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TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 2)

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VP91x · 09/06/2020 15:11

Hey lovelies ❤️

Just doing the new thread as the other is full will tag you all here - anyone else who wpuld like to join please do!

Little bit of background -
Cycle #3 TTC after MC in December
This month doing SMEP, tracking BBT and OV (CB advanced and Femometer strips), also drowning myself in grapefruit juice 😂 and will take Calc Fluor in TWW.

Sending everyone lots of luck 🤞

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4

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WellHurrahAndHuzzah · 10/06/2020 08:58

And if there are any more BFP and anyone fancies being in a WhatsApp group, let me know Smile

WellHurrahAndHuzzah · 10/06/2020 08:58

Thanks @HopeForRainbowbaby and @MichT4!! My first BFP in this group, first BFP since MMC in October last year. Eeeeeeeeeek!!

AF was due today, but I have been very tired, craving sugar, stabbing pains in my breasts, and lots of discharge. Which aren't usual for me, so I was starting to wonder (to tentatively hope!!). Fuck, I'm oscillating between sheer joy and sheer terror Shock

Tink20058 · 10/06/2020 08:58

Hi everyone so my story I’m 35 I suffered a mc early April and started cb tests week after I stopped bleeding got a bfp on 8dpo followed by few negatives then positives again, currently 8 weeks my 12 week scan isn’t whilst 14th of July so going to book another private one next week epu told me risk drops at 7 weeks then again at 9 weeks so just to double check things are still progressing stayed on thread to see all the bfp’s that are going to happen 🌈🌈🌈🌈 xxx

peonyrose87 · 10/06/2020 08:58

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah congratulations!!! Lovely news☺️

MichT4 · 10/06/2020 08:52

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah Congratulations on your BFP. What lovely news! Were you feeling anything? Or was AF late? xx

HopeForRainbowbaby · 10/06/2020 08:44

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah congratulations dear ! Amazing news! It is first bfp in this group right ? Wishing you wonderful and healthy pregnancy 😘

HopeForRainbowbaby · 10/06/2020 08:43

Hallo all, I was just googling a lot about probability of getting pregnant on different days before ovulation. I wanted to share a graph with you but couldn't attach it so I will write it.

-6days 3%
-5days 8%
-4days 18%
-3 days 24%
-2 days 26%
-1 days 21%
Ovulation 10%
+1dpo 1%

It makes me feel better. Ladies do you have any comments on this ? I'm sure we all did our researches;)

I got smiley on CB yesterday and this morning was already negative. So I take today as my ovulation.

WellHurrahAndHuzzah · 10/06/2020 08:43

Hello everyone. I've peed on a stick this morning.... And got a BFP Shock Grin can't quite believe it it!! Pinch me!!

MichT4 · 10/06/2020 08:24

@SmileyT sorry to see it was a BFN this morning. Do the cheapies detect early enough?
Definitely buy yourself something (any excuse). You seem to have a positive attitude which is great, and will no doubt lead to it happening very soon.

I’m excited (loser) for my OPK this morning. Ava still says today for ovulation but I think that’ll push back. OPKs and CM are suggesting it’s on its way.
Although strangely I have put my Ava temps into my apps and Femometer has decided I now ovulated on Saturday 🙄. These apps are keeping me on my toes. Fairly certain it wasn’t Saturday, so I’ll wait for it to make its mind up and tell me a new date, hopefully after my OPK.

peonyrose87 · 10/06/2020 08:07

After five days of DTD I'm on CD15 and in the tww. A day off today, then our one for luck tomorrow. Does anyone keep testing for a few days after their peak just go check for sure? I got a peak on CD12 but have still been testing as last month my lines were all over the place.

peonyrose87 · 10/06/2020 08:06

@SmileyT so sorry to hear you got a negative this month. Hopefully next month is your month 🤞🏻

VP91x · 10/06/2020 07:43

@Rainbowhope11 haha, you better get your BFP after all of that DTD. You must be wiped out 😂

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Rainbowhope11 · 10/06/2020 07:27

@SmileyT aah sorry to hear that it was a bfn this month :( sending you lots of love! Hope you are doing okay ❤️

Rainbowhope11 · 10/06/2020 07:22

@VP91x my normal OPKs look like they are getting lighter 😂 I don't know which one is right so I'm just dtd over the next few days to make sure I don't miss anything.

So strange though. My cheapie opk was super dark on Saturday morning, that was definitely a peak and I felt the pain on my left side and had tons of ewcm.

But anyway, another interesting thing I read today was that in some cases, when Hcg hits 0, you can count that as CD1. If I count my days like that, then I'm on CD13 or so, so ovulation at this point would make a lot of sense.

So my 10 day dtd marathon the other week was all for nothing 😂😂🤣

HopeForRainbowbaby · 10/06/2020 07:18

Hallo ladies, I don't think dtd enough...I was pretty upset yesterday... was difficult this month. Any positive stories of getting pregnant with dtd four days before ovulation ? Thanks ladies

VP91x · 10/06/2020 06:38

@Ejb86 I hope you haven't missed it, definitely do your OPKs to give you more of an answer.

I get some EWCM on the run up to OV so you are probably good to still catch it. Are you temping?

Yeah! I'm CD11 and also got my flashies super early this month, hoping it isn't a long wait but let's see. Xx

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Ejb86 · 10/06/2020 06:38

Ah @SmileyT sorry to see your BFN.

Ejb86 · 10/06/2020 06:33

@VP91x thanks for tagging me in here. I'm 33, TTC #4 after losing twin girls #2&3 in September last year at 16 weeks. I'm on cd12 of my 7th cycle TTC. My cycles are still very irregular, last 2 have been 25 and 33 days, ovulating around cd20-24.

I've had quite a bit of EWCM past couple of days so I'm wondering if my body has thrown me complete curveball and ovulated about 10 days early. I'm going to try and do an opk this morning and see what I get. I may have missed it completely this month if this is the case, as wee just haven't dtd at all. I'm so shattered after being back in school since Monday last week.

@VP91x our cycles have been similar recently, how are you doing?

VP91x · 10/06/2020 06:27

Oh @SmileyT so sorry it was a negative result 😩

Was it a huge temp drop? Although I know now you'll be moving onto focusing on next cycle, I hope you are ok? Treat yourself to something nice.

Ferti-lily had a discount code 'FERTI25' I think it was! I'll double check it but give that a go.

Sending you lots of love❤️

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SmileyT · 10/06/2020 06:10

BFN for me this morning at 11/12dpo as expected following a temp drop.... period will be here on Friday/ Saturday so onto the next cycle, think I'm going to get some evening primrose oil and a conception cup anything else people swear by? I don't feel like my egg is being fertilised so really want to focus on the first half of my cycle and see if we can get something happening 🤔

Who is next to test?

VP91x · 10/06/2020 05:42

@chloedancer897 did you keep testing with the cheapie OPKs after you got your static? Xx

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VP91x · 10/06/2020 05:41

@Rainbowhope11 ahhh!! So CB gives you a static beforr you ovulate, so I would DTD for the next couple of days! Do you have more OPKs? They should get even darker now, realistically.

Also if you keep getting temp rises then your app will show you which say you OV'd! That's all so confusing isn't it Xx

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Niisa · 10/06/2020 03:45

@VP91x thanks for the new thread hun!

To re-introduce myself: I'm 30 TTC #1 for me & #2 for DH. Found out at my 12 week scan in March that I had an MMC - there had been no growth since week 7 and there was no heartbeat. Nothing happened for about 10 days (I chose to let my body do its thing). First cycle after MC we didn't really ttc as my hcg levels hadn't fully come down and I only got my bfn a week before AF came back which was bang on 4 weeks after MC started. 2nd cycle was Ramadan so wasn't DTD as we were tired mostly and I didn't ovulate, just had 17 days of blank circle on the CBD. This is the first month I'm ttc properly but haven't been tracking ov as the OPK was a nightmare last month. Going for a more relaxed approach.

Currently 8/9 dpo so testing on Monday. Have had really bad heartburn & nausea for the last few days - not sure why as it's Deffo too soon for it to be any symptom.

FX for us all & sending you all baby dust and lots of luuuuurrrrrve!

@SmileyT soooo excited for you!!!

chloedancer897 · 10/06/2020 02:38

@Rainbowhope11 good luck with DTD!! Fingers crossed for you x

Rainbowhope11 · 10/06/2020 02:23

@chloedancer897 fingers crossed for you! This is all so confusing sometimes 😫 I was about to stop dtd because I saw dark lines on my opk the other day and my cb kept flashing at me and I ran out of sticks. My new cb box arrived a few hours ago and I thought, hmm let me use a stick and just try my cb holder one more time and boom! A peak!