TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 2)

Congratulations @WellHurrahAndHuzzah, such lovely news. Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy.

I stupidly did a FRER this morning (after hardly sleeping a wink) and it was negative. I’m only 10 dpo by I’m convinced I’m out of the running for this month. Doesn’t help that I’ve symptom spotting all the time so I just really don’t want to set myself up for disappointment.

Hope everyone is enjoying their Wednesday.

Hi everyone so a little about me - Im currently on cd13 of our 1st cycle ttc after a miscarriage of twins at 16 weeks in April . Trying to stay relaxed about it all and not obsess but I’m sure we will all agree that’s easier said than done . Had my follow up appointment with the consultant this morning and feeling a lot more positive about the future now that I know all my blood tests have come back clear and I have confirmation that there’s no underlying issues needing addressed. Still a lot of guess work here as I wait for my cycles to regulate so just getting in as much bd as possible and looking forward to hearing the news of lots of bfp’s in this lucky thread x

Congratulations @WellHurrahAndHuzzah such great news for you!

@anaconda76 I was also told to wait till I’ve had a period till we start trying again. Again no explanation given. I stopped bleeding from my MC last Thursday and after speaking to the ladies on this group, we’ve just jumped back into TTC again as both feel ready to do so.
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@WellHurrahAndHuzzah May I ask how many days prior to OV you DTD? So happy for you 😘😍and btw you were able to resist testing earlier than 15dpo! Congrats on that too;)

Thanks so much everyone, it's really lovely being able to share my news here!!

I am 15 days PO.

I've been taking pregnacare conception vitamins and OH has been taking the male equivalent, daily grapefruit juice, following SMEP and using clear blue digital ovulation test (I never, ever tested positive using the cheapie sticks).

Massive congratulations @WellHurrahAndHuzzah!

I’ve decided that I’m going to test on Friday. AF due on Weds. I’ve had what seem like symptoms since the weekend - slight nausea, lots of discharge, mild cramps pains and needing to pee a lot. According to DH and the kids I was a bit emotionally volatile yesterday as well! I think I might have a UTI, which would explain away pretty much all of these things, so no idea really.

@VP91x thanks for starting new thread. I'm prob the last to do this but quick recap of me- I have 2 DC, trying for number 3. Had my first loss last month at 9.5weeks and so this is my first cycle trying post MC. I have PCOS which complicates EVERYTHING, from not have an guarantee of ovulation each month to having unpredictable cycle lengths. All I'm taking so far is folic acid lol such a novice. Trying to cut down on my caffeine addiction too 😭 expecting AF this weekend will be testing on Friday but highly sceptical anything happened this month!

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah big congrats! Delighted for you 🌹 wishing you a very healthy and happy pregnancy!

@SmileyT aw I'm gutted, was checking the thread early this morning to see if you had any news. Sending hugs ❤ I'm testing on Friday I've decided, I'm sure I'll be joining you in next month's thread. Have had no pregnancy symptoms whatsoever but already fetting that pre-period bloat.

*see-saw

Congratulations @WellHurrahAndHuzzah!! Amazing news 😊
Totally understand your joy/terror sea saw, just take one day st a time, it's the only thing to do. And lots of people swear by the mantra, 'different pregnancy, different outcome'. ❤

@VP91x ohh yess I have heard already in the past that typically you have got 30% chance of pregnancy each cycle

@anaconda76 the midwife told me that typically they ask to wait number of cycles so they can date the pregnancy otherwise it will be difficult. I had natural MCs and both times I got green light directly when bleeding stops.

@VP91x thanks hun, you're probably right - might delete the temps from it if it keeps going all about the place.

I really hope it's not far away, nor for you xx

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah congrats hun!! 🎊🎉 how many dpo are you??

Congratulations @WellHurrahAndHuzzah you must be over the moon. Hope many of us get to follow suit soon. Xx

@SmileyT sorry to hear that hun! But until AF does show up, you're not OUT out. If this is not your cycle, then praying next month is 💕💕💕

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah congratulations fab news 😊

@HopeForRainbowbaby the stats are really interesting! Thanks for sharing.

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah congratulations 🥳 such lovely news x

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah Sorry if I've missed previous posts, but what were you doing this cycle? Anything you think clinched it?

Ooh I can imagine how you're feeling - don't feel terror, just joy!

Thanks @VP91x. They didn't actually say why they wanted me to wait for my next AF before trying again. I assumed it was something to do with avoiding an infection. It might also be because it would be difficult to date the pregnany if it was straight after a mc? I wish I'd asked now.

Amazing congratulations @WellHurrahAndHuzzah xxx

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah congratulations hopefully first of many BFPs for this group xx

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉