TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 2)

@VP91x haha I like the way you think 😂

Oh that's great! I've bought some grapefruit juice, but so far I've only had two or 3 glasses😂 I can't believe people drink this for no reason😂

Oh also, I was reading a fertility blog and it mentioned that your most fertile day is the last day that you see EWCM, so carry on until it stops💦 not sure how true that is, but wanted to give it a try and thought you may also find that info useful 😊

Sorry to hear that @HE88 I know how you feel. Just been told by one of my friends that she’s 16 weeks. To say it was crushing was an understatement 😞 hoping we all get our own good news soon x

@HE88 awww I wish I could give you a hug! I know the feeling 😥 I just had a family member do a gender reveal the other day, we would have been due a few days apart in October. It really does feel like someone knocked your lights out. Try not to beat yourself up about not feeling more positive, you feel how you feel and you don't need to feel bad about that. I chose to not attend the reveal because I wasn't sure how I would react. When I was ready, I watched a video of it and was able to process in my own time. I've found that some days I feel better about things and then other days the smallest of things send me into a spiral. I've just come to accept that, and I try to just let myself feel whatever I need to feel In the moment. I was trying to downplay my emotions for so long, and it wasn't good for my mind. Since embracing my feelings (which was only last week mind you!) I feel so much lighter and I hope that in time you will too 💕 sending you so much love!

@Diorissimo1985 and @VP91x thanks ladies I'm sure I'll be feeling better tomorrow just a wee bump in the road. Xx

@VP91x I just saw your post below 😂🤣💦

@VP91x yes!!! I would say go for it!

Ah @HE88 that is so hard, I sympathise with you x

@MichT4 thanks lovely, yes I got blood test results today which confirmed big drop in HCG on the second bloods.

They also checked progesterone and said it was a normal level and blood count fine. I assume that means a chromosomal issue? Not really sure but hope to get some answers from GP on Friday. Going to ask to get my thyroid checked ... any other recommendations? X

@2020wish definitely positive vibes for us all 😁.

@HE88 positives vibes that you will deffo be pregnant by then!!!

@2020wish thanks I've got 2 in the family both due in October I'm really hoping I'm pregnant by then as I worry how I will react. Xx

@HE88 :( hugs :( must feel so raw. I’m dreading a family member announcing a new pregnancy

Ladies my sister in law had her 20 week scan today and found out she is having a boy I feel like I've been punched in the stomach really thought I would be feeling better about things but I feel really down now 😢.

@SmileyT sorry BFN but love your continued positivity cant wait to see you BFP xxx

@Diorissimo1985 sorry you've been through that again xx strong lady picking yourself back up again I hope you can get some investigations underway if you're seeking some answers xx

Hey @Diorissimo1985. I’m so glad you’ve decided to join us and that you’re feeling a little brighter. Did you get your blood results today?

@VP91x we won’t expect to hear from you for a while 💦

@Diorissimo1985 yea can’t believe I’m back here also myself. Had a tough month so I know how you feel. But yes it’s nice seeing familiar names. Fingers crossed this is out month x

Just catching up on today’s messages.
@WellHurrahAndHuzzah congratulations, that’s great news!
@HopeForRainbowbaby those stats are interesting, haven’t seen them before.
@SmileyT sorry it was a BFN. As the others have said hope you can treat yourself but not out until AF arrives.
@Diorissimo1985 So sorry to hear about your MC. Good to hear you have a GP appointment. Hopefully you can get some answers. Xx

@Diorissimo1985 really sorry to see you back here. Xx

Hi @2020wish - I’m better now thanks, have been so low the past few days but got to pick myself back up and start glugging the grapefruit juice again
How are you doing? So sorry to see you here too (although it’s nice to see familiar names even though I wish you had your sticky bean already x)

@Diorissimo1985 hi! Sorry to see you back with unpleasant news :( hope ur ok

Hello girls, I am finally rejoining from the May thread - had another miscarriage at 6+3 after last month’s BFP wasn’t quite ready to come across but I’m feeling a bit brighter now. I’m still bleeding but hoping it settles soon and I can focus on June/July. Have a GP appointment on Friday to discuss things as I’ve had two successive miscarriages straight after one another - surely something must be up? So confused as I have a DD already so I know my body can carry to term

So grateful to all you lovely lot back on the last thread for all the wonderful support and kind words - you are amazing warrior women and you have helped me more than you realise xx

Right, off the RTFT from the beginning to catch up on everyone’s news... xx

@VP91x I'd definitely get on it!

@VP91x get practicing! 😊😊