TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

@HopeForRainbowbaby - it is quite confusing but I have to say its amazing how at ease you can feel on a thread chat with lovely ladies, it's a real comfort so thank you. Currently I'm only CD8 (after MC bleeding)

My Flo app is saying I'm starting my fertile window today (my usual cycle is 25 days) so hopefully things will be as normal this month, waiting for my first OPK's to arrive today, is there any tips etc for using them for the first time?

I logged the bleeding in my app as a period after MC to keep track of things, is that how everyone that has experienced the same done it?

@2020wish I'm glad that everyone is fine after the crash. Life has its way to throw curveballs at you when you least expect it. This is really awful ! Take care of yourself 😘

@Rebecca1992 welcome to group ! I'm sorry you found yourself here. If it was 4/5 weeks, I would expect you to come back faster to normal cycle. I have just had my second Mc end of May ( also early one, 5 weeks ) and I have ovulated 3 days later and my cycle was 3/4 days longer. After first MC it took my body longer to get back but then it was 9 weeks pregnancy. And once I had my first AF post MC the next cycle was 20 days. I also suspect i didn't ovulate in those two cycles ( first one I still had hcg few days before my period and second was just so short). So I'm also learning how my cycle would look like after second MC, I'm CD 2 so we will see. Your body is just recovering but it sounds like hcg went down pretty fast, so I would think you will have your ovulation sort of on time 😘 biggest hugs to you

@VP91x I tested 2 days early, got 4 faint positive results but definite positives, then tested again the next day (I wanted to test with a different brand to be sure) and again faint positive, I started cramping really bad that night and it continued for 4 days after (which would've been 2 days late on AF) I got several negative and started to bleed with what wasn't my usual period. I usually always get AF on time and never get any cramping only a pressure feeling the first day of my usual AF. I hope that makes sense?

@2020wish I'm the same which is weird

Fell pregnant in March but MC fell pregnant again without a period but MC and then this month period came 6 days early. So first period since February

@2020wish, Thank you for the advice. I'm so sorry to hear you've had more than one, that must be very hard, I'm still not sure what to think. I'm an early tester so if I hadn't tested so soon maybe I would have been none the wiser!

@VP91x (sorry it won't let me tag you) The CP is the term I read from dr.google, again I'm so new to all of this, should I be calling it a MC?

Morning ladies, what a hot night that was! Barely slept so not feeling particularly ready for Friday!

How is everyone?

@SmileyT sorry you’re suffering with a hangover, hope it passes soon! Maybe the rain will help as it’s not so muggy. It’s not raining here, kind of wish it would for an hour or two.
I think OH is going to wake with a hangover today 🙄. We ended up DTD last night as the alcohol made him horny 😂. Was waaaay too hot for that!

@VP91x are you getting the CM when you wipe, or just when you check? I am perplexed by this 😂

Anyone due to be testing today/this weekend?

@VP91x ahh so strange that you had your LH surge but no temp rise, especially in the heat 🤔 with the way I'm feeling now the thought of having sex is not appealing at all but I will try and get it done tonight or maybe just Saturday morning. Will you still test next week? x

@VP91x I feel pretty awful this morning and I've just remembered I put my cup in last night but can't even feel it now 😬 my temp was up this morning but no idea if that is the heat or the alcohol and my cheapie strip is the same if not a little darker than yesterday morning. So literally no idea whether I've ovulated or it'll happen today 😩 how are you this morning? Can't believe how much it's raining here I just want to stay in bed all day 😴

@2020wish sorry you had a day of it yesterday, how are you feeling today? Make sure you rest up as with a crash once the shock has gone your body will probably need to chill x

Came two day late *

If you where only weeks I suspect your ovulation date will be roughly around the same time as it usually is each month. As for the falling pregnant straight after I believe it’s either touch and go. I was pregnant in April and lost at 7weeks.. i ovulated 19 days later and again fell pregnant straight away before a new AF. Unfortunately that ended up as a chemical pregnancy as my AF cake 2 days late and test went to negative. The next cycle I didn’t fall pregnant at all x

I'm expecting a delivery of OPK's tomorrow morning so it will be my first time using them

Being honest ladies I'm not 100% it's my first CP and I bled for 4 days after so I've just been counting from that day. I was only 4 weeks so very early on. I'm just not sure what to expect going forward. I usually don't post on these things but I felt I needed some advice. I've read some people fall pregnant on their next cycle straight after... has any of ye experienced anything like this? Also thank u for all your kind words x

@2020wish you’re very strong, lady, and a wonderful friend xx

Just more shook up after
Crash. Back is sore but will know more in next few days if kids are injured. Yea I just reached out to her myself and said congrats but cried inside at the same time x

Sorry @Rebecca1992 I don’t think my message made sense. 4-6 weeks after the loss you should expect AF. So it could be as normal or a little delayed, but not by much

@2020wish oh my Lordy, what a time you are having. Are you all ok after the crash?

I’m so sorry about your day, please look after yourself.
And that’s rough with your friend, she probably is worried to say. Does she know you know now? Maybe you should approach her with it, or is it too raw?
Give yourself time, and talk to her when you’re ready.

Sending love xxx

@Rebecca1992 how far along was the chemical? I would say so or many a day or two late depending on when AF showed

@SmileyT 😂😂😂 good luck!! 🍆

@rebecca1992 sorry to hear about your CP. I think they usually say 4-6 weeks after you expect your AF so ovulation might be delayed, or sometimes the first cycle you might not ovulate. Are you doing OPKs or anything?
I hope you are ok and that your body regulates quickly xx

@VP91x yea my temps are around 36 to 36.20 odds before ovulation before and only ever got as high as as 36.60 odds after ovulation apart from one high spike when I got a BFP last month

Ladies I’m having such a day :( me and my daughter and niece were in a car crash today :( car is probably wrote off. Driver went into the back of me. Don’t know how my luck can get any worse..

Oh and my cousin who I am close with and has been messaging me through out my last two losses to see how I am well I’ve just found out through family she is pregnant and will have the same due date as I should be with my second :( she’s obviously too afraid to tell me :(

Hi Ladies

Looking for some advice, I'm on cd7 after a chemical pregnancy. Should I expect to ovulate as normal this month?

Ahh I'm so drunk 🥴 just getting home and hoping he initiates something