Long Cycle girls TTC #2

Hi everyone, did SMEP & also took soy isoflavones last cycle and just got AF today! Usually have 43-53 day cycles and this one has only been 26 ! X

Hello!

Long cycle Q! My last cycle was 53 days when I usually have 35ish day cycles?

For the last few days I've had a verrrrrry light period. I was expecting a bad one coz I was so late. But tonight I have really bad what feel like mid cycle pain. Definitely doesn't feel like period pain.

On my last cycle, I got flashy smileys for 7 days starting cycle day 15. Had I had a "regular" cycle, I think I would be around that time now. Do you think that even though I'm technically only cycle day 5, that I could also be in my fertile window?

I have no OPKs in the house or I would just pee on a stick!

Why is this so hard!

So sorry @JanQi ❤️

@JanQi so sorry to read this. Big hugs x

Hi ladies, it looks like I'm back in the TTC club. My BFP turned out to be a chemical and I started bleeding yesterday at 5+6. Trying to remain hopeful that at least I've proved I can get pregnant but I'm still gutted.

@Suki2020 it's difficult to say really because it is technically above cover, but not much :/

@Newbie0818 I will test if af doesn’t arrive next week, but I don’t think I’ve ovulated as my temp is a lot lower than normal. I think my body tried but failed.

Does anyone else think I’ve not ovulated?

@hollywhooo I know.. The lack of symptoms is worrying, honestly thought at my dating scan they were going to tell me I was an idiot there's nothing there, but literally as soon as they put it on my belly I saw a little baby shape and I instantly relaxed. My boobs have never really been sore (which is surprising as pre af they hurt a lot) they hurt on and off but never unbearable.. I have noticed a bit of leakage every now and then now which is weird.. Aww good luck telling your parents! I told my mum at about 5 weeks! Have you contacted the midwife/gp yet?
I have my anomaly Scan on Tuesday and starting to get nervous now! Oh and I'm now officially over half way!! How crazy is that!? 20+3 today! X

@Suki2020 is it worth you taking a pg test just in case?

@xoJellyBean I'm not really thinking about it all that much but according to apps I'm 4/5 dpo.

@Pol96 i’m so glad you’ve said that! It’s so difficult to relax isn’t it. I’ve had sore boobs on and off but only mildly and that’s literally it. I’m not tired, queasy, nothing!!!
We’re telling our parents today i think :) i’d rather them know either way if something went wrong x

Ah @Dollybird89 hope AF comes soon, I got to 51 days and then started spotting 🤞 yours is sooner

@xoJellyBean I'm ok thanks! Cd5 and waiting for blood results next week but just looking forward to DTD again from tomorrow. Going with the approach of every 2-3 days again and see what happens. Just hope it's not another bloody 50+ day cycle!

@hollywhooo don't worry about no symptoms! I was just a bit off my food and a bit tired but that could also have been lockdown.. I think I took about 30/40 tests!! I never really had any and now the only symptoms are a small bump and feeling him kick me daily (plus a few aches and pains 😅) x

I'm now cd 48 and getting frustrated waiting for af now

@xoJellyBean i’m still in shock haha! I’ve got no symptoms what so ever, feel totally normal which is worrying me a bit. I’ve taken 5 tests, going to try and stop and relax now, i’m driving myself insane haha. Hows things with you? Xx

@Newbie0818 that’s good. Both my apps say I’m 4dpo but I’m not convinced I’ve even ovulated yet. My cervix was high and open beginning of the week and now it’s not but but temp is weird and I had cramping and a headache yesterday so I’m confused. Also had a high reading on opk Thursday night by my cervix wasn’t really high so who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Suki2020 yep all temp rises the past few days 🤞🏼 I saw your opk the other day, how are things going?

@Dollybird89 sounds similar to my last cycle so I don't think actually ovulated. Mine ended on Day 51 so hopefully AF turns up soon and you can get on with next cycle xx

@Suki2020 yeah I spoke to them Monday and she just told me to keep testing until positive or period arrives

@Dollybird89 have you spoken to the doctors about your period not arriving?

@Suki2020 my longest cycle has been 38 days I tested ovulation and got a peak around cd 18/19 but also had a ton of stress at same time.. Damn family arguments. Feeling better today besides being woken up by dpd delivery at 8.15 😂

@Dollybird89 sorry to hear your feeling rubbish. How long are your cycles normally? So are you cd45 without ovulation?

Cd 45 now and still bfn.. Brought thermometer on ebay last night so hopefully start tracking that soon. Its weird.. Nausea has died down a bit but still super exhausted, can't seem to make it through the day without a nap. What makes it worse is that my oh always looks so sad when he thinks af is almost here.. He wants it so bad bless him(me too ofc)