TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)

@peonyrose87 such lovely news!

@VP91x I’m queuing outside Tesco. Already regretting this ridiculousness

Aw, congrats @peonyrose87! Awesome news

Thank you ladies! I'm beaming, but so nervous!!

I'm 11dpo so it's super early still! We really didn't try much, just followed SMEP and I've been taking my prenatal vitamins since I first found out I was pregnant in November-I just kept taking them after my MMC in January. Felt a bit sick the last few days and had some cramps, but otherwise nothing is different. I didn't really get symptoms the last time until 6 weeks.

@peonyrose87 congratulations on your bfp lovely news xx

@Renna glad everything was ok with your scan and sorry af got you today she got me too so we still cycle buddies ☺️. I felt exactly the same as you at the start of the week and after a convo with hubby I'm not using opks this cycle or adding anything extra to my amazon basket! I'll stick to what I'm already taking and just hope for the best. Xx

@peonyrose87 congrats thats such a strong positive 🥰

@renna uv had such an emotional rollercoaster of a day i feel for u, but dnt want u to feel like giving up, maybe having the thought in the back if ur mind that u had some damage has stressed unconsciously and now u know ur ok in that dept ull feel more relaxed, r bodies are strange and react to stress in in crazy ways xx wouldnt ur hubby look into hcg injections? Isnt ur DH on them aswell @2020wish ? Might just be that extra boost u need x

@peonyrose87 congratulations!! Yes tell all, tell us your secrets!

@VP91x don’t feel fed up. Maybe bin off tonight’s and have a nice chilled, hydrated one. Then see what happens in the morning? Or is that risky business xx

@peonyrose87 yay!!! Amazing news! Congratulations!

So this just happened!! I'm in so much shock, can't believe it!

@2020wish what a symptom! Sure OH won’t be complaining about that! I’m excited for you and @chloedancer897 to test on Sunday. Is there anyone else due?

@renna so sorry AF showed up. On a positive, it’s right on time so as you say, you should take confidence that you don’t need to worry too much about the tracking. It’s a real luxury so definitely enjoy it and don’t let anything else get you bogged down. I don’t think I’d do all the OPKs etc if I knew when I’d ovulate. And it’s so good they didn’t find anything untoward with your scan. Means you are good to go for a nice chilled month. Sending hugs if you need them 💕
And also definitely get back to you - enjoy your exercise and doing what makes you feel good xx

@Hayleylou89 what a strange test, so what’s it meant to tell you. Definitely look after yourself

@VP91x dare I ask??

Thanks hun @chloedancer897 xx

@Renna sorry yes, that's what I meant. Just step back from the temps and OPKs, we can all get a little obsessive with them. And it's so overwhelming. I've become a completely different person this month obsessing about it and yet the month I did get pg was the month I wasn't worried about it too much. They always say stress is the biggest inhibitor to pregnancy which is why getting puppies and going on holiday always work!

Take care of yourself and do things to make yourself feel good xo

Thanks @chloedancer897 x x yeah I mean I wont be prevent us getting pg and i hope itll just happen but I think I need a break from doing opks and temping etc . I get my peak around the same time each month so I know roughly when I'm ovulating so just need to make sure I ramp up the DTD around that time i guess i dont really need the rest of it, just gives me stuff to analyse and stress over and consume me. I keep holding back on proper getting back into my fitness and diet etc incase I'm pregnant.. maybe need to focus back on that more and hopefully a BFP will just come from getting healthier etc xx

@Renna *most wombs. Sorry

@Renna so sorry AF came but glad you got some answers. It means your uterus is tilted slightly to the back but it's nothing to worry about. Move wombs are tilted.

Sometimes it's good to take a step back from TTC for a while. It can be very overwhelming. Even to take the pressure off you both for a little bit?x

They described my uterus as retroverted.. whatever that means.. xx

I'm okay xx @Hayleylou89 had my scan . Just before the scan AF started 😓 the lady doing my scan was the same lady who confirmed my MMC at the hospital 😓 but they confirmed everything is looking good and no problems thank god so that's a relief. But emotional day getting AF again ... need to have a chat with DH tonight whether Im gonna carry on with opks temping etc . feeling so low about TTC journey now and need to figure out what to do going forward xxx had my cry today. Just thought I'd be preg again by now xx

@2020wish asked DH to get me some FRER and he refused. He's told me to wait. So I did try to cave there but not allowed 😂

@SmileyT went and had the antibody test earlier and it was negative but apparently thats not conclusive that uv not had it but just that u dnt have the antibodies to face it, so im going to veryyy careful now being around ppl.

I was convinced id had it over new yr and then my waters broke just a few weeks later but who knows... and who knows how reliable these covid tests really are it was £30 for the test in the local chemist x

@renna hope ur ok, how was ur scan? Xxx

Hcg down to 24 today at 5 weeks after the MVA taking its damn time but I’m CD3 today and opk is fairly low, going to start them now anyway just in case my body decides to ovulate as soon as hcg goes below 5!

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend, any nice plans now we can visit other people’s gardens?!