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TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

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VP91x · 04/07/2020 07:58

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 12:18

@Emsnewmum oh no, I'm sorry. Look after yourself and let your body recover then you'll be in the best place to TTC again when everything has settled, hope you are okay ❤️

@MichT4 the lines are alot more prominent on the easy@home. This is the comparison with the Femometer both dipped in the same sample when I just done it. Xx

TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)
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MichT4 · 06/07/2020 12:10

@Dipsy77 oh interesting, so does it just do temp then? Even so, like you say, I'll go mad with it. Mine didn't move ovulation either. I read that after the first month, you need to reboot it or something, it then amends ovu date and uses that going forward. But no need to worry about that now!
I agree, even before I'd panic about movements in temp and it just isn't worth worrying about now - could be anything.

@mrsssk I guess late ovulation would be an explanation but definitely call your GP if you get to that point. Hopefully you won't be needing to call.

@VP91x what's the difference?

xx

Emsnewmum · 06/07/2020 12:07

@VP91x
I don't think il be on the list this month I emailed the misscarriage association and they said ttc may lead to infection and after last time maybe i shouldn't risk it.

Feeling super rubbish about it all thought I could just get right back to it but I've also started cramping too. It's at times like these im desperate to get back to work so the waiting for things to settle down wouldnt feel so long .

Hope you are all well and that the start of a new week brings good things for everyone x

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 12:04

@MichT4 haha, craft time! I'll probably keep them yeah. Using easy@home ones this month so not as used to the way the lines are compared to femometer xx

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mrsssk · 06/07/2020 12:03

@MichT4 did a test on 25th June (CD 29) which was a BFN as expected but think I've ovulated since then on 29/30 June so am hopefully 7DPO on the worlds longest cycle.
I had really sore boobs yesterday but that's about it! If I get a BFN when I test on 14 July I'm calling up the GP as should really have got AF by then.
My MC was at 7.5 weeks so still quite early so would have expected my body to sort itself out by now 🤷🏽‍♀️

Dipsy77 · 06/07/2020 12:01

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Dipsy77 · 06/07/2020 12:01

@MichT4 I changed my Ava to pregnancy mode and it doesn't teach your rhr which is probably a good thing. I've decided to sell it don't want any further stress with mine, I only used it a month although it said I ovulated a week earlier than I did. I may have to take my fit bit off because I am checking rhr every 5 mins xx

MichT4 · 06/07/2020 11:59

@VP91x 😂😂😂 I know! I have itchy feet wanting to dip a stick. Is this the start of a new living room decoration? xx

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 11:58

@MichT4 hahs it'll be on eBay before you know it. Just done my OPK, felt back to normal dipping a stick in something - been a while 😂 xx

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Dipsy77 · 06/07/2020 11:57

@mrsssk Thanks I had my MMC February but didn't stop bleeding while April so 3rd cycle xx

MichT4 · 06/07/2020 11:52

@mrsssk @VP91x I definitely won't be. Don't need to worry about those on top of everything else. Plus, as @SmileyT said, there doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason why some things happen so I'd rather be blissfully unaware.

I will sell it, once I know everything is OK. Would be sods law that I get rid of it and then am back on the bus. So let's be positive, yes I'm selling it 😂

@mrsssk do you feel AF or any other symptoms? Sorry if I've missed it but have you taken a test?

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 11:44

@Littlebee1990 @DBTJ thanks, will add your dates in 🥰

@MichT4 nope, definitely not taking her Tescos. I've managed to bribe her with tea and biscuits, she's finally sat down to watch Frozen 2 after having a little cry.

No definitely don't put the Ava on 😂 are you selling it on? I half wish I had one, so I didn't have to temp in the morning, but it seems more trouble than necessary haha. Xx

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mrsssk · 06/07/2020 11:42

@MichT4 don't do it, I have been compulsively checking mine all morning now and I'm pretty sure the stress of watching it has now totally skewed today's readings and it's now dropping.
Although if a drop means AF is coming I will take that too, currently CD40 since MC and still nothing!

DBTJ · 06/07/2020 11:41

@VP91x will test around 11th

MichT4 · 06/07/2020 11:29

@SmileyT 😮😮😮 sick after a coffee.....sounds promising (in the weirdest of ways!). Am also hopeful and waving my flag in your corner.

Hearing all these temp/RHR comments makes me think should I put the Ava on again but I think that would firmly send me over the edge 😂

@VP91x oh no! Not even cupcakes? I hope you aren't having to take her on your food shop? Just did mine, very quiet in there today

Littlebee1990 · 06/07/2020 11:21

Thanks @VP91x .. AF is due 1st August but I won’t be testing until 7th August if she doesn’t arrive

mrsssk · 06/07/2020 11:01

@VP91x that is an amazing list, I hope we get lots more BFPs over the next couple of weeks!

Congratulations @Dipsy77, what an amazing strong line you have! What # cycle was this for you post MC?

That's so interesting about the RHR, I checked mine and had a dip down from average 62 RHR to 57 when I think I have ovulated on 29/30 June and it's now climbed up to 69 from Saturday, hopefully it stays high up there!

Rebecca1992 · 06/07/2020 11:00

@fafi Cycle buddy! 😊 have you been doing OPK'S this month??

Tink20058 · 06/07/2020 10:50

Ooohhh excited for Saturday hopefully lots of bfp May xxx

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 10:46

@MichT4 not even the TV is keeping her still, nightmare! No lego, playdoh, barbie, trucks, or trains are of interest to her today. Even tried to entice her with cupcake making - firm no.

@SmileyT 👀👀👀👀 I'm so hopeful for you this month. Anything that isn't the usual. As I said I'll over here quietly cheering for you 😂

Oh that's annoying with the tube though but at least you are there now. I was going to get started on the cupboard priming but I think I'll leave it to Wednesday when Bella is back at nursery because she's being hard work today xx

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Northernsoul90 · 06/07/2020 10:37

@VP91x that list is fab!! It’s really exciting to look at! hoping for everyone to get their bfp soon Xx

Girlmum83 · 06/07/2020 10:33

Huge congratulations @Dipsy77 🥳💕 that’s a lovely line xx

SmileyT · 06/07/2020 10:30

@VP91x and normally RHR dips before ovulation then increases towards AF but if I've learnt anything it's that our bodies don't do the same thing every month so shouldn't be suprised x

SmileyT · 06/07/2020 10:29

@VP91x that list is amazing what a star you are... no it was actually Victoria line issues annoyingly missed my overground train at all went to shit after that. Oh well at my desk now, strangely had a sip of my coffee and had to run to the toilet and was violently sick 🤢 what's your plans for today? Decorating?

MichT4 · 06/07/2020 10:27

@VP91x oh dear, shove her in front of the tv!

What a list! Excited for Saturday! xx