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TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

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VP91x · 04/07/2020 07:58

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

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VP91x · 07/07/2020 07:26

@MichT4 I just had to Google, yeah think it's all classed as spotting. Hopefully that's the last of it xx

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MichT4 · 07/07/2020 07:19

@VP91x this morning it is just a bit brown when I wipe - I think that’s spotting? Just think I need to prepare myself xx

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VP91x · 07/07/2020 07:14

@SmileyT not a big drop don't worry about it still well above your coverline and high than pre-ov, FF just loves their dramatic charts. That is a strong OPK! I'm still firmly hopeful for you. Interestingly, on a potential baby not liking soy. During my PG, I couldn't stand meat and Bella now is almost completely veggie 🤷 aside from the odd spag bol.

Yeah more stable than normal hovering around 36.05-36.10 not dipped below 36.0 yet so a tad warmer than usual. If only it always followed the two flashing and then static ideal they sell 🤣 xx

@MichT4 when you say spotting is it just like a tinge or when wiping etc, I really hope all is OK ❤️. She is in a better mood today thankfully. Although was up at 5am 😴

@Rb486 yeah everyday in the morning and then when you see your OPK get quite dark then try another one. Xx

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Rb486 · 07/07/2020 07:02

Yes I do, but because I work 12 hour shifts it’s difficult for me to do them in the afternoon some days. @VP91x yeah I do have some cheapies also. I have been getting two lines on those, but negative ovs. @SmileyT I’ve never done them before. So I’m not sure. I’m just winging it. I’ll just do a CB every morning until I get a flashy smiley? Xx

MichT4 · 07/07/2020 06:57

@SmileyT don’t worry about that temp drop, mine came down a bit as well if you remember. It’s abo e cover line so still in the high range.

The spotting is back slightly this morning. I feel like I’m just waiting for a full flow to kick in to be honest. I want to keep a positive mind but I think that’s what is likely to happen so it’s hard to be positive when I’m almost ready to fall back down.

@VP91x I hope that little bastard doesn’t mess you about for too long this month. How is Bella today?

xx

chloedancer897 · 07/07/2020 06:52

@SmileyT I watched a video where a girl did an OPK and it was positive and she said she read that you can get high results on an ovulation test if you're pregnant? She did the ovulation test at 9DPO and it was positive and did a pg test at 10DPO and it was positive! I have my fingers and toes crossed for you!x

SmileyT · 07/07/2020 06:47

@VP91x he was saying if I was preg maybe his baby doesn't like soy either 😂 obvs doesn't work like that but think he is getting excited. And yeah CB is annoying there is no scenario of the blank circle/ flashing smile results that don't leave us feeling frustrated. Temp down 0.1 😔 are yours still really stable with the iso? xx

TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)
TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)
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VP91x · 07/07/2020 06:32

@SmileyT darker than usual? Did it go down by much? Oh no that's annoying he's allergic to soy milk, but I don't see why it would make you vom. I'm over Cb already this month forgot how much I hate those bastard faces. Xx

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SmileyT · 07/07/2020 06:26

@VP91x always good to get the blank circle out of the way 🙌🏾 I did a cheapie opk today and still got a 2nd line... OH mentioned last night that maybe I was sick because I had soy milk in my coffee and he is seriously allergic. Ahh this is the first month I actually have real hope at this stage and it's kinda worse feeling I'll be seriously disappointed 😩 temp was down this morning so that's not a good sign but oh well I'll hold onto hope for another day x

@Rb486 how long were your cycles before? Hopefully you get a nice few days of flashing and then get your static when expected x

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VP91x · 07/07/2020 06:18

@Rb486 yeah the first day is always an empty circle, such a waste of a stick, lol. Have you got cheapie strips to compare as you go along? So many have got their static smiley in late afternoon/evening when thsir cheapies have gone darker xx

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Rb486 · 07/07/2020 06:13

Morning ladies 💕 I was working yesterday and will be working again today. I see a few of you are testing tomorrow! How exciting. @VP91x I’ve just done the same. I’m on CD8, it’s my first month doing them and it said to start today and I got the empty circle. But I’ll just continue to do it once a morning because after m/c I have no idea what my cycle will be like/when I’ll ovulate. Xx

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VP91x · 07/07/2020 05:58

How is everyone this morning?
CD9 now - started my CB opks too, just to get the sad empty circle out of the way 🤣 xx

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 22:16

@MichT4 I'm sure it will! ❤️

Haha, all sorts used to happen in the stores xx

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MichT4 · 06/07/2020 22:05

@VP91x thank you. Just hope it stays away. And hoping that day isn’t a bad sign, especially as I had the tinged stuff either side.

I used to be an Ann summers rep too 🙊. Never had anyone want my tights though 😂😂 xx

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 21:39

@elliew818 haha no unfortunately not although someone offered me £300 for the tights I had been wearing all day 🤔 definitely a side job there somewhere, haha.

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elliew818 · 06/07/2020 21:36

Haha I thought you were a model for them or something 😉 @VP91x

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 21:31

@elliew818 I used to work in Ann Summers that was meant to say*

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VP91x · 06/07/2020 21:30

@SmileyT that discount is fab!! Love New Look. @elliew818 I used to be an Ann Summers girl. La Senza was always fab though, it was a shame when they closed. Last time I went 'out out' was last August for my besties hen do in Brighton. There's always a long time between nights these days.

@SmileyT ah, so good. Love a prime delivery. I've got my virtual pom poms at the ready for you 🙆🙅💁

@CasperFlamingo so sorry for your recent loss hope you are being well looked after ❤️

@MichT4 I agree test on Friday and as you said that will be a week after AF was due. I'm glad the spotting has gone though 🥰🥰

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Northernsoul90 · 06/07/2020 21:03

🤞🏼🤞🏼 Ladies testing on Wednesday! 😬

@SmileyT Smirnoff Ices 😂 I used to love them!

Northernsoul90 · 06/07/2020 21:00

@CasperFlamingo so sorry for your loss. Hope you get your bfp soon! Xxx

MichT4 · 06/07/2020 20:18

@CasperFlamingo sorry to hear about your loss. You’ll find lots of comfort here I’m sure xx

MichT4 · 06/07/2020 20:18

@SmileyT I was thinking earliest Friday which is a week after my first test and I think a week after AF was due on one of my apps. If I can wait, I might wait until Sunday as that’s a week after the spotting (unless it comes back). If I make it to Friday I can probably wait for Sunday as weekends go quicker.
🤞🏼🤞🏼 For Wednesday xx

SmileyT · 06/07/2020 20:12

@MichT4 No still testing on Wednesday just getting them delivered tomorrow ready for Wednesday morning 😬 I'd say maybe test again 7 days after your period was due so that's a few days off right because once you get to the 5week stage you'll know that you are well and truly over that first hurdle. When was you thinking of doing it? xx

@CasperFlamingo I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope this thread provides you some much needed support during this journey and you get your BFP soon x

@elliew818 can't beat a discount..and yeah I still love new look especially their shoes for my wide feet 🙄

elliew818 · 06/07/2020 20:04

Hi @CasperFlamingo sorry for hearing about your MC and here's hoping for a BPF for you soon.
@SmileyT I used to work at LaSenza and do exactly the same, I have so much sexy lingerie that no longer fits my post breastfeeding spaniel ears 😫 and I love new look still now!
@VP91x it was an experience going out in Romford I have to say...can't even remember the last time I went to a club now though!