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TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)

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VP91x · 16/06/2020 18:17

Hey lovelies,

New thread - currently CD17 (cycle #3) still waiting for peak OPK.

I hopefully have tagged everyone -

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4
WellHurrahAndHuzzah
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@Dizzy201
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@1990EM
@Chickoletta
@Tink20058
@sunflower96
@Meomeomeo
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Sallyjo27
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@anaconda76
@AR52
@DontStandSoClose
@Donnat89
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86

If anyone else would like to join please do❤️

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VP91x · 22/06/2020 07:06

@MichT4 @chloedancer897 @1990EM ah, I was just so angry, still am. And to make things worse I woke up randomly at 3.30am took my temp just in case... 35.97

Fell back asleep woke up just now... 36.48

The first temp would mean, temp drop ovulating today and second temp would probably confirm ovulation as yesterday 🙄

@2020wish I'm so so sorry. Depending on how your daughter is normally. I think maybe by being completely honest with her and explaining what happened truthfully. It might help her process it better. I'm really unsure, I'm just trying to think forward to my daughter being older. My heart breaks for you that you will have to do this. Sending you so much love xx

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2020wish · 22/06/2020 06:37

So I’m out guys. Bfn :( temp starting to drop :( no AF yet and cervix still high. But if I was pregnant I would of well had my BFP by now :( feeling deflated. Anyone any advice on how I should break it to my daughter

TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)
Ejb86 · 22/06/2020 06:08

@2020wish got everything crossed for you today!

I'm 8dpo and starting to get that itch to POAS.

Niisa · 22/06/2020 02:18

Heyyyy guys! Sorry I've been MIA - I've had a lot going on with family. The thread was literally just made and it's already almost 800 messages 😂 so will have a proper catch up with a cup of tea tomorrow after I'm done with my virtual teaching of hormonal year 9s (pray for me guys!)

Speak to you all tomorrow (well later today but you know what I mean!) xxxx

1990EM · 21/06/2020 23:45

@2020wish I see something on both pics!! Pleeease let it not be an evap 🙏

1990EM · 21/06/2020 23:44

O no @VP91 that's totally rubbish!!! Agree that it sounds like you have covered yourself really well.. but when you're giving it everything you've got there can be nothing more frustrating than that! Smoke would be coming out of my ears!!

chloedancer897 · 21/06/2020 23:11

@VP91x does he know how you feel? I do think sometimes men deal with things a different way and just push away when they're anxious. Try talking to him and see if there's anything more going on. Also tell him how important the timings are and maybe sometimes you won't be in the mood or may be tired but you have such small windows of opportunity when you're ovulating

2020wish · 21/06/2020 23:10

@vp91x does he know he has you this upset? It’s really not on

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VP91x · 21/06/2020 23:09

@MichT4 @chloedancer897 oh I'm just in tears, don't even want to look at him. As you all know it's so stressful doing all this testing and stuff. Especially with July being my due date it's just that extra pressure.

Why did he have to be an idiot on today of all days!? 😩

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MichT4 · 21/06/2020 23:04

@VP91x no effing way!! 🤬🤬
I would be seriously pissed off.

That said, just because I don’t want you to worry, you’ll definitely have covered yourself anyway, so don’t lose any hope on it.

Just punish him for days xx

chloedancer897 · 21/06/2020 23:01

@VP91x where do you live. We will all come down there and give him a good talking to!

2020wish · 21/06/2020 22:53

@VP91x I’m actually gutted for u. I think I have good reasoning to get off with a slap on the wrist

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VP91x · 21/06/2020 22:49

@2020wish and now he is on his game and quite frankly, I might just kill him. Noone would find me guilty right?

Gutted 😭

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2020wish · 21/06/2020 22:46

@chloedancer897 they don’t. Sending you hugs for this month xx

@HopeForRainbowbaby I’m so hoping it is

@SmileyT Yes I’ll test tomorrow and should know by then if it’s an evap or an actual line

@vp91x :( oh no I’d actually be annoyed myself big time. Just leaving u in the larch like that isn’t on

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VP91x · 21/06/2020 22:38

@2020wish yeah I can see the faint line on the original too. Hope its not an evap xx

Ugh just had a nightmare with my partner 😭 he got home from work and initiated sex before going on his game etc. And then during he was just like ah, I can't I just don't have the energy/can't finish and got up! After allll this month poas and all the waiting and now this. I'm so upset 😩 xx

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SmileyT · 21/06/2020 22:37

@2020wish will you test again in the morning? I wouldn't worry too much about today's test because when you wake up it will be a stronger line for you on a new test and hopefully a sticky bean so you can grow your family 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Love that we are all laughing at the blue vaginas but I bet at least one of us gets a mirror out over the next couple months 😂😂

chloedancer897 · 21/06/2020 22:33

@2020wish fingers crossed for you tomorrow. It's so tough on kids. They just think babies come, they don't understand the pain and frustration we go through

HopeForRainbowbaby · 21/06/2020 22:27

@SmileyT @MichT4 @2020wish haha yeah I guess seeing blue is easier😂

@2020wish I see shadow of the line ! 👌 very promising ☺️

chloedancer897 · 21/06/2020 22:25

@2020wish yes, I definitely see a faint line

2020wish · 21/06/2020 22:24

@chloedancer897 can you see it in the originals?

I know what you mean :( we have to keep positive and trust that our bodies will allow the right egg to progress for our rainbow babies.. it’s so hard to stay positive but you ladies have truly been a god send

chloedancer897 · 21/06/2020 22:22

@ManchNic I can't imagine how difficult this has been for you all. I hope that you get pregnant soon xox

2020wish · 21/06/2020 22:22

@VP91x that’s the originals... although I think I can maybe see it on them? Although it looks grey In the pic.. more blue IRL tho. But again could be an evap

TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)
TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)
chloedancer897 · 21/06/2020 22:21

@2020wish I see a line in that pic

chloedancer897 · 21/06/2020 22:21

@2020wish yes I feel the same. I went back to uni when I my youngest was 18 months to retrain so I wanted to wait until I had graduated and got a job. I wish I didn't wait now. But I suppose we will never know if we would have had issues either way. We just need to keep trying and having the faith that we can have these babies x

ManchNic · 21/06/2020 22:20

@chloedancer897 thank you. My daughter talks about Henry having another baby all the time. They're so innocent but it's heartbreaking when it's all you want to be able to give them x