TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)

@Renna well i have everything crossed for u, & its crazy u have an ultrasound tomorrow too, imagine they see it on the scan 🙏 oh i hope they do and really hope AF stays away for u xxx

@VP91x well....? I’ve just been on a walk, home bargains run (£80 later) and scoffed a mcds....you must have done it by now?? xx

@Hayleylou89 hey babe xx no sign of AF I did think shed show today as its CD28 which is the day she showed last month but the month before was CD27 so maybe cycles getting longer by one day each time or something 🙄🤷‍♀️
My ava temps have gradually dropped though so I'm just convinced AF will show... femometer BBT has kinda stayed the same so I'm thinking ava probably more reliable as I'm wearing it all night . So I'm not confident. Dont have any AF symptoms yet but this happened last months and she surprised me by showing up a day lay2e than the previous month!
Thing is I have an internal ultrasound tomorrow lunch time ... so I guess that will tell me either way if AF not arrived by then ! Hope you're okay and feeling good xxxx

@chloedancer897 are you about to tell me who you contacted to go private in NI for that amount? X

@chloedancer897 I asked for nhs as an option but they said that's not possible it's all private 🙁 gutted but was worth a try. Thanks for the advice. It could be just London prices who knows 🙁

@VP91x ooo I had a google - he will be a big boy! My mum and dad have an English otterhound - they are quite big but being a hound, they are pretty stupid! Actually that’s not fair - he is quick to learn but plays the fools so he doesn’t have to do anything 😂 xx

@Renna thank you! She is very unhappy with me for putting the drops in her ear..she then sits and shakes her head (I’m hoping this is actually making the drops go in further!) It can tKe puppies a while to learn to give signals, Bella now scratches at the door, but as a pup she didn’t do anything! I have heard some people at my dog training talk about a bell on the door, and they train the dog to nose at the bell to jingle it when they need a wee. Bella is a wimp - she would have been scared out of her wits if I had done that 😂

I’m wishing the weekend away - I’m cycle day 27 and 12dpo, but since my friend told me she was pregnant yesterday all my positive vibes have disappeared :(

@Eli2020 what? That's nuts! I'm in NI so I don't know if that's made the difference? But you should be able to go to the initial consultant appt and if they make onward referrals, it should be within the NHS!

@2020wish never had reiki and don’t know much about it to be honest! What does it entail? X

@VP91x dam those flashes!!! It is interesting seeing your pic, the difference in the lines between the two cb sticks being from the same day. So used my last stick tonight and obviously a flashy, 12th day in a row. I’m CD26 so know I have past ovulation but thought might as well carry on testing just incase. When I last got a static it was on cd20 so really thought I would get a static last weekend. We DTD every 2 or 3 days last week and into this week so hopefully have covered it if I did ovulate. I’m not going to use CB next month, this was its last chance lol! I did have some slight cramping today that felt like AF was on the way but my cycles have ranged from 28-38 days so will just have to wait and see.

How many CB sticks do you have left? Your new puppy is so cute! X

@Hayleylou89 no joy as of yet

@2020wish any joy with ur frers? Xxx

@Renna how r u!!! Still no af today?? Xxx u feeling like shes going to show her face?... im so excited for u to test hope this is ur month!! 🙏🙏🌈💙💖 x

Hi @VP91x just seen the post thank you!! And thank you everyone else for your replies....It really helps hearing from others who have been through similar. I am still bleeding atm but it’s very dark in colour and more like spotting I would say. I did a pregnancy test on Monday which was one week post mva and I got a pretty strong positive still. Think I may start tracking once the bleeding stops completely maybe, I have previously used the clear blue OPKs but I agree @Tink20058 the flashing smileys drive me insane 😂. Congrats on your pregnancy! I’m thinking of just buying some cheap ones until after my first period as I’ve no idea where I currently am in my cycle and they are pricey. Thats good to know @SmileyT I had presumed I would need to see a negative test before ovulation would happen.

@VP91x could I still use the fmu from this morning?

@1990EM so frustrating lol

@2020wish nooooo!! Maybe keep it for tomorrow morning now it's so late? crying

@Northernsoul90 as a lot of other ladies have said I started ttc as soon as bleeding after my surgery had stopped, from what I understand the level of hcg isn't really important for ovulation it may just been a sign of retained products if it goes on too long. Your body doesn't think it's pregnant just because your hcg isn't completely flushed out, i ovulated about 2 weeks after my surgery and was still getting a very faint positive test. it is different for other people as my cycle has gone back to exactly what it was before whereas others have had changes. As you said do what feels best for you and your body xx

@VP91x Well im starting CB tomorrow which means you will be ending, seems to be the way we work 🙌🏾. I came down today and said to OH ooh my strip actually looks quite dark, he replied 'yeah it always does that straight after your period and then goes blank for like a week before ovulation' checked back on my app and was like 'damn how do you know more than I do' the student has become the master 😂😂😂

@Northernsoul90 hi so sorry to hear off your recent loss I personally started tracking my ovulation a few days after my bleeding stopped gave me something to focus on I guess although I absolutely hated the little flashy face on clear blues with a passion 🤣 but I got caught straight away and currently 9 weeks pregnant xxx

@Rainbowhope11 I always use guided sleep meditation on youtube to help me sleep it really helps me nod off quickly xx

@1990EM now delivery is pushed back til 9pm!! 😭

@VP91x have no idea just seen both the comments deleted

@Northernsoul90 welcome! I started trying straight after the bleeding had stopped. I used opk test strips and then DTD around my fertile window. I got pregnant again straight away but unfortunately had another mc. It’s really all down to when you are ready. I believe your hcg has to be showing negative on a pregnancy test for your body to start the cycle again. Sorry for you loss and fingers crossed

@1990EM hahah I know I’m refreshed my delivery tracking lol