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TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

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VP91x · 04/07/2020 07:58

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

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KatB259 · 09/07/2020 09:30

You ladies all sound like you've gone through so much, but been so strong, your all doing amazing. Having these forums defintely are the best thing 😘😘

KatB259 · 09/07/2020 09:25

@SmileyT yes I have my flo app on my phone, so I'll be marking down what happens day to day and seeing what happens. I've not done the ovulation sticks etc. Before, just been going by my app, I work like clock work so should be easy to follow.
I'm ovulating today actually, so maybe a possibility but don't want to get hopes up or get too excited. Gonna hate my period turning up from now on haha. 😊

1990EM · 09/07/2020 09:23

@DBTJ sorry you're going through this extra stress! Prayers that everything comes back clear 💓

1990EM · 09/07/2020 09:22

@MichT4 agree with the others, for a cheapie that is a good strong line! I did a cheapie at 6 weeks pregnant and it was not as strong as that line you got. Panicked me a bit too but I waited a week and did a digital and was reassured when the right number of weeks showed. For the cheapies any line is positive!! Also made me doubt the usefulness of the opks in the same pack lol

Diorissimo1985 · 09/07/2020 09:16

@VP91x are you doing cheapie opks as well as the CB digital? I got a flashy smiley yesterday on cd9 which I thought was early but my cheapie opk was very negative! Confused about reliability of the CB digis...

Sophj19 · 09/07/2020 09:15

Morning all, congratulations to those with BFP lovely news! ♥️

Went for medical management yesterday at the hospital took it at around 12:30. By the time I’d got home I started bleeding... and then it stopped about 5 minutes later and I’ve had nothing since 😩. Why can’t anything be straightforward? Thinking I’ll have to ring the hospital today and see what they say 🙄

VP91x · 09/07/2020 09:09

@MichT4 is it just the heaviness or an actual pain? If it is better for you to do it tomorrow then go for it then 🥰 yeah definitely booking the scan is the only way to get certainty. Lines etc fluctuate.

Thank you @Northernsoul90 Me too!! I'll be happy with four 😂xx

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MichT4 · 09/07/2020 09:04

@VP91x @Northernsoul90 thank you both. I am trying to just distract myself but to be honest it feels like a weight is sitting on top of my pelvis, so it’s tricky to think of anything else 😂

I think I’ll do that @VP91x, think it’s my only option. I might wait to test on Saturday now as I think anything will show as positive tomorrow. Not sure, as I also can’t sleep so maybe doing it tomorrow will help. Who knows 🙄

I really hope you aren’t flashed at for too long this month. Stupid smug bastard

@northernsoul90 I’m reading the commandments and remembering all these things could be fine. To be honest, seeing @Tink20058’s cheapie at 13 weeks has almost made me ignore that. Just annoying now I have these pains on the same day. Typical.

How are you both today? xx

Northernsoul90 · 09/07/2020 08:26

Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼 @VP91x hopefully only a few days of the annoying flashy and you will get your static xx

Northernsoul90 · 09/07/2020 08:23

@MrsK21 okie dokie, thanks I will order both I think. Xx

@MichT4 Please dont panic, that’s a very positive test and as @SmileyT said the only way to judge from that test would be to do the same one in another couple of days. You’ve got some positive signs, the pains are normal as well during early pregnancy could just be your uterus expanding. Keep reading those commandments 😊💕

@Tink20058 Your comment about your Amazon history made me laugh 😂 I’m pretty embarrassed about mine too honestly the amount of pregnancy tests and opks ordered over the last few months 🤣

@DBTJ I hope all your results come back clear. Sorry that you are having a rough time 😔 xx

@KatB259 Sorry for your loss ❤️ you are in the right place here and your feelings are definitely normal xxx

VP91x · 09/07/2020 08:22

@MichT4 I think that's a strong line and like @SmileyT @Tink20058 said they are cheap for a reason and also, you don't have a line on them to compare it to in the exact same circumstance so don't let it stress you! I would do a digi test at the weekend and book a scan for next week it will give you some certainty ❤️❤️

@SmileyT that heaviness is what made me test with both my PGs funnily enough. It felt so odd! Also I bet that femometer was with SMU, so you're not allowed to compare lines either 🤣 and thank you it was lovely to be out x

@DBTJ sorry you're having such a crap time, hopefully your results are back as soon as so you can have some answers. Hope everything is okay when they do xx

@MrsK21 yes I went to that one, so yum isn't it! You should go and treat yourself to a lobster roll you won't regret it xx

CD11 and got my flashy smiley this morning, anything less than 10 this month will be a bonus 🤞😂

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MichT4 · 09/07/2020 08:19

@SmileyT what are we like?? I’m sure yours will be a dilution issue, or maybe they are just cheap crappy sticks 😂
These cramps are a bit unbearable at times. I feel like I want to just sit on the loo - not practical really, especially as I’m meant to meet my boss in just over an hour x

Jazper · 09/07/2020 08:15

@DBTJ you're really going through the bloody mill. Speedy recovery wishes sent your way 💐

Jazper · 09/07/2020 08:14

I assume it wasn't fmu though @SmileyT , and yesterday's was? Even if that's not the case, it could be that you've had more to drink this morning and so it's more diluted.
Don't fret x

SmileyT · 09/07/2020 08:11

@MichT4 well I was suddenly overwhelmed with the urge to use one of those femometer strips and it was definitely lighter than yesterday 🙈

@Tink20058 love that you pulled one out from your drawer 😂

@DBTJ oh your body is throwing a few curve balls, hopefully the results are all clear for you from the biopsy x

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 08:05

@DBTJ I really hope your results come back clear xx

DBTJ · 09/07/2020 08:00

@fafi I was on antibitoics for two weeks I've had a need aspiration and just had biopsy waiting for results. Ontop that I then had thrush caused by the antibitoics. The human body is really resting me

fafi · 09/07/2020 07:55

@DBTJ Sorry to hear you're going through that. Have you had any examinations?

DBTJ · 09/07/2020 07:24

Just reading all the messages as I have been battling a unknown lump in my breast as if I have not got enough on my plate already.

@SmileyT congrats enjoy it and try not to over think as this causes stress and we all no what stress causes.

@IWM20 so sorry your going through it again. I was exactly the same never thought It would happen to me twice. Stay strong and just have faith that you know you can conceive

Cannot remember who wrote about opks being stronger the second time. Opks always work best with smu rather than fmu. You can actually get a fake positive with fmu

Tink20058 · 09/07/2020 07:10

@MichT4 I’m ashamed of my order history on amazon over the past 6 months I think I have kept all the pregnancy test companies in business 🤣🤣🤣 I’m surprised that little one got left in a drawer, Hope the cramps bugger off soon xxx

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 06:54

😂😂😂 thank you @Tink20058. Might ditch the rest of those, just adds to my craziness xx

MichT4 · 09/07/2020 06:53

@Tink20058 😂😂 I have an image of you actually turning your house upside down trying to find a stick to pee on. Thank you for that, makes me feel better. The cramps can bugger off though - honestly there really is always something isn’t there? xx

@SmileyT you’re right, am ready for whatever is thrown at me. Just be nice to have a heads up of the outcome. It would be nice to be told ‘don’t worry, the outcome is fine, but we are going to throw you some curveballs’.
Back to the office today? xx

Tink20058 · 09/07/2020 06:51

@MichT4 that’s mine I’m 13 weeks don’t worry they are cheap for a reason xxx

TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)
Tink20058 · 09/07/2020 06:43

@MichT4 they are rubbish in my experience I found a random one in my drawer 2 days ago and did it out of curiosity (told you o loved peeing on sticks 🤣) and mine wasn’t dark xxx

Renna · 09/07/2020 06:33

Aw thank you ladies @fafi @1990EM is interesting to know you conceived without a peak. Think it just threw me as most months I do see a peak although the one straight after MC I didnt and one of my cycles last year before I got Pg I didnt get one either. I didnt have any hope for this month but now you've given me a little bit to focus on and not totally feel like a write off :) xx
@HE88 I do think maybe I shopuldnt have done the opks then I would have been none the wiser 🙄 and felt more positive thinking I'm in my TWW too now. But think after this I well test opks next cycle as wanna try and be sure I am ovulating. Thank you @Northernsoul90 @SmileyT xxx xxx