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Just want AF to arrive so new cycle can begin...

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CaribouCarafe · 26/05/2020 15:52

AF due in 3 days.

Am sure I'm out this month - negative FRER today and I have the usual PMS acne.

Just want my period to come already so that I can get this useless cycle over with and have a commiseration beer.

Just frustrating as have been taking pre-conception vitamins for months, cut out caffeine, no alcohol during TWW, have DTD every other day, tracked ovulation and with no success.

Anyone else fancy a moan whilst waiting for AF to show up?

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Sunbird24 · 28/02/2021 20:14

Well there it is! Still can’t get excited, I’ve been here before...

Just want AF to arrive so new cycle can begin...
Lizbb · 28/02/2021 16:55

@LS2020 thanks. Will do just gonna check each day. New to all of this lol

LS2020 · 28/02/2021 16:48

Thanks girls ❤️ Looking forward to a bottle of wine tonight. Decided I’m going to focus on shifting weight for next 6 months, been wanting to do for ages as BMI is 29 so basically on the edge of fertility treatment levels but been worried while TTC. Obviously not happening so going to shift the weight and take my Fitbit off and just get on with life!

@Lizbb mine was very almost like normal but I was only 5 weeks. I ovulated about a week later than normal but second AF was also about a week late so keep testing 😊

Lizbb · 28/02/2021 09:59

@mrswilso hiya thanks hun. Yea have been testing since my af ended. Its showing no line.. the af was for 5 days normal but a bit lighter although I still had to wear a pad. App says I'm ovulating 07.03 so will test till than and I will also use cb around than also. Did you ovulate after your light period and did you ttc during this time?

mrswilso · 28/02/2021 09:45

@LS2020 that's pretty rubbish 😩 hope you're having lots of wine and chocolate 😘
I've fully embraced AF week this time - hot baths, prosecco, vodka and aaaall the anti-TTC stuff 🤣

mrswilso · 28/02/2021 09:43

@Lizbb hello 👋🏻 sorry to hear you've been having a tough time...
I must say that I was the same as you all the way through my miscarriage experience...I never had any of the extreme bleeding or pain that they warned me about. My first AF came four weeks after the MC bleed too, mine was lighter than usual but went on for much longer - around ten days.
I think it can be different for everyone...I had a blighted ovum discovered at 6 weeks and finally passed with medical management at 16 weeks but I'd had a few minor bleeds between and my body had started to dislodge and break down the sac around 13 weeks.
If you're concerned though I'd maybe take another HPT to make sure that your HCG levels are back to zero...if you get a faint line I'd get in touch with EPU and ask what they advise next.

Lizbb · 27/02/2021 22:09

Hi ladies if I may p/a, I'm 36. Have 2 kids aged 3 and 5. Would appreciate anyones advice or experience p/s. Had a mc late jan at 11 weeks. Af came back around 4 weeks. I read and thought it would be heavier, longer etc. I had a few cramps, felt a bit tired and cold as I normally do but it wasnt heavy but was lighter than normal and also lasted for 5 days as normal. Is this normal or will i bleed again in a few days? I want to ttc and start testing after my first AF as advised by the EPU. Was my first period normal. Is it safe ttc and will I ovulate? Thank you

Ughmaybenot · 27/02/2021 19:34

Aaah that’s so annoying @LS2020 I’m sorry!!

Sunbird24 · 25/02/2021 18:42

Oh FFS @LS2020! AF is a right cow!

LS2020 · 25/02/2021 18:41

@Sunbird24 ah just seen you posted yes it’s super early still ❤️

LS2020 · 25/02/2021 18:41

@Sunbird24 oh love 😔 it could still be early 🤞🏻

My AF arrived 3 days early again so can’t get my bloods done this month now 😩

Sunbird24 · 25/02/2021 18:41

Yes, AF is due on the first, and I’m supposed to be testing on the fifth. I’m not out yet, just thought at what would be 11dpo i might get a squinter! Ah well, never mind!

Ughmaybenot · 25/02/2021 18:37

Oh no @Sunbird24. I have to admit I don’t know how the process works either, but maybe you’ve just tested too soon? Keeping everything crossed for you still x

mrswilso · 25/02/2021 18:33

Oh @Sunbird24 I don't know how it all works but surely that's too soon to be sure? I thought you were a week away from testing?

Sunbird24 · 25/02/2021 18:29

I caved, 6dp5dt, BFN.

mrswilso · 25/02/2021 13:31

@LS2020 I've been keeping an eye on RHR but I'm not counting on it anymore - I was actually on the second day of a 2bpm dip (assuming it was implantation) when I got my BFP!

LS2020 · 25/02/2021 12:35

@Sunbird24 I don’t have that kind of luck but thank you for thinking positively for me!

@mrswilso a year is a very sucky milestone. I would have been 6 months and it feels so awful to be no further. My RHR has plummeted at 11dpo today so in a mood for that too!

Sunbird24 · 24/02/2021 20:05

It’s the worst kind of rollercoaster isn’t it? Thinking of you too Flowers

mrswilso · 24/02/2021 19:47

Thinking of you everyday @Sunbird24 💕
I agree maybe it's a positive sign like @Sunbird24 said @LS2020 🤞🏻

CD7 today and gearing up to start again...this whole process fucking sucks. Feeling very fed up and sad. We started trying March last year, think I'm just struggling with that milestone a bit tonight.

Sunbird24 · 24/02/2021 17:59

Ah no @LS2020, maybe it’s a sign of things to follow rather than a taunt?
My BFF sent me a St Anthony card & little medal in the post, so I have said a small prayer for a positive outcome. I’m not terribly religious but willing to try anything.

LS2020 · 24/02/2021 14:53

How is everyone? Just got myself stupidly emotional as come home from a walk and there’s been a baby toy dropped outside our front door - feel like now I’m being actively taunted 😂

Sunbird24 · 23/02/2021 10:22

Sounds sensible!

LS2020 · 23/02/2021 08:39

@Sunbird24 I don’t test now unless AF doesn’t show, can’t deal with the heartbreak each month!

Sunbird24 · 22/02/2021 19:52

Are you testing this week too @LS2020?

LS2020 · 22/02/2021 19:32

@Sunbird24 I’ve got all my fingers crossed for you and hope this is your time - would be lovely if you have two little beans too! ❤️