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TTC after Mirena removal

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butterfly5291 · 29/06/2020 09:52

Hi everyone,

I'm getting my Mirena coil out on Friday hopefully, although the strings are missing so it might be a difficult procedure and chance I'll have to go to a specialist clinic which isn't even open due to Covid!

I'm due to get married at the end of December but with everything being so uncertain we thought we'd start the process of TTC now.

I'm 33 and have endometriosis, although had laparoscopy two years ago to remove endo tissue do hoping not to encounter any issues.

My GP has said not to start testing for when I'm ovulating as it will just make me more anxious but I'm literally going to have no clue when anything might happen.

Anybody else experienced anything similar?
We're keeping ours plans quiet from friends and family for now so be great to be able to share thoughts and worries with people ☺️

Look forward to chatting to you all soon xx

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butterfly5291 · 15/07/2020 09:57

@Amy259 yeah mine was very uncomfortable/painful too but I figured best get used to pain down there 😂

Judging from a few other threads I'm on I would say you are not crazy at all...and you don't know what your friends were doing when they were at home...maybe they were tracking everything too but just didn't tell anyone.
The other threads are called pre conception planning and TTC first baby looking for fellow crazies or something like that if you want to try find them.
Might sound crazy but have you done a pregnancy test? There is a chance you could have got pregnant in the first month, heard it happen to others.
I only had my coil out on 4th July and I'm tracking bbt and OPKs every day. You could still have been ovulating with the coil in so I just want to make sure I have as much data as possible.
Also, are you taking folic acid and vitamin D supplements?

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Tabbycat92 · 15/07/2020 09:51

@amy259 I now the feeling. I don't really want to even conceive until September at the earliest (brothers wedding in Apr, so don't want to be ready to pop) but I'm desperate for my cycle to return, I was doing LH tests morning and evening, but I've decided to wait until my AF as its a waste of tests.
I've been using the app premom, you upload photos of your ovulation tests and it'll tell you when your peak is happening and ovulation is due etc. Very useful.
With my first baby, I came off of birth control (mini pill) and became pregnant before even getting my AF, so that's a bit of a positive for you xx

Amy259 · 15/07/2020 09:27

Hi @butterfly5291 I’m glad you didn’t have to - it didn’t last long but it was not a pleasant feeling!! I had it in for almost exactly 5 years.

I’ve been doing BBT since I had it out but they’re all over the place, I can’t see any pattern at all. And about a week ago I started doing an ov test every second morning, in the hope I’ll get some sort of idea as to what’s going on.

I definitely feel like the lack of cycle is making me more obsessive with the TTC than I should be at this early stage, I’m hoping I calm down once AF arrives. Lots of my friends have had babies recently and it’s blowing my mind now at how relaxed they were at the start, when they decided to just “let it happen”. Aside from my lack of period, I don’t really have a reason to be going as far as tracking temp, ov, etc but for some reason I feel like I need to. Anyone else??

butterfly5291 · 14/07/2020 22:38

Hi @Amy259 sorry to hear about your difficulty with coil removal...I very nearly had to go down the same path.
Have you been tracking bbt or using OPKs?
How long did you have the coil in for?

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Amy259 · 14/07/2020 22:02

Hi all, I hope you don’t mind me jumping on your thread!

Had my Mirena out on 11/06 and still waiting (5 weeks later) for my first period since. Had a bleed immediately after for 4 days but I assumed that was trauma rather than hormonal, as it was very light and I had to have my coil removed in the hosp (cervical dilation to retrieve it was not pleasant!!). Impatiently waiting for AF to hurry up and arrive so I know where I am in my cycle and can start planning to TTC. Feeling like I’m becoming a little obsessed and never thought I’d wish for a period!

Tabbycat92 · 13/07/2020 14:21

@butterfly5291 I really hope so, I've heard of some people that take 4years! I seriously hope that's not me!

butterfly5291 · 11/07/2020 17:59

Yeah absolutely start tracking....I've heard some people ovulate a few days after removal....my lines still pretty faint xx

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Tabbycat92 · 11/07/2020 17:53

@butterfly5291 of course it is, silly me. Only ever come off of birth control once before.
Started tracking LH levels anyway, but still low at the moment

AllTheWhoresOfMalta · 09/07/2020 21:03

I had my mirena out after it had been in for 4.5yrs to TTC. I struggled with the thickness of my endometrial layer and didn’t have a period for more than four months. Had a scan around three months in and it turned out that I was ovulating but the thickness needed time to increase, apparently very common with women who’ve had mirenas in. GP told me anecdotally that some women who have this issue find success with acupuncture and Chinese medicine, so I booked myself in for a consultation after six months TTC- two of those with periods. Had four weeks of Accupuncture and a course of Chinese herbs recommended to increase my endometrial layer and got pregnant on month six of TTC.

butterfly5291 · 09/07/2020 20:58

@Tabbycat92 that's your withdrawal bleed. I had mine on Monday, so two days after removal. I started tracking but I've only seen the faintness line on my OPKs. I'm so impatient and it's only been a week! I'm so eager to know if my body will ovulate!

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Tabbycat92 · 09/07/2020 20:09

I've never been so happy to see AF! She arrived this morning 😊 cycle-tracking starts now!

ginsparkles · 06/07/2020 12:39

I had the mirena fitted, had it removed and my periods didn't come back m. I had to be referred for fertility treatment in order to have my little girl.

I had another one put in after having DD. I had that removed after 5 years, it had to be surgically removed and over a year on I have still not had periods return.

I say this not to worry you but to prepare you that it may not be plain sailing. Good luck!

Tabbycat92 · 06/07/2020 12:37

@butterfly5291 really easy! The nurse said I was the easiest she'd had in a long time! I'm glad as I was so nervous

butterfly5291 · 06/07/2020 12:33

I'm just going to start testing from today...just so I can see if I do ovulate.
@Tabbycat92 how did you find the removal?

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ty1996 · 06/07/2020 12:15

@butterfly5291 I used just the cheap OPK, and started testing 6 days after my period just to check what was going on and if everything had gone back to how it should be or whether it would take a while!

Thankyou girls @Tabbycat92, fingers crossed for you all xx

Tabbycat92 · 06/07/2020 12:05

Wow @ty1996 that's amazing!
IUD is gone now, so let the cycle tracking begin 🤓
Cramping is already setting in

butterfly5291 · 06/07/2020 10:15

@ty1996 wow! Congratulations you must be thrilled!
Did you track ovulation using OPKs? When did you start? I don't know if I should start tracking now?

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ty1996 · 06/07/2020 09:39

I got my merina out on the 7th of June, had my period 11th-14th, ovulated 25th June, and just got a bfp x

Tabbycat92 · 06/07/2020 08:45

@butterfly5291
It's a method of swaying gender.
There's a book on amazon, and also a Facebook group. So many people successfully getting the gender they want! Worth checking out 😊

I hope the removal isn't too painful 😭 I stupidly booked a table at the pub for a meal tonight to celebrate our anniversary last week! Didn't think that through!

butterfly5291 · 06/07/2020 08:06

@Xjo1992x good luck for your removal today. Take painkillers before you go. What's the baby dust method? I really want a girl too xx

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Xjo1992x · 04/07/2020 22:36

I'm having mine out on Monday! Then I'm going to track my cycle for a couple months as I plan to use the babydust method to try and concieve a baby girl!
Glad to hear people cycles return to normal pretty quickly, as I don't want to wait too long to ttc!
Best of luck to you Butterfly!

Nate1 · 04/07/2020 13:59

@butterfly5291 Oh I‘m so happy for you :) well done! I thought so too - after all the worries you must be so relieved!

butterfly5291 · 04/07/2020 11:49

@Nate1 it's out!!! So painful but totally worth it!

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butterfly5291 · 04/07/2020 08:14

Thanks @Nate1 I hope so too. Been in quite a lot of discomfort since yesterday evening. Us women go through a lot....and this is before growing another human!

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Nate1 · 03/07/2020 14:11

@butterfly5291So my other messages didn‘t come through Confused but anyway I just wanted to tell you to try to keep your hope up for the gynaecological appointment. It seems to be quite often that a second opinion is of help when it comes to coil removal and even without any strings a surgery is seldom..(repeating what my gyn said) wish you all the best :)!

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