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HE88 · 09/07/2020 16:27

@MichT4 no symptoms really although I had a bit of a sore head before bed last night and then woke this morning with it still sore and I've been feeling a bit sick today which I've never really had before in my tww but I'm not reading into it too much! Xx

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