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Any one else due AF 20/06?

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candycrush2298 · 10/06/2020 11:16

Trying to find others with a similar cycle to mine

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Kaybobx · 17/06/2020 11:58

@candycrush2298 a negative for me too! Although if i move it in a million directions and zoom in im sure i see something but yes thats what our mind does to us.
I'll see if she shows her face on Saturday then.

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candycrush2298 · 17/06/2020 09:24

@Kaybobx at least you have the urine let us know when they arrive xx

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Kaybobx · 17/06/2020 09:20

@candycrush2298 I've not tested yet. Eagerly awaiting my amazon delivery with my tests! I've put my fmu in a pot 🙈

@Sunnydays123456 sorry she showed her ugly face! 👎🏼 keep going.

@snapple21 stay positive, anything possible with our crazy unpredictable bodies.

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candycrush2298 · 17/06/2020 09:15

@snapple21 thanks so much hun.

@Firsttymmum congratulations thats amazing you wishing such a healthy pregnancy!!!!

@Sunnydays123456 so sorry AF arrived I truly hate her

@Kaybobx @snapple21 I tested negative again this morning I am just going to leave it now until AF. No point wasting all these tests

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Firsttymmum · 17/06/2020 08:09

Thank you

@Sunnydays123456 so sorry to hear that AF has arrived how long have you been trying ?

snapple21 · 17/06/2020 08:08

Massive congratulations!

My temp has dropped today so expecting af by Saturday!

Sunnydays123456 · 17/06/2020 07:51

Hey guys - I’m out as AF just arrived !

Think according to that ov day 14 (when dp was away !) oh well!

Good luck all and congrats ! Xx

Kaybobx · 17/06/2020 07:46

Congratulations!!! What fab news to wake up to. Wishing you a wonderful pregnancy 🥰

MyGossip · 17/06/2020 07:42

@Firsttymmum congratulations!! So happy you got your BFP!!

Firsttymmum · 17/06/2020 07:39

@Jadeb1995 Thank you , doesn’t feel real!

Jadeb1995 · 17/06/2020 07:31

@Firsttymmum congratulations!!!

Firsttymmum · 17/06/2020 05:54

Good morning everyone, definitely a positive this morning and I’m 12dpo so I wasn’t expecting to see this.
Shocked, sending baby dust your way and hope we see some more positives.

I honestly don’t feel pregnant at all so don’t worry about symptoms too much . I’m also cramping like I’m due AF must be your body preparing for the little miracle.

I have been trying for 11 months so I’m so happy with this outcome and hopefully it progresses this time.

Any one else due AF 20/06?
snapple21 · 16/06/2020 23:45

Still crossing my fingers for you. At least we all have each other!
More period cramps tonight. I've been super crampy this cycle.

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candycrush2298 · 16/06/2020 23:08

typo meant to say even read women who said their cervix was high and soft every month before AF

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candycrush2298 · 16/06/2020 23:06

@snapple21 who knows some articles on Google say weeks after missed period others say it should never drop after ovulation. Its all so confusing that I don't actually know what the correct way is. I have even read women who have a cervix before AF every month so its really strange. Mine was low for a few dpo then it went higher and firm and stayed like that until today where it is noticeably softer. Yeah I am on holiday this week so don't want to wish the week away but yeah by the weekend we should all have some answers my longest cycle was 27 days. Usually I am 25 days. So Saturday is when it should start but I will only call myself late on Monday. Provided AF doesn't rear her ugly head before then.

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snapple21 · 16/06/2020 22:17

@candycrush2298 my cervix is still high but quite firm. Before my period it goes very low and hard. I wonder how soon before it changes. This is the first month I've checked it at this stage in my cycle so who knows. Not had loads of cm, a little bit of creamy maybe. Roll on Friday/Saturday and I'll know for sure. Three days at work to get through before then!

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candycrush2298 · 16/06/2020 21:05

@Kaybobx we are a special species 🤣🤣🤣 my cramps are still on my left side. And my back still has that dull ache in the same spot. My thighs on the outside (both of them) have started paining so bad. I'm burping a lot sorry tmi lol. Lol and I'm also feeling bloated. My main PMS symptoms are cramps really really severe 2 days before its due, high irritability, sever mood swings and chocolate cravings like maybe 3 days after ovulation basically anything sugary lol. I am so hopeful that if I did implant yesterday there will be enough HCG to pick it up tomorrow what if i am one of those late bloomers and my body is slow to produce it 🤣🤣🤣 and then I am left really waiting for Saturday. Nooooooooo!!!!

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Kaybobx · 16/06/2020 20:58

@candycrush2298 my cramps appear to be just on my right side and round to my lower back. Im soooo bloated! Not sure if thats from the Chinese though late last night 😂 i never seem to get any other symptoms of AF.

Tomorrow we will know i guess... we've waited a whole 2 weeks for this moment. We've got this girl, all women are different. I'd definitely say were a different species too after our chats haha!!

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candycrush2298 · 16/06/2020 20:38

@Kaybobx I actually also don't think its a great indicator of anything. There's too many contracting things about the cervix for it to be clear cut same with CM out all the posts I have read and all the YouTube TWW videos I have watched almost all women had different cervix positions and different CM. I am also hoping the AF cramps are just normal and not her actually starting. I feel so different this time that its going to crush me if AF comes. I really think last month was a CP for me although I didnt test I had a period that was only 2.5 days and only went through a couple tampons. And I had so many symptoms like extreme nausea, gum bleeds, tearful, emotional, cramps and felt different. I was p'd off a week ago but only at hubby I was just so irritable with him hahahahah!!! I hope its all normal and we get our BFP real soon

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Kaybobx · 16/06/2020 20:31

@candycrush2298 mine is high too, but feels quite firm. Its definitely got harder since ovulation as it was really soft then.
I don't think its a great indicator to be honest. Last cycle mine was high and soft the day before my period when its 'supposed' to be low and hard.

I also have AF cramps this evening 😭 ive felt pretty calm all week but feeling a tad p'd off now. Lets hope its just normal 🤞🏼

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candycrush2298 · 16/06/2020 20:09

@Kaybobx asking you because I know you check your cervix. Just checked mine a little while ago and it's high still not as high as ovulation but way higher than it was after ovulation. Also its a lot softer than previous days. Like not as soft as lips but definitely softer than it has been last few days. Oh and to update you I am now getting AF cramps so I am 100% confused at this point....

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candycrush2298 · 16/06/2020 17:50

@Sunnydays123456 our bodies do the strangest things and love playing tricks on us. I wish I could be sure you know the limbo is so frustrating.

Hahahaha let's hope it means something good.

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Sunnydays123456 · 16/06/2020 17:40

@candycrush2298 omg dp said same to me the last time we dtd last week before he went away !

Sunnydays123456 · 16/06/2020 17:38

Thinking about it , I reckon I’ve had a few cm since I took iud out 9 months ago - I have had symptoms and been v late then clotty at least 5 times .. suppose it would be higher chance for me of cm being so ancient ?

However I have only tested once and it was pos but then period came at about 37 days

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candycrush2298 · 16/06/2020 17:22

@Sunnydays123456 really? That's interesting. I had watery CM last month too (none previous months) somehow I managed not to test at all last month I wonder if I had a CP last month because I had a lot of symptoms. Prior to last month I have always had tacky white CM and then dry before period. We dtd yesterday and hubby was like wow youre really wet. TMI sorry lol. But yeah its strange.

@Pasto2 I havent had that sorry hun maybe someone else can comment who has had same CM as you. Xx

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