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Anyone due AF on or around 15th of June

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Rotagilla · 05/06/2020 10:51

Hello, looking for ladies with a similar cycle to mine, to discuss symptoms and get through the dreaded tww!

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kirinm · 11/06/2020 09:39

@LittleTooMuch my partner is surprised it is taking so long since we didn't really try with my DD. My body was much better at telling me I was ovulating then though and we weren't always completely shattered from working full time whilst also trying to entertain a toddler at the same time.

LittleTooMuch · 11/06/2020 09:36

@rotagilla - my partner tells me I'm being stupid and to stop overthinking everything which makes me worse because I overthink everything in my mind

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Rotagilla · 11/06/2020 09:31

@kirinm *stress less next month (not agree)

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Rotagilla · 11/06/2020 09:30

@kirinm you are spot on, I'm furloughed so have all the time in the world.
I'm supposedly going back in July so hopefully agree less next month.
I wonder how many symptoms I will spot when I'm back....probably none!

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Rotagilla · 11/06/2020 09:29

@LittleTooMuch but I want to be calm and go with the flow....why can't I just relax? 😂
I'm
Some sort of symptom spotting demon.
My partner doesn't help, he's constantly asking me 😂 and then we discuss at great length!

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kirinm · 11/06/2020 09:29

@Rotagilla I think because I'm working from home (and am very easily distracted) I am thinking about this far more than I would if I was working in the office. I certainly wouldn't have the opportunity to take as many tests as I have been! I don't think our office is reopening until September so a few more months of torturing myself at home yet.

LittleTooMuch · 11/06/2020 09:27

@rotagilla - I think this is our lives now isnt it?! until we get a BFP, plan dtd the first half of the month then symptom spotting the second half.

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Rotagilla · 11/06/2020 09:25

@whambam89 that's so odd that the FRER was negative. Fingers crossed by Saturday it would have caught up!

@kirinm I think next month il have to be really strict and completely ignore the tww.
Easier said than done but this 24/7 wondering is driving me crazy!
Glad we have this thread though, it does help.

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LittleTooMuch · 11/06/2020 09:24

@sansa87 mine is the 16th and i'm convinced its coming early, not that I won't be dissapointed when it does show though! I woke up having no symptoms this morning and now my back is twinging - feels like someone is pitching it! this is where I end up with a kidney infection instead of a BFP

kirinm · 11/06/2020 09:22

@whambam89 that is not an evap! That is a very clear BFP! Congratulations!

Sansa87 · 11/06/2020 09:21

@LittleTooMuch the cb digital app says the 17th, but an online app says 16th, so one of those two days. I’ve had the cramps since Saturday.

LittleTooMuch · 11/06/2020 09:21

@whambam89 - keeping my fingers crossed for you, now you just need to find a way to distract yourself until tomorrow :)

kirinm · 11/06/2020 09:20

@Rotagilla I think what I saw yesterday on my test was an evap.

I've started having my usual back and leg aches that I get when AF is coming - I checked back on my notes from the last couple of months and it is pretty standard for this day in my cycle. I feel very misled by my body - the on / off nausea has been very real and I couldn't help but read into it. I think I might have to actually get rid of all of the tests for next month so I can't let evap lines get my hopes up.

whambam89 · 11/06/2020 09:20

@Rotagilla @PabsyPops nice to know I'm not going completely insane! Weird that a FRER is negative though?

whambam89 · 11/06/2020 09:19

@LittleTooMuch I'm trying not to get my hopes up really, not sure why a FRER would be BFN. I've had Evaps before but never that have come up within 10 mins so will wait and see I guess - I've got one more FRER and 6 ICs left so will test again in the morning with another IC and maybe save the FRER for Saturday. Fingers crossed!

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Rotagilla · 11/06/2020 09:18

@whambam89 I definitely see a line 😄

@PabsyPops that's a good idea! Il have a look later when I've finished homeschooling 😩

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LittleTooMuch · 11/06/2020 09:16

@sansa87 - when is your AF due?

Sansa87 · 11/06/2020 09:13

Ooh lots to catch up on this morning.

Can I join the meh group. Still getting achey cramps, but I feel my cervix has dropped lower this morning. My skin was also super oily last night, worse than I’ve ever seen it, so I feel I’m going to get a bad Af next week

Think we will definitely test on Monday, just to get it out of the way with so I can enjoy my birthday.

LittleTooMuch · 11/06/2020 08:59

I would definately say I can see a line!!! I only mentioned the evap line because it can show anytime from 5 mins with the IC but I don't want to get your hopes up but I would say there is a line

PabsyPops · 11/06/2020 08:59

@whambam89 I can definitely see it!! 😀

@Rotagilla it's so hard to keep up isn't it - maybe we should start a list of when people are testing like other threads?

whambam89 · 11/06/2020 08:54

I'm almost certain it's not an evap, I've never had an evap within 10 mins before and although faint it definitely has colour. I've taken other previously from the same batch which are stark white... Please can someone tell me I'm not going crazy and there's a line? Confused

Anyone due AF on or around 15th of June
Anyone due AF on or around 15th of June
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Rotagilla · 11/06/2020 08:49

Morning ladies,
Just wanted to send support to those who have bfn's and are feeling a bit deflated.
It really helps me that so many of you feel the same way as me.
But I know if it's not this month we will all be here together next month helping each other through.

I had a bfn on an ic and I'm sure someone said they were from 4 days before...so I would have been a little early.
It did have an evap line on it later in the day that I'm obsessing about.
I'm holding on to that hope and it's actually doing my head in the not knowing.
Part of me wants to get an expensive one and just know.
Then if not I can get ready for next month.

Huge congratulations to those with Bfp's!
I'm so sorry its hard to keep up on such a busy thread!

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Fraanne · 11/06/2020 08:44

Morning all, not feeling very positive about getting a bfp but it’s our first month so just staying chilled about it all! I have gone off food recently and the thought of food makes me want to heave but not sure if that’s a sign of af! Woke up this morning thinking my boobs feel bigger?! Trying to wait until at least Sunday until I test but it’s so difficult

LittleTooMuch · 11/06/2020 08:42

@whambam89 - it could be an evaporation line from where the test has started to dry out. I would check again in a few days

kirinm · 11/06/2020 08:42

@whambam89 can you post a picture?

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