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TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 2)

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VP91x · 09/06/2020 15:11

Hey lovelies ❤️

Just doing the new thread as the other is full will tag you all here - anyone else who wpuld like to join please do!

Little bit of background -
Cycle #3 TTC after MC in December
This month doing SMEP, tracking BBT and OV (CB advanced and Femometer strips), also drowning myself in grapefruit juice 😂 and will take Calc Fluor in TWW.

Sending everyone lots of luck 🤞

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4

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chloedancer897 · 10/06/2020 02:04

@Rainbowhope11 I basically just rely on CB because I could never get on with the cheaper ones. This was me static smiley day. I got my dark lines on the cheapie one too. This is the first time I've ever had a second line on it which is why I never use them. I'm just hoping the CB was right now 😭

TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 2)
Rainbowhope11 · 10/06/2020 01:05

@VP91x also, I'm thinking of all the times I've relied Only on CB 😫😫

Rainbowhope11 · 10/06/2020 00:57

@VP91x I just got my static smiley on cb! So what's interesting is, I've got a temp increase this morning (I've had a shitty sleep though) and my pregmate OPKs aren't as dark. So I'm interested to know whether CB has gotten it totally off, or the other OPKs are off. Either way, I think I've caught my FW thank goodness!

Are you using CB this month?

chloedancer897 · 10/06/2020 00:05

@Wishingfornumber2 we had no problems conceiving with our other two at all. But like you, I don't think there was any stress involved. It just happened. I never had to track ovulation or anything. It was all very straightforward.

Wishingfornumber2 · 09/06/2020 23:14

Ahh good luck tomorrow @SmileyT! X

Wishingfornumber2 · 09/06/2020 23:14

Thanks for your message @HE88. That’s good you were able to get treatment but yes must’ve been a shock. I think that’s the thing, you assume everything is still ok as there were no problems conceiving #1. I have briefly read up on secondary infertility. I didn’t even know it was a thing until about 6 months ago! I have everything crossed for you. X

@chloedancer897 thank you for your reply too. Sorry to hear about your MC. It’s obviously devastating to have a MC after any amount of time but for it to happen after trying for so long must be heartbreaking. Must be frustrating as well to have no reason for not conceiving. Fingers crossed for you too that you get another BFP soon. I think I will have to face the music if we get to the 2 year mark. I just don’t understand it all though as I fell pregnant 1st try with the baby I MC. I guess stress is a big factor because at first we just said we would see what happened and it worked straight away but now I am stressing over it every month. Oh well hopefully it’s true that good things come to those who wait! X

SmileyT · 09/06/2020 22:54

Yes positive thoughts for me, I'll let you all know how I get on. Bed time so I can wake up and update you 🤞🤞🤞

HE88 · 09/06/2020 22:48

Ah @SmileyT don't think like that positive thoughts 😊. Xx

VP91x · 09/06/2020 22:46

@SmileyT ahh I still have a bundle of those too! At least you have a CB as a back up if you fancy it. I'm hopeful for you ❤️

@Bellabubble not 100% sure but I definitely think your forehead temp is lower than BBT or at least quite different xx

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SmileyT · 09/06/2020 22:41

@HE88 @2020wish @chloedancer897 @MichT4 thanks ladies for the luck, I'm kinda resigned to the fact it isn't my month but who knows ☺️

You're going to laugh at me @VP91x but I'm just using the cheap ones that come with femometer but I just don't want to waste money on better tests, if I see a line I've got some CB to try on 🤷🏾‍♀️

@Bellabubble I think forehead temp is about 0.5 degree less than oral temp and I'm guessing it depends on the outdoor air aswell so I wouldn't worry about it xx

Bellabubble · 09/06/2020 22:25

@vp91x thank you for the new thread!! :) How are you doing - did I read you have got your flashy smiley already? That sounds promising!!

I’m 36, ttc our first child. I had a mmc end of Feb, so am now of 4th cycle of trying. Currently 3dpo, took coQ10 and sevenseas conception vits, but after teying to do smep before and it stressing out my oh, we took a more chilled route (well - I didn’t tell hubby when my peak was so he was more relaxed lol!)

Does anyone know mich about the bbt? I have been using it to track ovulation for a while (I use natural cycles and had it originally as birth control). This morning my tempnwas 36.51 as soon as I woke up, I temp orally under my tongue. When I got to school I had my temp taken (we have a digital forehead thermometer) and it said I was 36.06 - I guess the forehead is less accurate, but I thought the temp would rise more when I was up and moving about! Or at least be closer to my bbt than it was! Weird! 🤷🏼‍♀️

VP91x · 09/06/2020 21:54

@elliew818 I know odd that she chose social media to moan about it, but I suppose some share more openly than others.

@peonyrose87 is such a drag, but hopefully it isn't too awful this month for you and it may be your last!

@2020wish I know yeah, hopefully.

@SmileyT haha, never goes quiet. I'm excited for you to test!! What brand are you using?

Ooh, forgot to mention my trusty cup. I know odd that it went so quickly but CM has gone creamy now instead of sticky so something is happening! Xx

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MichT4 · 09/06/2020 21:51

Ooh good luck @SmileyT.

I have everything crossed for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼🌈🌈

chloedancer897 · 09/06/2020 21:50

Good luck @SmileyT !!!!

2020wish · 09/06/2020 21:49

@SmileyT oh exciting ur testing tomorrow! Fingers crossed for a BFP

HE88 · 09/06/2020 21:47

@SmileyT good luck with testing tomorrow I have everything crossed for you. Xx

SmileyT · 09/06/2020 21:45

I think moving to flashys quicker is a great sign @VP91x x

I thought everyone had gone quiet 😂

Reintroduction of me - 31 TTC #1 after a MMC in March. I've been doing SMEP, cheapie opks, CB ovulation tests, temping, taking Vit C, D, E, l'arginine, b12 complex, Coq10, folic acid, calc flour, sesame seeds grapefruit juice and using a cup... basically anything that I read might help 😂

Testing tomorrow but not feeling confident at all but it will get rid of my anxiety over this month 😬

MichT4 · 09/06/2020 21:44

@elliew818 I did another one but it was the same as the previous. Don’t know why I bothered as I’d been drinking too as I said, so probably not the best timing. I’ll do another in the morning.

I’m worried I’m having the CPK equivalent of the endless flashing smileys. It’s only been 2 days an I’m impatient 😤😂

I have had tummy pains for the last day or two but I think I’ve now taken to ovu symptom spotting. I’ve never had them before and think they might be too high for ovu pains. Geeee wizz it’s going to be a long month if I’m already doing this now 🤪

I just told OH he needs to do something to keep me distracted in the TWW. Maybe should start now. Help!!

chloedancer897 · 09/06/2020 21:44

@Wishingfornumber2 I went privately for investigations and both DH and I are completely fine. No explanation of our infertility. We were on the list for IVF and I got my letter in March telling me treatment was going to start and then my appointment was cancelled because of covid. I got my BFP in May and thought that was it. I'd never fallen pregnant since trying again but the MC knocked the wind out of me. So just patiently waiting and still TTC

2020wish · 09/06/2020 21:43

@VP91x oh that’s good u may possibly ovulate soon?

@elliew818 yea it sucks. When I fall pregnant again I’m not going to complain on social media again about it

peonyrose87 · 09/06/2020 21:40

@mrsssk I'm using one step! I've used them for two cycles now and they seem to work ok for me! I test once a day for the first few days and then when I think I'm getting into my fertile days I usually test morning, afternoon and evening (getting a bit addicted to peeing on sticks 😂).

@VP91x it works out as slightly less than two weeks for me as my cycles are quite short, but it's still so long 😂

elliew818 · 09/06/2020 21:31

@2020wish it's so insensitive when people who know about it say things like that, I'm glad you said something though.
@VP91x yeah I want to be complaining about being pregnant just like her but I'd only be doing my DH's in with the moaning, certainly won't be putting it on FB!
Don't worry @MichT4 I find it both gross and quite funny too! Yeah I'd test again to be sure, be careful you don't run out though 👀 lol

VP91x · 09/06/2020 21:26

@peonyrose87 I know I literally wish I had so much more patience, but nope I wasn't blessed with any willpower, haha.

Yeah the OPKs are good! Nice to see that line progession actually. X

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mrsssk · 09/06/2020 21:13

@peonyrose87 which cheapie sticks are you using if you don't me asking?
I bought some called One Step, they were only £4 or so but wish I'd asked on the thread before buying! Doh

Good luck with your TWW, hoping it goes by quickly for you and fx 🤞🏽

peonyrose87 · 09/06/2020 21:06

@VP91x yup, TWW now, the part I hate 😂 I'm so impatient. Ohh that's promising for you!! I've not used the CB kits, but seem to get on ok with the OPK