TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

Morning ladies, just checking in and wishing you all a good week ... fx for more peak smileys and maybe some bfps this week! Who is testing over the next few days?
Love to you all xx

@MichT4 I'm sure it will be a nice strong line for you, I think if people have issues in the first 5 weeks normally they just get their periods so it's a great sign it's just a little bit of tinged CM❤️ ahh just train track issues which mean that my train wasn't running so going a long way round, always good to be over an hr late on a Monday morning 😂

@Renna so I got my peak on CB on CD13 like normal but then no clear temp rise and then I got a really high opk about 3 days later. I'm just waiting it out now, just decided there was no point in stressing if I didn't ovulate it doesn't really help me to know I guess x

@Renna just to add, I waited until 13DPO which is my normal LP. I think the apps will adjust your expected AF to match previous LP

@MichT4 sounds similar to me, I was so down on Wednesday last week as I had been bleeding or spotting for 2 weeks so kind of accepted that ovulation wasn't going to happen any time soon, I even called EPU to find out if I should be worried about spotting for two weeks, then suddenly my OPK went super positive the next day. Talk about a quick turnaround.

@Dipsy77 congrats to you xx thats fab news x

@MichT4 thanks hun xxx

@Dipsy77 thanks for reply hun , that's interesting! Congratulations on BFP 🌈 how did you confirm you ovulated did you use opks? Xx
Obviously yours resulted in a lovely BFP so did you wait until AF was normally due to test or did you count a fresh DPO for like 14 days?
As If i do ovulate late I'm now wondering when AF would be due as I know the luteal phase should always stay the same and mine is always 14 days .x x

@Renna I think it was 5 or 6 days later than I expected. I got my first 'peak' OPK on the 12th, and then no temp rise. Got a proper peak on the 17th and then for a couple of days. I think I then ovulated 19th or 20th.
No idea what happened. Was my first month of both OPKs and temping so I can't compare it really, but it meant my cycle was super long so it was definitely late ovulation. I put it down to stress to be honest. After I had sort of accepted I wasn't going to ovulate, I stopped thinking about it so much and then it happened.
I think if the 2nd line is getting darker then that's a good sign. Hope it comes soon for you

@renna yes I ovulated cd19 I'm usually cd13/14 xx

@Rebecca1992 Hi! I am due AF on 17 July and this is my first cycle since MC too! It's comforting to know there are people out there who are going through the same thing at the same time.

@Dipsy77 what a great line - so exciting! xx

@MichT4yeah got cheapies too been doing one in morning and one before bed but no change in them . But I guess CB must be picking up on something... the oestrogen.. but who knows. I'll just have to keep going with the tests see if it appears . Feel like giving up now as it's really unlike me to peak this late but never know I guess !
I think the second line on my CB seems bit darker today but I've never worked out what those lines mean.
How late did you ovulate? Xxx
@SmileyT haha same so strange as I was like I'm so regular I wont bother with opks then thought actually I'll just do it to be sure then this happens ... strange ... you did get a peak reading though ? How late was it for you compared to normal? X
Yeah just been DTD whenever but still feeling well covered for whenever ovualtion may be ...! . Probably a good thing considering if I did smep I'd probs feel stressed by now with this late ovualtion . Whens AF due for you ? Later in the week? Xx

@littletandme One day before ovulation is very good 👍 you are well covered!

So we have got many ladies testing next week ! Hoping for many BFPs ☺️

@SmileyT yeah I think I'd be disappointed when they just say to wait, so no point really.
Yeah I hope as it's so early, the test in a few days will be accurate. Makes it a terrifying test to take though!

Why is your commute so bad? What a pain in the bum! xx

@VP91x I hope so. It's a shame when these things throw you off. Yesterday, me and OH barely discussed it, like it hadn't happened. It's self protection I guess, but really we should be celebrating.

😂😂 what's she up to today? xx

@VP91x I'm all good thanks, although my normally 50min commute has already been 75 minutes and I'm still at Tottenham Hale and have to get to Baker Street 😩 how are you doing today? Attached my chart, still no idea what any of it means but my RHR is not as expected either 🤷🏾‍♀️

@MichT4 glad you are feeling better this morning and spotting seems to have subsided. I'd definitely do a test in a few days, unlike with a later MC if anything did happen in the first few days the test would show you so may give you some confidence. Depending on your EPU I don't think they'll say much before 6 weeks x

@Renna yeah my cycle has been weird this month, I was actually harping on about how regular I was earlier this month and there is no point in checking so obviously the fertility gods wanted to throw me a curve ball. I guess until AF arrives I won't know when I did ovulate though. You're just DTD when you want to this cycle aren't you? xx

@Renna this month has been an odd one all round I think. I ovulated late too, after what I think was a failed attempt. You aren't too far behind yet, maybe the static will appear later today/tomorrow? Have you got any cheapies? Maybe try one later today and see how dark it is?

@littletandme wow your body is nice and regular, that's great. You have covered yourself well enough I think, only takes the one after all.
Fingers crossed for a weeks time! xx

Hi ladies, wow these threads move fast haha!

My spotting finally stopped a few days ago and then I ovulated on Friday which was CD17 so not much later that pre-miscarriage. We managed to DTD on Thursday (ov-1) and Saturday (ov+1) so not feeling to confident but we will see. 3dpo now and will probably test around 10dpo because I'm impatient!

Hi all xxx I've not checked the thread as much and its moved so fast so tried catching up a bit . Congratulations to the BFPs xxx
@Dipsy77 @SmileyT think I see you both say you ovulated late these last cycles? .I'm CD18 usually ovulate around CD15 , earliest I've ever got a peak is CD12 and latest is CD16 .... I only started getting flashing smiley on CB on CD15 and I only started testing on CD12 as I wasnt actually going to do opks this month... so dunno if I ovulated early before CD 12 and missed it .... or I'm ovulating late ... still got flashing smiley today my 4th one in a row .... or just not ovulating 🙄🤷‍♀️ either way feeling down and fed up . .
Is strange as I'm pretty regular and pretty much always get peak around CD12toCD14 xx
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Sorry to new ladies who have joined xx wishing you lots of luck xx
@VP91x thank you for new thread xxx

@VP91x yeah that's what I'll do. I've read my commandments and am feeling positive (for now!) so the longer I can hold off stressing about anything the better. Otherwise the next 9 months aren't going to be much fun.

Thank you xxx

At least the weather looks a little better this week. Nice having Bella home today? xx

@Dipsy77 definitely a strong line there, congratulations. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy ❤️

@VP91x That would be amazing if it was brought forward by that much. Definitely keep us updated!

Do you think that's the best option with EPU?

That's so strange isn't it - did they tell you what they thought had caused it?
I feel more wet down there again today (sorry also!) but it makes me keep want to check the colour. I need to stop I think as I'm sure it makes it worse somehow. Hoping it's just the increased CM, as I know that's quite normal.
I was also worried yesterday as tried to check my cervix and it felt firmer than I expected, but then I don't think I should put much on CP - I googled it (obvs) and there was loads about how it isn't conclusive and can be firm but still PG. Oddly I had checked a little earlier and I couldn't feel it. Best not to get bogged down in that I think, or I'll drive myself crazy.