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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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kate123cl · 31/05/2020 12:39

Hey ladies!

Anyone with me ttc next month? I had my DS back in Feb 19 and we've now decided to try for baby #2.

I've been out and bought ovulation sticks, pregnancy tests and folic acid. I haven't been on Mumsnet in a long while and I've just checked the conception topic and I'm all excited again, it was such a great support platform for me the first time around!

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Newbie9 · 14/06/2020 08:08

@kate123cl great news! I bet you are feeling great about that
I'm ok thanks, no af still which is fab but don't think I'm pregnant
Just got a feeling x

kate123cl · 14/06/2020 06:36

Just got my first flashing smiley with the CB digitals😬 Maybe I'm just ovulating a little later this month🤞🏼 How's everyone else getting on?x

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kate123cl · 13/06/2020 19:54

Thanks @Bluepolkadots42. I only started using them on CD7 and the line was super, super faint. I'm thinking that maybe I'm going to be ovulating a little later than I expected as no increase in CM really, not noticeable anyway! My CB test came out like this yesterday (below pic) and I thought it was quite dark so who knows! We're dtd every day though so hopefully we don't miss our chance. I'm almost certain that I ovulate every month as I get such bad pains!

Thanks for the link to the cheapy tests, everyone talks about them, I really need to try them!

I hardly drink, ever!!Grin

How are you getting on?

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Bluepolkadots42 · 13/06/2020 18:22

@Newbie9 I haven't heard Kindara- might look into that one! The fermometer opks and app combo sound like a good idea too. That's the trouble using more than one app I think as sometimes the predictions can be conflicting, but the OPKs are your best indicator on the ovulation front.

@katie123cl oh no that really is so annoying. Have they always displayed a light line- even at the very start of your cycle? These are the cheapie OPKs I'm using (and I'm pretty sure they're the same brand I used 3 years ago or v similar) www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B001G7P62S/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_image_o02_s01?psc=1&tag=mumsnetforu03-21&ie=UTF8

I haven't found they give me lines all through my cycle- they're pretty cheap so not sure if you fancy giving them a go? Or maybe you're already using these ones!
Another thing I was wondering is are you a super hydrated person? Because the afternoon could be your best time to test but if you are someone who drinks litres of water during the day maybe LH levels are diluted? Perhaps tomorrow try doing a 3 hour urine hold and then test again at 16.30?

kate123cl · 13/06/2020 17:48

Thank you @Bluepolkadots42 I tested again at 16:30ish and still light. So fed up with it all nowSad I don't blame you for testing early lol. I wouldn't be disheartened, it's still so early! X

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Newbie9 · 13/06/2020 12:55

@Bluepolkadots42 yes I use kindara and also been trying fermometer too ask bought the opks that go with that app but I don't plan on using 2 forever. They both predict different things at different times lol
So both thought I ovulated when I did but now the fermometer says it was a day or 2 later so I could be 9-11 days po instead of 11 if I go with that 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bluepolkadots42 · 13/06/2020 10:00

@Newbie9 yes you are totally right- we should be waiting until missed AF. I know this and yet I've still just ordered 25 early detection HCG strips on amazon prime despairs of self.

I use Ovia- used it with my last TTC journey. Found it v helpful to track my cycle in conjunction with using OPKs and then once we started properly TTC it was v handy too.
Are you using any apps?

Newbie9 · 13/06/2020 09:43

@Bluepolkadots42 which app do you use?

Newbie9 · 13/06/2020 09:43

@Bluepolkadots42 I feel the same actually, I thought I was having implantation cramps around day 9, nausea all sorts of symptoms but all could be pms too. I've tested this morning & negative. I need to leave it now til 13-15dpo if af hasn't come. I suppose if we weren't trying you wouldn't test til after a missed period so prob better to go with that rule x

Bluepolkadots42 · 13/06/2020 09:39

@Newbie9 thank you. I just had another look back on my pregnancy app and i had miscounted and actually didn't get a BFP until 13DPO. So 13dpo this cycle is actually the day the app is predicting AF is coming (Tues). I am going to test Monday though just because I am so impatient and I've got lots of cheapie tests in.
I just feel like I will feel such an idiot if it is definitely a negative because I have had so much nausea the last few days I've convinced myself it will be positive and if that nausea isn't caused by pregnancy then I am going to be worried about what is causing it!
Cramps have died down again now but they were pretty strong after I first posted today.
It literally feels like an eternity until Monday!

Newbie9 · 13/06/2020 09:01

@Bluepolkadots42 don't be disheartened Hun it's still early
I tested yesterday, when I was also
10dpo & it was negative too. Going to wait til mon at least. I looked back at my previous pregnancy and didn't get a positive til 16dpo x

Bluepolkadots42 · 13/06/2020 07:28

@kate123cl I always get better lines in afternoon at 4pm ish. So tend to test at that time.

I couldn't hold out any longer and so did a pregnancy test this morning. I thought I could see a v faint test line initially but once the control line was very solid I then couldn't see any test line :( I am feeling nausea this morning and having cramps that feel like my AF cramps so not feeling hopeful. Will test again on Monday as today I am 10dpo.

kate123cl · 13/06/2020 07:14

Still an empty circle on CB this morningHmm Cheap test looks light too. Mine always seem to be lighter in the morning!

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Newbie9 · 12/06/2020 21:45

@kate123cl yep keep using them and hopefully you'll see a difference xx

kate123cl · 12/06/2020 13:48

I will do! @Bluepolkadots42

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Bluepolkadots42 · 12/06/2020 12:43

@kate123cl keep us posted on how you get on!

kate123cl · 12/06/2020 12:30

@Newbie9 Thank you. I think I may be getting a little obsessive and silly really. I usually know exactly when I ovulate so not sure why I'm relying so much on 20p tests! Grin I'll keep using them and ClearBlue!x

Thanks so much @Bluepolkadots42, that's good to know! I'll just keep on testing and hoping for the best. I hope I start getting darker linesSmile

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Bluepolkadots42 · 12/06/2020 12:27

@kate123cl I don't start getting any lines on my cheapie OPKs ( and i only use the cheapie dip sticks) until CD16 and CD17. I usually get pains as you've described and I get lots of EWCM from CD14.
Keep testing twice a day on your cheapies- once FMU, second in afternoon 3/4pm , so you know you definitely will catch your surge.
I reckon you will start getting a darker line on your cheapies in next day or so.

Newbie9 · 12/06/2020 12:26

@kate123cl maybe although you could still be due to ovulate soon, I'd keep using them over the next 2-3 days in the afternoon and see. On the day I got my peak in the afternoon I'd have a negative - on clear blue in the morning x

kate123cl · 12/06/2020 12:21

@PabsyPops Thank you! That's interestingSmile

@Newbie9 Thanks. Usually I get increased cm and then have quite strong pains and I haven't experienced any of this yet this month! Is it possible that I'm getting empty circles on CB because I'm so late into my cycle and it has nothing previous to base readings on?x

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Newbie9 · 12/06/2020 12:12

@kate123cl do you have any other ovulation symptoms? Increased CM?
I had really faint lines on the cheapies even when I got a peak with clear blue so I'm not a fan anyway
I'd try the clear blue again later on after holding wee & not drinking for at least 3 hours
Let us know whether you get a different reading x

PabsyPops · 12/06/2020 12:12

@kate123cl I didn't get a flashing smiley on clear blue until CD14 then my solid smiley on CD16. Keep on going 🤞🏽 I always found the cheap strips rubbish!!

kate123cl · 12/06/2020 12:05

Girls, I'm feeling so disheartenedSad I bought some CB advanced digitals yesterday but I'm already CD13 so had the empty circle reading last night and this morning, is that normal? It said due to my cycle length that I should've started using them on CD7. My cheap tests are getting darker but still showing 'low' on the Premom app (only been using it a month though so no previous history to go on). This was my cheap test from today.

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Bluepolkadots42 · 12/06/2020 12:00

Glad AF still isn't showing her face for you @Newbie9. I'm pretty symptomless still so who knows what's going on. I've had some v faint cramps but nothing notable and probably only noticing them cos I'm tuning in to every twinge!

Newbie9 · 12/06/2020 11:40

@Bluepolkadots42 I know rubbish hey, thankfully still no af and period type pain has gone
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