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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Daffodil21 · 17/06/2020 12:18

Continuing the original thread:

First time TTC - help please!! Any one else TTC for their first time? www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3914013-first-time-ttc-help-please-any-one-else-ttc-for-their-first-time

Tagging those in my tag list - sorry if I've left anyone out or tagged people who don't want to be tagged!

@AlisonLew15 @Bam27 @CEW19 @Dreaming101 @HJen22 @LennyAndToots @M4v3r1ck @Mrskcam @Rocky89 @SVC11
@TerryRose

And of course, our graduates:
@Peach1204 @Poppyismyfavourite @Summertime1992 I'm sure everyone here would love to hear how you're getting on!

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Bam27 · 19/06/2020 07:47

@SVC11 If you only stopped the pill 4 weeks ago then I definitely wouldn't worry about it yet. Its probably just your hormones trying to sort themselves out, like you said. I'm no expert but I would expect it to take a few months for everything to regulate.

SVC11 · 19/06/2020 07:21

Ahhh af turned up v v early for me. Only 9 days after my lh surge but exactly 4 weeks after stopping the pill. Are my hormones still sorting themselves out or does this mean I have a short luteal phase? Any ideas welcome xx

Mrskcam · 18/06/2020 23:43

Feeling a bit more chill this evening after coming across some texts from when I found out I was pregnant last year and in them I said I had no symptoms and I only tested because I was late ... makes me a bit hopeful again as I was worrying as have no symptoms currently. Will be testing Sunday at 13dpo

Dreaming101 · 18/06/2020 22:50

@acaciabluebell I forgot to ask.. what time are you testing? I would recommend early -mid afternoon and try and do it around the same time each day where possible! LH builds up throughout the day.

@Summertime1992 were you on any form of contraception before you started TTC?

@Hopeful1712 welcome to the thread and the TTC journey! I was on the pill so can’t say about the injection for sure but my sister in law was told anywhere between 3-18 months is the usual for any form of Hormonal contraception to leave the body is normal.

Dreaming101 · 18/06/2020 22:42

@acaciabluebell yes sweet, they should be getting darker in the build up to ovulation and then they will get lighter again. I test throughout my entire cycle as I don’t know where I am with it at the moment especially not having AF arrive for two months. What brand are you using? You may need to leave the test a little longer before reading it if they aren’t getting dark xx

Hopeful1712 · 18/06/2020 20:51

@summertime1992 thank you, i’ve read that too, but a very unhelpful friend made a comment about it and I just can’t shake it off!
Do you know how long the depo takes to get out of systems? I’ve read some really conflicting stuff. I’m trying to just be quite laid back about it, but them can’t stop myself researching different things!

Congratulations on your news. Fab news that it happened so fast for you. Side effects not ideal, but hopefully it will all be worth it. Cx

Summertime1992 · 18/06/2020 20:42

Gosh this thread is moving fast, welcome to everyone new :) and good luck for this month of TTC.

@Hopeful1712 Hi just to put your mind at ease I also have a tilted cervix, it does not have any effect on fertility from my research. I am currently pregnant after one month TTC so definitely did not effect me. Hopefully it will be nice and quick for you, just bare in mind depo provera injections can stay in your system for a while with them being deep IM injections.

Hope everyone is keeping well.

Update from me; I have decided pregnancy so far does not like me, as I have had a UTI/ possible thrush (currently on abx) and I now have really bad piles from increased blood flow and constipation, but very grateful at the same time (not for the piles though they can definitely do one!).

acaciabluebell · 18/06/2020 16:44

I'm surprised @Dreaming101 all those lines look super dark to me! Is that how it should be? The few times I used an OPK (roughly 5-6 days before my expected ovulation date) the line was so faint I could barely see it. Haven't used it properly yet though

Hopeful1712 · 18/06/2020 16:42

Hi all,

I was hoping I could join this thread, i’ve spent a bit of time reading through it all and you all seem really supportive. Congratulations to those of you that have had BFPs recently.

So i’m 31 and my OH (other half) is 39. I was on the depo injection for 8 years and recently changed to the pill in February this year - was starting to have issues with it. Recently been seen by a specialist and have found I have a tilted cervix - has anybody else had experience of this? Dr says it should be a problem but at the back of my mind I can’t help but worry.
Came off pill at the weekend (13 June), and have started taking Seven Seas Trying to Conceive. Currently on my withdrawal bleed, so hoping my cycle should come back after that and can get trying properly.
Just really looking for advice of what I should / should not be doing. I didn't realise there was so much to it before reading these posts!
Xx

Dreaming101 · 18/06/2020 16:41

@SaraVB with that app I use you can use and brand of tests, it’s a free app xxx

Dreaming101 · 18/06/2020 16:40

@saravb yeh the line needs to be darker or the same as the control line (the one on the right) xx

SaraVB · 18/06/2020 15:51

Thanks @Dreaming101.. So I'd need to look out for something similar to the last one when I'm close to ovulating right?

Dreaming101 · 18/06/2020 15:36

@Daffodil21 been there done that and also left it on the tissue on the bathroom windowsill once 😂

@saraVB photos for you xxx

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SaraVB · 18/06/2020 15:10

@Dreaming101 or anyone else using the cheaper opks with the line, do you mind posting a pic of the opk where you think you reached your peak? Just to have an idea of what to look out for. The instructions say that it should be darker than the test line but I'm wondering if that actually happens?

Bam27 · 18/06/2020 14:29

@Daffodil21 thanks for creating a new group and tagging.

I've been a bit quiet since AF arrived. Was so disappointed after chemical last month that I needed to take a step back. Was considering using ovulation tests this month but have decided I don't want to now. I don't want to put too much pressure on myself. Trying to take it easy this month and not think about it so much.

Daffodil21 · 18/06/2020 14:14

@Dreaming101 oh I didn't know there were cheaper ones you could also pee directly on too! This is my last time using OPKs (thank fuck) but I'll know if I ever decide to use them again - thanks! DH caught me walking from the bathroom this morning with the stick in my hand 😂 I needed the loo but I didn't want to get up quite then so I went back to bed and waited for the O there 😂

@LennyAndToots I can second that from @Poppyismyfavourite. I'm sure you will have seen my posts in the last thread about switching down to part time hours and conceiving the next month (now in a new job, working full time though!)

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Dreaming101 · 18/06/2020 14:09

@Daffodil21 Oo I didn’t know you can wee directly onto the clear blue ones.. the ones I’m using now you can wee directly on.

I use these ones (Easy@home) to monitor the levels and then when I see they’re rising use a pink clear blue xx

Poppyismyfavourite · 18/06/2020 13:53

Wow this has moved on! Wishing you all luck for this month!

@LennyAndToots DH and I watched a documentary about conception / pregnancy last night and it mentioned that maternal stress and anxeity can result in things like low birth rate :S. I'm not super stressed but definitely have a low-level background worry because of everything going on... and ironically, am now also worrying about being too stressed...

acaciabluebell · 18/06/2020 13:41

Thanks so much @Daffodil21and @Dreaming101! I already have the cheaper strips which I bought off Amazon. I think it'll take some time getting used to figuring out the lines etc. I'll get the CB ones if I can't figure these ones out.

Daffodil21 · 18/06/2020 13:36

@Dreaming101 you clearly have more patience than me!!

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Daffodil21 · 18/06/2020 13:35

Hi @acaciabluebell Yes, the digital ones are made by Clear Blue. I absolutely think they are worth the money if you're wanting to track. There are two types - the pink ones are cheaper and give you your two most fertile days (typically you will ovulate within the day after a smiley face - pic of the diagram in the leaflet attached).

The blue ones are more expensive but they tell you when your hormone levels are beginning to rise, so you know before you are about to ovulate (they tell you this with a flashing smiley face), then you should get a static smiley face close to ovulation, as the pinks ones. They will typically show you your 4 most fertile days (high = flashing, peak = static).

Both are available in packs of 10 or 20, and I think the best place to buy them is drfertility.co.uk. They are cheaper than amazon there.

If you go for the pink ones you can always test in the morning and the evening, so you don't miss the beginning of the peak. They really do take the guesswork out of how strong a line is, and you just pee on them like you would a pregnancy test. You use the same holder but you change the sticks after every use - hope that helps!

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Dreaming101 · 18/06/2020 13:34

@Daffodil21 that’s good that they are on the ball and wanting to re do all the tests!

@acaciabluebell the ones with the smiley face are Clearblue so quite costly. A lot of us are using the cheaper ones that show the two lines and you watch and wait for the one line to get darker. It helps to log these via a photo on an app. I use the Premom app as it charts the results for you. This is mine today so I can see the increase.. probably my peak.

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acaciabluebell · 18/06/2020 13:23

Hi everyone. I'm new to the TTC journey as well. I have a question about digital OPKs, more specifically the one that shows a smiley face - which OPK is it? And how does it work? I assume it's expensive, so do you have to keep buying new OPKs? Is it like the digital pregnancy test? Is it worth it basically is what I'm asking!

Daffodil21 · 18/06/2020 13:14

@LennyAndToots sorry to hear that. Extra stress will just put extra pressure on you and make things even more difficult, so I'm glad you're getting the help you need. If you're happy to dtd frequently for longer, and you don't mind not knowing exactly when AF is due, then actually not knowing your fertile window doesn't actually really matter.

@Dreaming101 that sounds so frustrating, but the OPK sounds promising! Hope you manage to get your blood tests soon. I'm waiting on blood tests too but doesn't look like that's going to happen anytime soon. Not to worried though as I had them done when we were living in England, so it's just a formality now we've moved to Scotland - the seem to wang go re-do everything!

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Dreaming101 · 18/06/2020 13:02

@LennyAndToots it’s a weird one I keep hoping the tests are wrong even though I know that they aren’t. I’ve done about 10 in the last 8 weeks..

Just did today’s OPK and my LH level has shot up... it was gradually going up but today a jump from 0.6 to 1.2 🙏🏼

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