Anyone due AF on or around 15th of June

@mm26 it's so frustrating! I of course took another FRER this morning and it's negative. I'm so convinced I'm pregnant though, my boobs and nipples have never hurt so much. But a FRER should surely be showing positive by now? I'm the same as you 11/12 dpo not 100% sure when I ovulated

@whambam89 this happened to me. Got a positive at around 9/10DPO and every time I've tested since has been bfn! It's not over yet though! Hopefully just the hormones taking their time to get to a testable level! I ran out of FRERs and really shouldn't buy any more as I've already spent too much! So I'm just using the cheap strips now. I'm around 11/12dpo today I think and AF is due between Sunday and Tuesday. I don't feel like AF is arriving. I have endometriosis and am usually in a lot of pain leading up to AF. So far I've just had a sort of dull aching, but it's nothing compared to how I usually feel. Last night before I went to bed I had a really weird feeling for a few seconds a bit below my belly button, just like someone had flicked or poked me from the inside!? Strange!

Hope everyone is doing ok despite the bfns! Hopefully these change to bfps in the coming days! Sorry to those who's AF showed up 💜

Meeee! Joining you ladies. AF due anytime btw 15-19/6 🤦‍♀️ I had a MC last month so this cycle has been all over the place. I believed I o late this month based on natural cycles &bbt but Flo put my o to be normal and gives me a later period date 🤦‍♀️ Anyhow 8dpo today.

@LeopardLover thanks, I feel so much better today. I really wasn't well last night and even 2 paracetamol and 2 ibuprofen didn't get rid of it completely.

I looked back at symptoms from other months and it seems that at 10dpo I do often get backache although not as intense as yesterday. At least if AF arrives I will know in future that backache at 10dpo means I'm out so my TWW is reduced to 10 days.

Oh, & I’m also quite constipated. Haven’t pooped in 2 days!

I think I’m out, but I occasionally get that little voice in my head saying “well maybe”

The af like cramps I’ve been getting the last week have settled, I’ve got creamy lotion like cm, (but I do think I’ve got that every month) and my cervix feels higher this morning, but I have no idea what she gets up to each month anyway.

I’ve got a slight pain under the front of my bra, It feels too low to be heart burn though.

I did have some nausea yesterday, but I’d been on the phone to oh talking about a house we are viewing tonight (yeah, as well as getting engaged, ttc, we are apparently putting his flat on the market and buying a house together - June could be an exciting month 😂)

Morning team!

@FoxtrotOscarPoppet Oh I'm sorry. Hopefully this cycle is the one for you! Thanks for your luck.

@presidentgerbil From what I've read you're still in with a chance! Monday isn't here yet, there's still time for that BFP.

@Lovebug06 You never know, exactly! It's so hard to resist testing. Still plenty of time left.

@kirinm Glad you're feeling better. 😊 You can't be certain until Monday, I'm still staying hopeful for you!

@LittleTooMuch Second day of light cramping for me, so I relate to this. Just want to fast forward a few days!

@SS123456 It's still not over yet! Sorry to hear you don't get any NHS support, I didn't know this. It seems so unfair!

BFN for me at 11dpo this morning too 😔

As I'm 37 in October and this is our 8th month TTC I think I might start the ball rolling for some medical assistance for next month. I spoke to my gp 2 months ago and they said that because I have a child already the NHS wouldn't assist at all (not even basic tests or medication) so it looks like it is going to be an expensive private journey 😩

@sansa87 - I know how you feel I used to test get a BFN and then the next day my AF would arrive and i got it in my head at one point that testing was causing it! I know crazy.

Anyone else just feel like they are out and want their af to arrive? I have had period cramps on and off since yesterday and its not due until tue but its getting my down now, just want to start a new cycle and try again

Sorry for your BFN girls. Remember you’re not out until af comes though.

I thought I’d be desperate to test, I was when I was ttc ten years ago, but this time I just don’t want to do it. Definitely have some form of ptsd from all the BFNs last time.

Morning! Backache has calmed down (so far) thankfully. BFN of course. I will be glad to get this cycle out of the way but still not due until Monday. How's everyone else?

@whambam89 have you tested again?

I did a test at 10dpo and got a bfn yesterday. I know it's early but I feel like I'm out, wish I hadn't tested! You never know though I guess

I think I'm also out this month. I couldn't hold off any longer so tested this morning. I'm 11dpo and it was BFN.

It is possible I have tested too soon? Used a CB 6 day early and I'm due on the 15th. I may be clutching at straws!

Morning Ladies. I’m sad to say that I’m out for this month. Awful backache last night and AF has arrived this morning. 😢

Fingers crossed for everyone that you get your BFPs this month. x

@PabsyPops Femometer! Got it from Amazon so it was affordable and fast. I'm ready for OPKs next month, if AF arrives! Going to step things up a notch.

@whambam89 It's so late at night, don't feel disheartened. Maybe try Saturday morning if you can wait?

I think I'm going to try and wait for 17/18th too! Unless I get some crazy symptoms just before.

@AlisonLew15 Tge TWW can feel so emotionally draining. We're here for you though and this month could be the one!

Honestly, I'm already starting to daydream about everything I'll need! Pays to be prepared I guess.

@kirinm That sounds so painful, I hope you sleep okay and feel better tomorrow.

@Sansa87 Love that your OH is so involved in symptom spotting! You never know.

Tested again tonight and could maybe only see the tiniest squinter... Wouldn't even show on a photo I don't think. I know it's evening and I'm only 11dpo but I still feel really disheartened, maybe earlier was just a false positive?

@kirinm HUGE hugs!

My backache has been so intense I've ended up taking paracetamol and ibuprofen. I'm pretty sure I'm out, just hope it's not as painful tomorrow.

Oh said my boobs look great and my nipples look darker. Whilst boobs do look a bit fuller, the nip nips look the same to me 😂 I think he’s now looking for symptoms too! Can’t be good when both of us are trying to grasp at straws

Feel like I am out this month, heavy feeling in my stomach and pains in back. Disheartening but there is always next month

@LeopardLover thank you. I was feeling pretty positive too. Oh well. Totally agree, TTC is getting quite expensive! Getting us ready for things to come I guess haha

@LeopardLover which thermometer do you use? I may get one for next month if AF arrives which I hope she doesn't 🤣 I've felt totally normal today 🙄

@LeopardLover @Karanciri what day are you both testing? I was hoping to hold out til next week on 17th / 18th! 🤞🏽

@Karanciri @PabsyPops This is fun! And interesting our symptoms seem to he aligning. I definitely didn't imagine cramping today, and it's nice to finally feel something - even if it's just part of my normal cycle (I've never tracked symptoms before). My temperature has been up the past 2 mornings but I'm new to BBT so it's probably no big deal!

@AlisonLew15 Oh I'm sorry! I was really hopeful for you. Fingers crossed this is your lucky cycle.

@kirinm Sorry your cramps are so bad but hoping all these signs are positive.

Side note: TTC can get really expensive, can't it... (vitamins, Sperm-friendly lube, OPKs, tests etc). Trying not to go overboard and get a stock cupboard of supplies.

AF in full flow today now. 😭 ah CD1 here we go again x

@PabsyPops @LeopardLover. All three of us are matching I think! I'm 8DPO but due on the 18th. I had some cramping yesterday but that seems to have settled down today. I would be lying if I said I was going to wait until I was late to test! Probably will do it on sunday!