TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

@Lollol86 I don’t think so because I already got my bfp. It could be what @VP91x said, secretions from implantation, like leftovers.
It’s stopped again now.

Oddly, it was after a bowel movement (no polite way of saying it is there? Think I’d rather say poo) so a bit like the ewcm chat we had, maybe it just pushed it out? I’ll just keep an eye and a positive mind.

Your week away sounds lovely, r&r is always needed. Enjoy xx

@Lollol86 have a lovely holiday cottage sounds bliss xx

I've decided to hold off retesting until Monday then if it is a positive it will def be a stronger line x

We are just on our way to Devon, we were due to go to Spain in May but it got cancelled for obvious reasons and then with the miscarriage we decided to book a week in a cottage with the kids for some much needed R&R, anyway the girls are in the back watching frozen 2 😂😂 standard

@MichT4 could it just be implantation bleeding?

@Dipsy77 congratulations lovely there is definitely a line there, everything crossed for you this time round.

@chloedancer897 TWW for me too, hopefully it doesn’t drag too much

@VP91x I didn't think that at all! SMEP is stressful. I honestly couldn't do it month after month!

Into my TWW now (the worst!) hope everyone is hanging in ok x

@MichT4 try not to worry (easier said than done, I know) and enjoy your nieces birthday. It'll be a nice distraction for you xo

Thanks for the new thread, fingers crossed for some more July BFPs!

@MichT4 glad ur ok, ur bound to
Worry though thats alls iv done, yeah im ok, im 10 weeks monday and times dragging to be honest but i have my 12 week scan dead on 12 weeks so only 2 weeks to wait until then.

Sad that partners still cant come to hosp scans but private ones its fine as far as i know,
Lets hope it changes soon 🙏🙏 x x

@Bellabubble I just told my sister, so she’s now busy planning how we can hide it 🥰😂
I don’t think anyone will ask to be honest, it’s only because I see this sister all the time and she would be curious.

Definitely sounds like you’ve ovulated. Time to relax now!

@Hayleylou89 yeah I’m ok. Just trying not to panic about everything!
I probably will yes, I’ll ask EPU if I can have it there and if not, or if OH can’t come, I’ll do a private one. Not for a few more weeks though

How are you doing? xx

Hope ur ok @Mich2020 would u be getting an early scan ? Xx

Aww @Dipsy77 I hope to see that line get stronger for u!! 💖💙🌈

@Bellabubble yeah thats exaclty how it worked with me on NC x x

@MichT4 what about saying your are trying to avoid alcohol as you are ttc? If anyone questions it or tries to pressure you, you can always say it’s something you read and you really want to try it out this month to see if it helps?

@SmileyT lol - I knew you were the data queen so I think that’s why I thought you had nc!! I like it - but it seems to take a few days to definitely confirm ovulation which I always thought it would be quicker about!!

@hayleylou89 - do you use NC? Did you find it took a day or 2 to confirm ovulation?

My temp went from 36.06 to 36.56 today - so I’m kinda thinking I ovulated yesterday - as my LHsurge was weds eve!

Dipsy77 - I can see a line too! Congratulations :) hopefully it goes from strength to strength! I understand the worry though - I’d be the same! xx

@Littlebee1990 @AC2020 welcome to this wonderful group, and sorry to hear what you’ve both been through.
I hope you get comfort here and sending lots of luck to you xx

@Jazper I’ll definitely be using the antibiotics one at some point I’m sure

@Rb486 my gosh I needed to read your post and those commandments. Absolutely spot on. Thank you so much 💕

Thank you all so much. I feel very lucky to have found you all 🥰 xxx

@Rb486 I love the commandments of pregnancy you posted 🥰 hopefully we will all be telling ourselves these one day soon 🤞🏼

@VP91x thanks for the new thread!

@Littlebee1990 @AC2020 so sorry for your losses and welcome! I hope you find lots of advice and support here which I’m sure you will. Fingers crossed for you both xx

Ladies who temp - I keep forgetting to do to it as soon as I wake up! So if I have woken up, gone downstairs and then remembered does this mean I shouldn’t record that temp as it will be affected?

@Dipsy77 I can defos see the line!! Yay. Hopefully only to get stronger. Excited for you to test again in a few days.

@Littlebee1990 I’m on CD5 too. I’ve just had my first period after m/c and I’m unsure as to if and when I may have ovulated last cycle. So this is my first one TTC. Fingers crossed for the both of us xx

@MichT4 I think increased d/c is normal. I wouldn’t worry at all. I think if you want to tell your fam you should. May make you feel more comfortable at family events and then you won’t have to make any excuses for drink. We should be able to get excited about our baby’s even if we are scared. I saw this on Facebook actually. Maybe it may help to read once a day. Xx

Thank you for the new thread @VP91x !

Welcome @Littlebee1990 and @AC2020 , this is a lovely group. You will find lots of support here.

@MichT4 ,you could tell people you are on antibiotics and so can't drink while taking them. I know it's the oldest line in the book but works.

Hi everyone hope you don't mind if I jump on the thread with you all.
Had a mc on 1st May at 10 weeks although baby stopped growing at around 6. Currently on first month of trying post mc. Ovulated on the 26th now had a couple of days of brown blood discharge, I remember I had a couple of days of this last time I got pregnant so really trying to be positive and hope for the best 🌈
Sending luck to everyone else on here ❤️

Thanks for the new thread!

I missed checking in yesterday as I was busy but I see some lovely new bfps!! So happy for you ladies xxx

@SmileyT tough love is exactly what I need! Honest advice and a reality check please. This means everything because it’s lovely you have my back to enjoy this time. Thank you xx

Thanks for the new thread x

@MichT4 You've got this 👊 I'm so confident that whatever you decide to do with telling your family will be the right thing. Always come on and tell us your fears, which are all valid feelings, but I'm going to give you some tough love in the corner because I don't want you to look back on your first trimester and just remember fear. Unless you tell me to shut up in which case I will sharply do that xx

@Littlebee1990 welcome and I'm so sorry for your recent loss xx