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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

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VP91x · 04/07/2020 07:58

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 08:39

@MichT4 no didn't get any side effects actually - it can give you headaches and stuff apparently. My temps are nice and stable so maybe that has helped. It says anywhere from 3-10 days but between 7-10 days after is the norm. Even 10 days after would bring me to CD17 which is like 5/6 days before what I have been.

I understand, you'll have a scan soon too if you decide to book so you can get some extra reassurance ❤️

Erm, it was at 8ish weeks. Literally felt like I was coming on, you know that little gushy feeling you get (sorry!) and then just bled that whole day. I went straight to A&E as it was fresh, the gynae saw me and done bloods then checked my cervix said all was closed and then said my hormones were really high so she would hazard a guess that things might be okay. Had a scan the next day at the EPU was still bleeding but saw a HB. The bleeding stopped the next day 🤷 all fine from then on xx

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Northernsoul90 · 06/07/2020 08:35

@2020wish that is awful and so spiteful! She is obviously very bitter and as others have said projecting her own issues your way. So uncalled for. I hope you are okay ❤️

@Dipsy77 Congratulations! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy 🌈✨

MichT4 · 06/07/2020 08:31

@VP91x Do you feel any different with the Soy? I guess time will tell. Any expectation as to when ovu will happen? Excited to see if they work for you. Will be nice to not have to wait so long for ovulation.

I don't know whether to call or not. I don't think they'll offer anything unless it's heavy and painful, so they'll probably just tell me the same as I was planning. Also, if (god forbid) it wasn't good news, I kind of want to keep it quiet for now so I can still be referred for tests in September - otherwise they might start the 6 months again from now. Silly, I know, but I think because it isn't awful at the mo, maybe I should just put some trust in my body and hope it passes.
What do you think?
At what stage did you bleed with Bella? What was it like? xx

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 08:28

@MichT4 will you still call the EPU to see if they'll do bloods or not? I know it's all such a rollercoaster, but I think these bleeds are really quite common but of course scary. As I said before, my bleed with Bella was much much more than my MC. Bodies are just weird.

Yeah, get some time out of the house for sure. Going to start my cheapies today and CB tomorrow. Although I read that you shouldn't do them for a couple of days after your last dose of the soy because it might give you false positives but will be good to get a rough idea. Xx

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MichT4 · 06/07/2020 08:23

@VP91x I am, sadly. OH has gone back today too so it's very strange in the house.
I need to do a food shop too so will probably pop out at some point and do that.

I hope so, fingers crossed. Why can't everything just be simple?

Are you starting OPKs today or did you decide to still hold on a few days? xx

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 08:21

@MichT4 I'm sure your little bean is nicely nestled deeply in there ❤️ it was probably a implantation/breakthrough bleed just making its way out like everyone said 🥰. Glad you are okay xx

I'm all good! Will just go for a long walk/do a food shop etc today. Are you working?

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HopeForRainbowbaby · 06/07/2020 08:15

@Dipsy77 the lines look so good ! congratulations ☺️wishing you healthy and super enjoyable 9 months

MichT4 · 06/07/2020 08:15

@VP91x I am ok thank you. It's still there, but very slight and just brown. Currently it's more brown tinged CM than spotting I think. Obviously it could come back worse so I'm not getting hopes up, but I'm hoping it's making its way out and that'll be it.
I still have sore boobs and feel sicky so I just have everything crossed that the little bean has held on.

How are you? Any plans today? xx

HopeForRainbowbaby · 06/07/2020 08:09

@2020wish awful behavior... I think people who are sour in the lives just can't help themselves to pour their nasty thoughts around... I'm a believer in having people around who value and support you. As it is mom of your partner's children, on long term it is best to be civil with her but as you are going through things, I would just keep the distance. She is not worth your tears dear. Big hugs to you ❤️😍

Hayley19835 · 06/07/2020 08:03

@Dipsy77 🌈 congratulations! X

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 08:03

@MichT4 how are you this morning xx

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Hayley19835 · 06/07/2020 08:03

@Dipsy77 🌈 congratulations! X

Rebecca1992 · 06/07/2020 07:49

@Dipsy77 Wow that's such a strong line for so early! Congrats 👏❤ x

Dipsy77 · 06/07/2020 07:32

Thanks everyone I'm buzzing at the minute although still very nervous
@Rebecca1992 I'm 10dpo I think I implanted early (6dpo) I usually do xx

ManchNic · 06/07/2020 07:23

@SmileyT thank goodness, I don't think I could keep up with another thread 😂 x

@Dipsy77 congratulations!!

@2020wish sorry the ex is being so awful, like others have said though, when someone behaves like that it's almost always nothing to do with you, and just them being jealous and spiteful. What a horrible person to do that though x

AC2020 · 06/07/2020 07:15

Huge congratulations @Dipsy77 🌈❤️

Rebecca1992 · 06/07/2020 07:12

@Dipsy77 huge congrats!! ❤ Wishing u a healthy and happy 9 months and beyond!! Where were you in your cycle??

Dipsy77 · 06/07/2020 06:57

@MichT4 thank you you too xx

MichT4 · 06/07/2020 06:54

@Dipsy77 huge congratulations lovely! I knew that line would get darker. Wishing you a healthy, happy 9 months!

@Girlmum83 thank you! I’ll give them a call later and just see what they would usually suggest. Not sure there’s much they’ll say given how early on it is, but I’m sure they’ll give guidance - even if it’s what I already have said which is to test in a week. They might be nice and offer blood tests but I doubt it.

@2020wish I can’t believe this woman! She’s definitely got her own issues, one of which is real jealousy! Don’t know how people can be so spiteful.

Dipsy77 · 06/07/2020 06:53

@Rainbowhope11 thank you 😊 xx

Rainbowhope11 · 06/07/2020 06:34

@Dipsy77 yesssss!!!! Congratulations lovely! What a strong line😊 so happy for you! Xx

Dipsy77 · 06/07/2020 06:13

@VP91x thanks lol yes I think so too xx

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 06:11

@Dipsy77 oh, and it was definitely the rose!😂Xx

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 06:11

@SmileyT yeah, if I have another mental no ovu month then I'll get one just to see my level.

How are you feeling this morning? How are your temps doing?

@Dipsy77 massive congratulations knew you'd great a strong line today! ❤️❤️ Wishing you a happy & healthy pregnancy xxx

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SmileyT · 06/07/2020 06:06

@VP91x @Northernsoul90 I just had a look at these day 21 prog tests and OH was like you know you're ovulating because your temp goes up why are you going to pay £40 to check this every month 🙄 I'm a bit late in this cycle but if I have another month where my temp is erratic might try it out just to check x

@ManchNic oh sorry I didn't mean a seperate thread just a few of us all due the same day x

@2020wish that is awful what she said I hope a good nights sleep and lots of cuddles from OH has you feeling slightly better this morning x

Hope everyone is doing well this morning xx

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