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TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)

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VP91x · 16/06/2020 18:17

Hey lovelies,

New thread - currently CD17 (cycle #3) still waiting for peak OPK.

I hopefully have tagged everyone -

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4
WellHurrahAndHuzzah
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@Dizzy201
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@1990EM
@Chickoletta
@Tink20058
@sunflower96
@Meomeomeo
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Sallyjo27
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@anaconda76
@AR52
@DontStandSoClose
@Donnat89
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86

If anyone else would like to join please do❤️

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chloedancer897 · 17/06/2020 07:12

@VP91x I'm trying not to lose hope and I wish I didn't test so early but it's almost impossible to wait sometimes esp as I'm getting so many symptoms!

Going to buy FRER and use those. Also have some hospital tests from my miscarriage left and a digital test but they never work early so I'll have to wait until Sunday to use that

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VP91x · 17/06/2020 07:01

@chloedancer897 no don't rule yourself out yet! Will you continue to use CB early result or switch to FRER? I've seen that 9dpo is the most common day to implant so then HCG would show 11/12dpo. So I would test on Friday with either CB early again or FRER. 🥰

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chloedancer897 · 17/06/2020 06:08

Well 10DPO and did another early CB test with FMU and it's negative. Should I call it a day now? Anyone else get a neg at 10DPO and go on go get a positive?

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VP91x · 17/06/2020 05:42

@Bellabubble hope all is ok! When do you get your Internet sorted?
Ahh, don't worry too much, super early and not fmu. When will you test next? 12 or 14dpo?xx

@chloedancer897 honestly, no idea why we test early but, it always happens haha. Curiosity is too much to ignore. But, yeah definitely ignore that result!

@Diorissimo1985 I really hope it helps!!

@Wishingfornumber2 don't stress I'm on day 9 of flashy smiley!! I'm with you 🥰

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chloedancer897 · 16/06/2020 23:32

@Bellabubble I did the same, I thought maybe if the hormones were strong enough, I'd get a BFP anyway with dilute urine at D9PO....lol I'm really not a patient person so this TWW has been killing me.

I'm having lots of lower abdo stabbing pains on my right side, sore boobs, constant nausea, tiredness and peeing a lot so I'm still holding out hope

Wishingfornumber2 · 16/06/2020 23:17

Thanks for new thread @VP91x day 10 of flashy smiley 🙄! Have come to peace with the fact I’m not going to get a static. X

chloedancer897 · 16/06/2020 22:56

So I caved and did a CB test and it was BFN even though I’m only D9PO, I don’t know why I did a test! I was determined not to test before now! Why do we do this to ourselves?!

Diorissimo1985 · 16/06/2020 22:40

Thanks for the new thread @VP91x

I have my first reflexology appointment tomorrow - no idea if it will help me hang on to these pregnancies I keep losing but I will try anything!! Will report back x

chloedancer897 · 16/06/2020 22:22

Thank you for moving the post over x

HE88 · 16/06/2020 21:48

@Renna I'm not bad thanks had some spotting yesterday and some again today which is always a sign that af is on her way!
Good on you for not caving and testing, keeping everything crossed for you.
Aw I can imaging a few friends have dogs and they said the same about it being like having a baby 😂. Xx

Bellabubble · 16/06/2020 21:46

@VP91x thank you for the next thread!! I ran out of 4G data on Friday - so haven’t been able to keep up to what’s been happening much!

Congratulations to all those with bfp - and sorry to hear those that AF got!! I’m currently 10dpo - I caved and did one of the early cb tests - but bfn! When I read the instructions properly afterwards I realised it said use fmu - so I wasted that one then! But I was hoping there’d have been a faint line at least! My luteal phase can be 14 to 16 days though, so I could either be 4 days away from af or 6 🙄

Hope everyone is doing well wherever you sre in your cycle! xx

DBTJ · 16/06/2020 21:45

Wine will soon be my best friend
Thanks @VP91x

Renna · 16/06/2020 21:41

@HE88 hey hun I'm good how are you ? I'm 11dpo , still temping even though it's all over the place 🙄😂 just waiting out see if AF shows by weekend . Trying to not symptom spot even though I've had some symptoms I could be looking into... but that's happened previous months and got AF ! so 🤷‍♀️ best I just try ignore and wait it out xx puppy keeping me busy worrying about her like I would a baby . Puppy is good practice tbh ! Sleepless nights , toilet accidents, worry and vet visits to check shes ok . Back to vets again tomo 😓🙄🐶 xxx

HE88 · 16/06/2020 21:23

@Renna how are you doing? Xx

Tink20058 · 16/06/2020 19:50

@VP91x thanks for the tag xx

Renna · 16/06/2020 19:48

Thanks @VP91x xx

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VP91x · 16/06/2020 19:42

@Jazper haha oh no I can't believe you hate the GF juice so much! Do you like the POM?

You will all be the first to know once I get it or video proof of it being smashed if I dont😂

@SmileyT ahh what a gorgeous place to go! So jealous, I would love to visit. The only place I have been to on that side of the world is the Dominican Rep so beautiful and Colombia (family is from there). Would love another long haul!! Maybe just start a day earlier and see what it does it might give you a slightly lower baseline and may give you a flashy.

Like @Jazper said I've been drinking throughout too as it's meant to help thicken the lining so its nice a juicy for a sticky bean 🤞😂 xx

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SmileyT · 16/06/2020 19:36

@Jazper ooh thanks, just finished a glass of Grapefruit so I'll get pouring myself a glass of POM now 👌🏾 anything I can do to help I will try xx

HE88 · 16/06/2020 19:27

Thanks for the new thread @VP91x can't believe we are onto part 3 🙈 xx

Jazper · 16/06/2020 19:23

@SmileyT , I'm doing the Pom juice throughout. It works by increasing blood flow to the uterus, thus improving the quality of the lining, so I figured, the earlier I start, the better.

SmileyT · 16/06/2020 19:17

@VP91x my family have got a house in Barbados so will go there for 2 weeks 😎 my brother is going there for the summer with his kids as he is working from home so thought why not as flights are cheap. Yeah it's bloody frustrating with the CB, I'm trying to work out what day I should start? App says day 8 but wondering if I started earlier whether it would catch my oestrogen surge or if I'd just end up wasting more sticks, so wondering if I should just start later... ahh I dunno, bloody CB just conning us 😩

Also what is the deal with POM juice are we drinking this before ovulation or just afterwards? Xx

Banbi · 16/06/2020 19:03

Thanks @VP91x

Jazper · 16/06/2020 19:02

@VP91x juice game is strong 💪🏼
I'm on Grapefruit and Pom juice now. Two glasses of GF this morning nearly made me sick in my mouth 😂😂😂
I actually think I'm more relaxed this month. I was meant to start OPK's this morning and completely forgot 😱
Laughed at you calling him a little bastard smilie today 🤣 really hoping to see you get your static soon xx

Rainbowhope11 · 16/06/2020 18:53

@VP91x thanks for starting the new thread lovely! ❤️

Dipsy77 · 16/06/2020 18:50

Thanks @vp91 x