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Any one else due AF 20/06?

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candycrush2298 · 10/06/2020 11:16

Trying to find others with a similar cycle to mine

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LAG1986 · 15/06/2020 00:11

Af due 21st for me. God I'd love a positive test for fathers day

sb12985 · 14/06/2020 23:59

@candycrush2298 I'm about 8/9 dpo

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candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 23:48

@Sunnydays123456 well you can start testing with us in the morning to see if you get any positive results?
@sb12985 good luck those sure do sound like a lot of symptoms how many DPO's are you?

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sb12985 · 14/06/2020 21:38

Hi, I'm also due on 20/6. With my first pregnancy I only experienced fatigue. At the moment I feel awful, fatigue, cramps, heartburn, heavy and burning feeling in boobs and constantly needing to wee. I don't know if I'm reading too much into it - with my first I put my tiredness down to work and I only considered I was pregnant when my period was 5 days late (I'm usually very regular) so getting a positive pregnancy test was a shock, but a nice one. We've not been actively trying but just seeing how things go.

Sunnydays123456 · 14/06/2020 21:08

Sooooo funny lol ))

Hmmm I have actually got sore boobs and may feel a tiny bit nauseous - but equally may be imagining it !

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candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 21:03

Thats exactly it. Hubby will think I've lost my mind😆😆😆

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snapple21 · 14/06/2020 20:55

We're all exactly the same. If my husband knew how many sticks I pee on he'd call me mental.

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candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 19:40

@Kaybobx just laughed so hard youre so funny. Until you said jokes you will be crying. Thats the shit part isn't it that we do this and then cry to ourselves. I know this because I will be right alongside you crying too.

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Kaybobx · 14/06/2020 19:14

Ebay cheapie in the morning for me too. I have no symptoms that would suggest its going to be postive but who cares? It my new found hobby 🤦🏼‍♀️ i think i just secretly enjoy seeing that one line. Jokes I'll be crying tomorrow 😂

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candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 18:51

@snapple21 the urge has been there real strong i dont know why. Maybe blind hope I guess as I have had no symptoms today or anything remotely to suggest I could get a second line but the tests arrived and I'm like ooooooh I want to try it so badly. Makes no sense I know lol. Somehow I have avoided the urge and not done anything I will be using the ebay cheapie in the morning to test. I never saved any fmu so would be a total waste to use a FRER today. So I will be checking in with you and @Kaybobx tomorrow morning for our test updates 😄😄

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snapple21 · 14/06/2020 18:33

I've been using my thermometer that just goes to one place - I know you can by femometer on Amazon that's 9.99 and links to an app I believe that goes to 2 decimal places?

Candycrush are you going to test with fmu? Or has the urge been too strong already!

I have had a relaxed afternoon with a couple of cocktails in my hot tub 😂 I was avoiding it but just decided relaxing and not stressing about all this today was best.

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candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 15:47

@Sunnydays123456 I believe it should be the thermometers that have two decimals like 36.22 degrees not just one point but i also think that if you have one thats only 1 decimal just use it if you tracking over time you will notice dips and peaks. Unless you want to buy a new one.

Sooooooo..... amazon has just delivered my FRER and the pull to test with those is so strong guys. Only 9dpo so know I shouldn't but I just want to lol!!!

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Sunnydays123456 · 14/06/2020 13:17

Can you use any old thermometer to track temp?

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candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 12:50

@snapple21 sorry I dont track it because I can never remember to take my temp when I wake up. If my understanding of it is correct then you have a drop for ovulation and then if it rises and stays raised thats a good sign and if it drops again that could mean implantation. To me it looks promising but I am not the best person to advise.

@MarmieP I agree I think maybe our bodies could be protecting us from getting our hopes up. Its so frustrating how confusing it can be. I have watched a lot of TWW videos on YouTube and a lot of women went through I am definitely pregnant to I am definitely getting AF as their symptoms also ranged day to day.

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MarmieP · 14/06/2020 11:56

@candycrush I know what you mean, I'm thinking of it constantly but on the one hand it's like my brain is protecting me from the possibility of me not being pregnant by convincing myself that I'm not. Fingers cruised for all you lovely ladies, we're on the home stretch now, just a bit longer and we'll know for sure xx

MarmieP · 14/06/2020 11:52

@candycrush sorry for my delay in replying! I bought a clear blue early detection one and worked out that if I test no earlier than Thurs 18th I'll have a 99% chance of getting a true result whatever that may be. I don't know if I was imagining the pregnancy symptoms now as they seem to have gone. It's all I'm thinking about though and I can't help it!

@Littlebrownbaby

So sorry for your loss too, sending hugs to you. Life is rubbish sometimes but I'm staying hopeful that it WILL happen sooner or later

Sunnydays123456 · 14/06/2020 11:51

Ooh @snapple21 I don’t know as I have never done one but do those peaks mean ovulation? X

snapple21 · 14/06/2020 11:11

Just attaching my chart for any thoughts. Do we think I ovulated on the 5th or 6th of june?

Any one else due AF 20/06?
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candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 11:03

Seems like all of our confidence has dropped I know what all of you mean. Like I'm calm I just think I am not its almost like my mind has accepted it and we (body and mind) are just resigned to the fact that AF is coming and now we wait. Next month is a new month to try doesnt change the fact that I will still have the same disappointment or pity party tears when AF starts.

I am still hopeful that at least one of us will have a BFP. Not sure which one of us it is but as a minimum at least one of us to give the rest of us hope to keep going.

Its taking so long and sometimes its very difficult to keep positive.

I am with you @Kaybobx I will be testing tomorrow. Don't have any hope either but hey ho why not eh lets just do it for torture... erm I mean fun 😆

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snapple21 · 14/06/2020 10:56

Sunny days hope it stays away for you too.

I hope we get some bfps in this group!

Kaybobx · 14/06/2020 10:45

Im still going to test tomorrow 10DPO just as i have some cheap strips in the draw but not confident.

Sunnydays123456 · 14/06/2020 10:37

@snapple21Flowers

Sunnydays123456 · 14/06/2020 10:36

Hi all

I feel really period-y too - vague tummy ache , sore boobs , low mood

Hmmmmmmm how’s everyone else ? Just been for a run to lift my spirits !

snapple21 · 14/06/2020 10:06

Just did an IC and it looks negative to me. I'm either 8 or 9 days po today.
I will mentally prepare myself for full cycle number two. I feel I know more after this cycle.

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candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 09:50

@snapple21 I know how you feel I had that total negative feeling 2/3 days ago but now (strangest thing) I am calm like I'm not stressing one way or the other. Are you still only going to test tomorrrow or do you think you will test today? Or not at all because of how you feeling?? Arrgh this TWW!! FX its not AF💜

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