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TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

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VP91x · 04/07/2020 07:58

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

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Lollol86 · 08/07/2020 07:55

@SmileyT yes lovely, congratulations wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months ❤️

fafi · 08/07/2020 07:54

@SmileyT Yay! What wonderful news to wake up to! Congratulations 🎉 praying for a lovely, healthy, sticky bean!!xxx

1990EM · 08/07/2020 07:53

@SmileyT wooohooooo!!! Yes!! So so happy for you, this is amazing news! a beautiful strong line there ❤ you deserve it SO much.

Eli2020 · 08/07/2020 07:43

@SmileyT why did you decide to not take a all in one pregnancy tablet? Just curios ... and how often did you take the calc flour? I only found out about it last week on here and thinking of buying it for next cycle. And did you use any pre seed? But most importantly how will you be able to concentrate at work today ?? - I probably wouldn't give much crap about work on the day that I get bfp ops 😅 x

Rebecca1992 · 08/07/2020 07:30

@SmileyT Huge congratulations!! ❤ Wishing you a healthy & happy 9 months! 🥰

Wishingfornumber2 · 08/07/2020 07:29

@SmileyT congratulations!! Lovely strong line ! So happy for you. Xx

MichT4 · 08/07/2020 07:27

@SmileyT 🤣🤣 made me laugh about OH as mine was exactly the same. He was asleep again about 3 minutes later. He’s also the same with the worry, which he hates as he thinks he should be my rock x

MichT4 · 08/07/2020 07:25

@SmileyT I totally agree what a support this group is. I hope soon it’ll turn into a pregnancy group and we will all stick together.

Yeah I have a few options for tests 😂. I was wondering if the weeks would throw me, if they came up 1-2 I would panic. If I did the same test though I’d also look for line progression which could also be dangerous. I could just use a basic digi, without the weeks. My collection is like browsing in boots 😂

@VP91x 🤣🤣 I was a bit concerned for a minute there. So have you gone cold turkey on soy now?
How lovely with your dinner later, will be such a nice treat xx

Renna · 08/07/2020 07:18

@SmileyT no luck with opks again this morning 😓 I'm CD20 now so looking likely I didnt ovulate this cycle 😔 xxx

VP91x · 08/07/2020 07:13

@MichT4 I reckon it's the comedown from all the tablets I took 😂

I just re-read that sentence - I meant the soy not that I've been on some sort of bender, haha.

That sounds like a good plan, a week after and a with a digi 👌.

I'm going to do some more painting and later on, I've got my dinner at burger & lobster. Woo. I got another empty sad circle this morning but beats an endless line of flashies I suppose! Xx

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SmileyT · 08/07/2020 07:13

@Hayley19835 @Eli2020 @HopeForRainbowbaby @Dipsy77 @VP91x @Renna

Thank you so much you lovely lot... and I just want to say I know from personal experience that seeing a +ve test can cause mixed emotions for people especially after a loss so I appreciate you all even more for being so kind. OH was happy (well as happy as one is when you wake them up with a pee stick in their face, in the dark, so he couldn't even see the result at first 😂) but I can see that he is worried because we want this so much.

So what did I do this month - I've just carried on with my normal supplements, although it has been about 3months with them all so maybe that's made a difference. Vit C, Vit D, Vit E, EPO (in FP) COQ10, omega 3, l'arginine, folic acid, B12 and calc flour (about 4 a day throughout) But I'm not taking any all in one conception ones. I had my peak on cheapies and CB on CD13 and I'm now CD26 and we DTD CD8,9, 11,12,13,14,17 and 18 so going to say I'm 12dpo now. Also my cervix felt low and firm up until yesterday and CM has been pretty watery/ bit creamy but nothing out of the ordinary. I'd saved my pee because I'm a psycho and my opk was so strong this morning aswell and has been high the last few times I've checked, for any Poas addicts that don't want to waste their FRERs. Like @Dipsy77 I'd had a glass of wine or 4 in my TWW 🙈 Apart from throwing up on Monday I've had no other symptoms, no sore boobs and the same pelvic twinges I get every month.

Okay I'm going to stop rambling on and get ready for work...but thank you all again, this thread has saved my mental health in the last 4 months and I'll be sticking around here to cheer you all on if that's okay xx

@Renna have you had any luck with your opks yet?

@MichT4 I think that if it's still brown and just after you've literally been using all your pelvic muscles than this is a good sign... do you have another of the same test you did before for Friday? I know those week indicators have their own threshold and don't want you to worry if it doesn't come up with the weeks as expected x

TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)
MichT4 · 08/07/2020 07:08

@VP91x oh god it’s Wednesday! This week has gone quicker than I thought it would. What are your plans after your nap? Wonder what’s making you feel hungover?
How were OPKs this morning?

Yeah I’ll do the week digital I think. I won’t see progression obviously as I didn’t do one already. But I’d hope it would say 2-3 🤞🏼🤞🏼 Do you think that’s best? And on that day? xx

VP91x · 08/07/2020 07:05

@MichT4 that's positive!! Yeah it would have been because of your poo, are you doing a digi on Friday?

Yeah alright, woke up feeling hungover but haven't had a drink in ages 🤔 going to get LO ready for nursery drop off then get back into bed for a bit when I'm back. Xx

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Renna · 08/07/2020 07:04

Congratulations @SmileyT !!! Amazing xx so so happy for you xxxxx try relax and enjoy 😘 xx

MichT4 · 08/07/2020 07:01

@VP91x yeah I’m ok. It stopped totally yesterday, and had a clear wipe first thing. I said to myself if it came back then I’d lose a bit of hope.

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Then I had a poo (sorry!!!) and a bit of tinged came out. I’m hoping it’s just relating to the bowel movement. I was a bit constipated yesterday so I wonder if it’s just pushed it out. If it stays away I’ll start to relax a bit hopefully.

I hope I get an accurate result if I test Friday.

How are you? xx

VP91x · 08/07/2020 06:53

@MichT4 aha, noo. Just what I've read, therebbt adjustmdnt calculators online where you can adjust it if you've woken up earlier/later than usual. Interesting! How are you this morning xx

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Eli2020 · 08/07/2020 06:46

Morning ladies, I haven't been here since Sunday so I haven't had a chance to catch up with everything but omg !!! @SmileyT so so so happy for you!!! You totally deserve that!!! You must be shaking from happiness 😍 I wish you a super healthy 9 months 🥰

Hayley19835 · 08/07/2020 06:42

@SmileyT lovely news congratulations 🎉🎉 xx

MichT4 · 08/07/2020 06:34

@VP91x you are a fountain of knowledge!! xx

VP91x · 08/07/2020 06:28

@SmileyT yessss! cheers with pom pom massive congratulations ❤️❤️❤️ My feeling was right, strong line too!! What did your partner say xx

Ps your temp was only slightly lower because it was earlier 😊 so don't worry about it!

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Dipsy77 · 08/07/2020 06:23

Brilliant news @SmileyT a really nice line too congratulations let's bring on more BFPs xx

HopeForRainbowbaby · 08/07/2020 06:23

@SmileyT congratulations 🎉 what a beautiful news this morning 😽 July testing start strong.
Wishing you healthy 9 months dear 😘

Tell us what did you do this cycle ?

SmileyT · 08/07/2020 06:14

@MichT4 haha yeah last time I was pregnant OH couldn't understand why I'd wake up at 4am and not be able to get to sleep but then I'd be shattered come 1pm, plus side is that now we have no evening plans I'll be getting into bed at 9pm every night.

I won't temp again now, not going to let it drive me crazy!! Think I'll test again when I think my period is actually late on Monday or something and take it from there x

Rainbowhope11 · 08/07/2020 05:47

@SmileyT I wouldn't be able to sleep if I were you 😁 I will admire your willpower if you resist the urge to test again😂 I'm probably going to at least 20 test when I get my bfp 😂😂😂🤣🤣 Thank you lovely, hope so too💕 off to bed now Xx

MichT4 · 08/07/2020 05:44

@SmileyT oh my god, forget the temperature! I stopped taking mine as you know otherwise I’d have overthought it all and clearly it doesn’t matter so much to have that perfect trend!
I bet you’re shocked, will take a while for it to sink in. It’s so amazing! Deadline hit!!
I am fine thanks. Exhausted, but for some reason keep waking up really early 🙄 xx

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