TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

@VP91x yip that's right I'm in Scotland 😊 xx

Hi all, I hope you don't mind me jumping in on this thread. I'm still trying to conceive after a miscarriage at 8 weeks in December 2018. Since then have had no luck and now contending with OH having a low sperm count and crap motility and me having found out I have high FSH and being told I'm probably pre menopausal now.

Congrats to all this who have their BFP!

@VP91x I bought some one step ultra sensitive 5ml/hcg so I will probably try the 13th/14th 11/12dpo

Yes @Jazper I'd say it's too diluted and probably also quite early so you're definitely not out, I did a test about 10dpo with last pregnancy and it was negative at that point.
But at least you can join the crazy early irrational testing gang with me and @Eli2020 🙌

@VP91x I know right!! I'm wrecked!! Of course hes delighted 🙈 I'm 3 dpo so wondering how soon I could test?? I know I definitely wont last until AF is due I am so impatient x

If someone, after swearing blind to all and sundry that they were NOT going to test early this cycle, did just that at 10dpo using MIDDAY urine (crazy I know! 😫) would the test most likely show negative even if that someone was pregnant?
Asking for a friend 🙈😂

@MichT4 I know people can be so insensitive! I hope you are feeling better now and having positive signs 🌈

@VP91x hey lovely to speak with you again. How are you? Where are you in cycle now?

I think if I speak to my doctor she will say it’s too early and that things may not settle for a few months. This is 4 months since mc. I was taking vitex to help regulate cycles after breastfeeding and stuff. I stopped taking it as I was worried what would happen if I did fall pregnant, like would I just stop taking it? That would play with hormones and then if I carry on taking it through pg is it safe? It’s not doctor recommended so I just thought when I stopped bf to stop taking it and go natural. So yup nothing apart from ttc vitamins. My doctor isn’t very nice tbf- she’s always too blunt and short with me. I stay for the midwife who is lovely! X

Ah sorry for multiple posts but just remembered I'd read through and not actually congratulated @MichT4 !!! So pleased you got your BFP and my SIL has multiple bleeds during her pregnancy and all was absolutely fine...I say this but I'd probably be worrying too! Have you spoken to EPU? (Sorry if you've already said)

Thanks for sorting the dates for everybody @VP91x and that does not sound like a fun Sunday, well done for being productive though!

@Northernsoul90 aw sorry to hear that. Mine was a blighted ovum too 😟 it was horrible seeing the scan with nothing there. I didn’t need medical management and it was natural and happened in March. Cycles regular but I’m getting this spotting early all the time.
Aw that’s annoying that you still test positive. I hope that things settle down again soon for you 🤞

@Eli2020 I'm an Essex girl I'm afraid...but nothing like one! Sorry about your BFN, I sympathise, I never test before AF usually because it's too heartbreaking but I've just got a feeling I am. Not really a legitimate symptom and DH thinks I'm raving mad but my belly looks pregnant. Sounds stupid I know but it feels hard and rounded, hard to explain but I've been eating healthier this month so it looks like it's popped out of nowhere 🤷‍♀️ if I'm not pregnant I need to start doing some exercise lol
Glad there are some others due around the same time so I can revel in a BFP or 3 even if it's not mine!

@Wishingfornumber2 Thanks. Hope you are feeling good. Where are you in cycle? X

@SmileyT @AC2020 @elliew818 fingers crossed 😍 and best scenario we all get bfps 🥰 where do you live ladies? I live sort of between Morden and Sutton x

@SmileyT @Eli2020 @elliew818 🤞🏻❤️

@Eli2020 @AC2020 @elliew818 yeah 28 day cycles for me aswell... the odds say at least one of us should get our BFP next week 🤞 🤞 no symptoms over here apart from a few pains around right pelvis, knackered and if I squeeze my boobs enough they hurt 😂 but I've noted these on previous cycles so who knows. I also had surgery for MC in March so 4th cycle I guess x

@Eli2020 they can be.
I've just felt tired these past couple of days really but nothing more. Fingers crossed it's not an AF pimple! 🤞🏻

Just seen it didnt tag @SmileyT and @elliew818 in my previous message

@AC2020 sorry to hear you've been through this 🙁 for me this is my 4th cycle after miscarriage in the end of March. Also now I read your other message about people commenting-makes me so angry how insensitive some people can be 🙁

@SmileyT @AC2020 and @elliew818 I think we are all cycle buddies due on the 11th 😍 my cycles are 28 days btw. Does anybody have any symptoms at all 😃 I acquired a pimple yesterday and another one today and that's not super common for me-it's 50/50... sometimes I get a pimple before AF sometimes I don't But that's all I can contribute symptom-wise 😅Anybody else having any actual legitimate symptoms ?

@SmileyT I'm 28 day cycles