TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

@Northernsoul90 thank you I'm hoping we find an answer after these tests and something can be done🤞🏻🤞🏻x

@HopeForRainbowbaby thank you I'm only 36 so I'm trying to remain hopeful. Was a bit shocked when she said pre-menopausal as I'm still relatively young (in my eyes anyway lol) x

@Tink20058 yes it would have been due anywhere between Friday and today depending which app I was looking at.
It’s reassuring to hear it can happen and be fine. Had you had a positive test before the first time it happened? How much was it?
Sorry for all the questions, probably shouldn’t ask as this could be totally different. Just really want this to be ok xxx

@Eli2020 yes definitely better if we all get BFPs 🥰 I'm born and bred in Essex but now in Edmonton, North London x where in Essex are you from @elliew818 ?

@MichT4 would you be due your period around now? I have bled every month around my period due date first month was fresh then brown I still had spotting yesterday when I would have been due, I had early scan when it happened second time and was told it’s normal and she could see a tiny spot of bruising that was just coming away, don’t loose hope I know easier said then done xxx

@MichT4 I hope you’re feeling okay and that you can get some advice tomorrow. I’ve got everything crossed for you! 🤞🏼🌈✨

That’s great to hear @Northernsoul90. You know it’ll be your turn soon, and you will be on those shopping trips xx

Thank you @Diorissimo1985 and @mrsssk

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I really hope all you ladies waiting to test get your bfps this month 🤞🏼🙏🏼 the tww is a killer and I pass no judgement on early testers as I am a serial tester even after getting a bfp 😂

I’m quite proud of myself today, my sister is pregnant and due in September and since the mc I have found it hard to talk about anything pregnancy related. Today though I actually quite enjoyed chatting about it and it made me feel even excited I suppose about the thought of getting pregnant again. She is going on a shopping trip with my mum for baby things next week which gave me a twinge of sadness as I felt like I should have been going and buying things (I could still go but that is way too much for me atm) but I just tried to busy my thoughts elsewhere and I was fine again 😊. I am very close to my sister and want to be able to support her so I’m glad I felt a bit less weird about things today!

@MichT4 I totally get how worried you must be. My sister had a period like bleed with both of her kids and on and off throughout pg, I really hope it's nothing and the EPU can give you some reassurance tomorrow x

@chloedancer897 I'm 11 CD and got my smiley on CB today confirmed with cheapies too. So I will likely ovulate tomorrow;)

@Jazper it is definitely too early. My first pregnancy ( MC) was lightest line at 11 dpo... I had really move it around to find the line. When will you test next time ? I'm also trying to convince myself not to test too early this cycle. I expect to be 1 dpo in two days wohooo

@Hayley19835 welcome to group! I'm sorry to hear your story! But there are many women who get pregnant later in the life, I know of many cases in their 40s. And it sounds like you are both being checked and get some help ❤️Baby dust dear 😘

@MichT4 sorry to hear about the blood - could be perfectly fine, I’ve everything crossed for you

Hi @Hayley19835 welcome to the group! I’m sorry that you have had such a hard time ttc after mc. Hopefully the ultrasound and blood tests will show something that can give you some answers and advice 🤞🏼🤞🏼 xx

@Eli2020 don't think I felt implantation but have been having some pains near my right hip, boobs are bigger, increased smell, bad skin so basically all AF symptoms or pregnancy symptoms so the only thing that's convincing me is the belly.
Where are you originally from out of curiosity? Yeah I wouldn't even want to google typical Essex girl tbh, we have a bad rep!
@MichT4 hopefully they'll be able to give you some reassurance tomorrow 🤞

@Jazper still your pee would have been way too diluted! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. I think it's best to test at 12 dpo (says the woman who knew this perfectly well yet decided to test at 8 dpo 🤦‍♀️). Have you had any symptoms? X

@VP91x
We were referred in December through NHS to local fertility clinic, so I've had all the routine tests all normal bar my FSH which has been retested this week. OH has had no investigation just his SA which they said take multivitamins, no hot baths etc re-tested at 3months and it had got worse 🤦🏼‍♀️ so he's having ultrasound and genetic bloods on Friday

@VP91x only brown now, but still there 😢

@elliew818 when you said you are an Essex girl but nothing like one ... I'm not originally from the UK and when I first moved here to study and lived up North and had not met anybody from Essex I remember watching a TV programme and a girl said "I'm a typical Essex girl" and I actually had to google "what's a typical Essex girl" 🙈🙈🙈

@Jazper thank you, he has an ultrasound Friday and genetic bloods being done also. I've had another FSH done so hoping for some answers as too what is going on with us both. Never imagined when TTC#1 I'd be this far down the line and still no where close. It's certainly changed my perspective on life and what we take for granted x

Thank you @Eli2020 . Oh and I did use FRER but still hoping it was too diluted. Give me all the hoooooppppeee 🙏🏼😫

That crazy I posted it twice 🙈

Welcome to the group @Hayley19835 , sorry to hear you are struggling after your mc. That's a lot to contend with but keep positive. This group will keep your spirits up along the way xx

@VP91x I am ok thank you. Have kept busy today but of course it’s always on my head. I just want to go to the loo and it not be there.

And thank you @elliew818. I went to call for advice but they are Monday-Friday so I’ll call tomorrow. I doubt they can do much, maybe a blood test, but just so they can advise I might give them a call.
Thank you for telling me your SIL experience. It’s good to know hope isn’t lost, but it’s just to disheartening why these things are sent to test is xxx

@elliew818 it made me happy when I read that!!! I genuinely hope you are pregnant 🤞🤞 please keep me posted how you are getting on! Did you feel implantation? I had some pulling and pinching feeling at 4 dpo but I know it's impossible for it to be implantation that's early! And if it was this test wouldn't have been negative this morning. Which brings me to ... hi @Jazper please do join our gang of early testers 🙈 I think your pee would definitely have been diluted! What test did you use?

Seriously @VP91x 😩😂 EVERYTHING inside of me was screaming 'NOOO! DON'T DO IT!!! ARE YOU CRAZY?!' And I was just like 'yeah' 🤷🏽‍♀️ and did it anyway 🙈🤣
And two days time, I'll take that as an order 😁😁 yes, put me down for then x

Happy to be part of your gang @elliew818 and @Eli2020 . Reassuring to know there are other crazies in the group 🙌🏼

Seriously @VP91x 😩😂 EVERYTHING inside of me was screaming 'NOOO! DON'T DO IT!!! ARE YOU CRAZY?!' And I was just like 'yeah' 🤷🏽‍♀️ and did it anyway 🙈🤣
And two days time, I'll take that as an order 😁😁 yes, put me down for then x

Happy to be part of your gang @elliew818 and @Eli2020 . Reassuring to know there are other crazies in the group 🙌🏼