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TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 2)

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VP91x · 09/06/2020 15:11

Hey lovelies ❤️

Just doing the new thread as the other is full will tag you all here - anyone else who wpuld like to join please do!

Little bit of background -
Cycle #3 TTC after MC in December
This month doing SMEP, tracking BBT and OV (CB advanced and Femometer strips), also drowning myself in grapefruit juice 😂 and will take Calc Fluor in TWW.

Sending everyone lots of luck 🤞

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4

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Diorissimo1985 · 11/06/2020 09:17

Good luck @Pattaz2711 - fx for you x

Hayleylou89 · 11/06/2020 09:16

@Diorissimo1985 so sorry to hear about ur mc 💔 ur so brave to be back on here but i know its the first place i would be too god forbid i end up in that position x ud think having a good early scan id be reassured but it does for a day the. Ur back to worrying, iv been offered scans every 3 weeks just to try and keep me reassured which is nice of the hospital but still the inbetween time is so hard to relax xxx

Hope everyone is doing?

how r u @renna is it about a week or so until u test? Have u been symtom spotting or trying not to think about it. Xx

HopeForRainbowbaby · 11/06/2020 09:13

@Pattaz2711 good luck with everything !all best 😘

Hayleylou89 · 11/06/2020 09:09

@Pattaz2711 goodluck* even x

Hayleylou89 · 11/06/2020 09:08

@Pattaz2711 Aw good with everything lovely 💖

HE88 · 11/06/2020 09:05

@VP91x and @MichT4 fingers crossed you get the positive soon xx

@Pattaz2711 I know you have posted in the wrong thread but wanted to wish you all the best for the transfer good luck. Xx

VP91x · 11/06/2020 09:04

@MichT4 I'm sure you will! Yeah, it will do until it sees your temp rise I imagine?

You'd think men wouldn't moan at the opportunity of so much sex right?🙄 Xx

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HE88 · 11/06/2020 09:02

@elliew818 and @Bellabubble thank you 😊 I'm feeling better today thanks. I also reply with the bare minimum but like you say it's more to protect yourself its not that you don't care.
Hope everyone is doing ok today. Xx

MichT4 · 11/06/2020 08:56

@VP91x Right, I’ll use all available wees from tomorrow then. Hopefully I get my peak before then though 🤞🏼

As predicted my Ava is now pushing back ovulation by a day at a time I guess until my parameters say otherwise. I think even OH will get fed up of this much DTD

VP91x · 11/06/2020 08:51

@MichT4 when I got my peak I still used FMU to check to see if my levels were coming down and it was still pretty dark so I think it's fine once you know you're coming up to OV.

I think they say it more for when you're testing at first because if you only do it once a day in the morning you probably wouldn't see the proper peak if that makes sense xx

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MichT4 · 11/06/2020 08:47

@VP91x last night it was the same. I kicked myself first thing as I didn’t do one. I know they say not FMU but then I thought why on earth wouldn’t I just have done it. So now I’m holding til 11 😳

I’ve not got EWCM yet, but I’m not sure I always do. There’s so much to think about, and now I’m panicking if I don’t ovulate or something. Haha what a blinkin headcase 😂

You must be close now, surely 🤞🏼🤞🏼 Xx

VP91x · 11/06/2020 08:43

Hey @Pattaz2711 just saw it's for the wrong thread but wanted to wish you lots of luck. I hope things become less stressful for you xx

@MichT4 Morning! How was your OPK this morning/late last night?

All good over here, CD 12 - flashy again on CB but more EWCM this morning! Xx

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MichT4 · 11/06/2020 08:26

No worries @Pattaz2711. Good luck with the transfer. Think positive and always have hope 🤞🏼

How is everyone doing today? xx

Pattaz2711 · 11/06/2020 08:20

Sorry I've just realised I've replied to the wrong thread. So sorry I'm new to all this an can't delete.. 🙈

Pattaz2711 · 11/06/2020 08:07

Hi ladies can I join please I'm going out of my mind

I'm new to all this.. I would like people's outcomes advice anything please.

me an my partner have 4 frozen 5/6 day embryo blastocyst..

I'm so scared of going through this again

First time we had a transfer was a fresh cycle which failed well was positive an then negative literally 3 days later. We was devestated
think it's was due to having 22 eggs on collection.. as I egg shared which was a lot of eggs

We had icsi ivf

It played a lot on our relationship. We're we split for a while..
We now trying again 2 years later

I was going to do a natural cycle but couldn't for some reason track my ovulation which was very stressful
so decided now to do a medicated cycle..
My lining last week was 4
My lining yesterday a week late was 6.4 so they said they will go a head next Wednesday with the transfer..

I'm take 4x Prignova
I'm starting presseries on Friday 2x a day.
They have now introduced injections aswell for progesterone ( have you seen how big they are??))

My emotions are everywhere I'm googling everything.

I'm so nervous an scared I feel it's all on me now.. as it's going into my body..

Sorry if I'm to late or irrelevant for this group, I just feel I need to chat

Thank you

VP91x · 11/06/2020 06:24

@elliew818 definitely! It's a shame we can't go out to dinner otherwise going out for a steak dinner would be the perfect AF treat. Haha yeah, thought why not 👀😂

@Bellabubble how is everything going? Are you feeling more settled? Thank you 💕

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Niisa · 11/06/2020 01:43

@2020wish I didn't get a single smiley face the whole month! Which is what's put me off testing this month.... I heard that fasting can throw your cycle off slightly but AF came bang on time so not too sure 🤷🏾‍♀️

Bellabubble · 10/06/2020 23:49

I feel like I am missing out these days - stupid 3G in new house! I can’t wait for real internet next week so I can get back in the thread fully lol! I feel like I miss so much!

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah huge congratulations on the bfp!! Lovely news to hear!!

@MichT4 it’s a pain waiting for the peak - but def test more regularly now your opks are getting darker 👍🏻 My premom app says to test even after you think you have your peak so that it can really determine which was your peak - I got my peak cd 14 at 5:30pm, but also tested at 8:30pm that eve and it was falling again - so it meant that it could definitely say the 5:30pm was my peak (cue dtd lots without letting on to oh it was for reals 😂)

@VP91x enjoy all the bd for next few days..I have my fingers crossed for you!!

@HE88 - I’m sorry to hear about your sister in law!! It’s so hard isn’t it!! My friend is 2 weeks ahead of where I should have been, and to be fair she doesn’t text me too mich about it - bit she did send some pictures of her nursery and all the stuff she’d bought - and it literally took my breath away! I probably haven’t dealt woth it brilliantly but I kinda of reply minimally to the baby texts, but it’s also part of protecting yourself!

@Diorissimo1985 I’m so sorry to hear your news, hopefully the doctors can work quickly and help you with what investigations etc might be needed xx

elliew818 · 10/06/2020 23:02

@MichT4 I'm the same, will know what we're doing more next month although here's hoping we won't need to!
@VP91x yep and cooked DH's steak rare as well...if I'm not preggo this month I'm owed a proper steak during AF! Also was going to say see how the mood takes you but it seems the mood already took you lol
Hi @Diorissimo1985 and sorry to hear the news about your MC, we're all in this together. Can feel so lonely sometimes can't it. Hopefully you'll get some answers from your GP too.
@HE88 sorry you've had to hear that news and it's ok feeling down about it, sometimes things hit you harder than you expect. It's not easy when it's so close to home x can only second what @Rainbowhope11 said.
Why is the TWW sooooo long?! I'm feeling like a toddler in a car whinging 'are we there yet?'...such an impatient brat 🙄

HE88 · 10/06/2020 22:45

@Rainbowhope11 and @mrsssk thank you sorry to hear are going through the same. It can be the smallest things that gets you but need to just remain positive and know that our time will come when it's right 😁 xx

VP91x · 10/06/2020 22:30

@Rainbowhope11 yeah give it a go! Hopefully it helps make it a bit sweeter xx

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Rainbowhope11 · 10/06/2020 22:26

@VP91x good idea! I actually didn't think to do that. I think I'll give that a try. Xx

VP91x · 10/06/2020 22:24

@Rainbowhope11 maybe you can mix it with some lemonade or something to take the edge off it?

Xx

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Rainbowhope11 · 10/06/2020 22:22

@VP91x I hate it!! Haha but I feel like maybe if I just carry on drinking it, I may grow to love it?😂 ah well lucky you, at least you don't have to worry about anybody finishing it at your house 😄

VP91x · 10/06/2020 22:18

@Rainbowhope11 ahh do you not like it?
I've had a revelation because I love it! I can't believe I never had it before. My OH thinks its disgusting and my daughter (who normally loves to steal my drink) hates it too. So win win all round for me haha.

Ah that's really interesting. Definitely something to keep a note of. xx

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