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TTC after MC - May 2020 Part3

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Ejb86 · 25/05/2020 09:16

Almost filled the last thread, so thought we'd better start another one. Ladies feel free to tag everyone in.

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MichT4 · 05/06/2020 08:53

How are you this morning @Diorissimo1985?

Sorry, I’ve not posted here before, so you’re probably wondering who the hell has popped up. I am on the June bus, but I’ve been following all your stories while I got the courage to post xx

Hayleylou89 · 04/06/2020 21:33

@Diorissimo1985 yeah they should have offered u bloods definitely and asked u to come back in a couple of days to check they are doubling as thats reassurance before they can confirm on a scan whats going on in a week or so...thats what happened to me but i didnt have bleeding just pains that were on another level, iv got everything crossed that ur ok and give ur gp a calls tomorrow and request urgent blood tests x xx

Diorissimo1985 · 04/06/2020 21:03

@Hayleylou89 thank you - bleeding isn’t horrendous but it is there. It’s the pain that is causing me the most panic though.
No blood taken - perhaps I should have asked?
They confirmed it wasn’t ectopic today though.

Tink20058 · 04/06/2020 21:01

@Diorissimo1985 I’m sure if you explain how it’s making you feel to your gp they should organise blood tests just so you know if your hcg levels are rising xx

Hayleylou89 · 04/06/2020 20:38

@Diorissimo1985 has bleeding been really bad and did they mention anything about possible PUL pregnancy? Xx so sorry for all the questions you must be going out of ur mind x

Hayleylou89 · 04/06/2020 20:36

@Diorissimo1985 they should have taken bloods though to make sure ur hcg is going up every couple of days? Xx

Hayleylou89 · 04/06/2020 20:35

@Diorissimo1985
Dont worry this happened to me in my last pregnancy as u must just be a bit too early for the pregnancy to show, i was in agony with pains so they scanned me early as they thought it could be ectopic so it was called a PUL pregnancy (pregnancy of unknown
Location) until i went back and it had grown and it was fine xx thats why they are asking u to go bk in a week or so xx

Diorissimo1985 · 04/06/2020 20:19

Also, does HCG rise even if it’s an empty sac?

Diorissimo1985 · 04/06/2020 20:18

@VP91x apparently yes, will get appointment time through soon.

@Tink20058 I suppose I could - would they do it just at my request do you think?

Tink20058 · 04/06/2020 19:08

Gp I meant xx

Tink20058 · 04/06/2020 19:08

@Diorissimo1985 did they take blood tests? Could you not request them at go to see if hcg is increasing? Maybe worth a try just to put you at ease a little until next week xx

VP91x · 04/06/2020 17:01

@Diorissimo1985 will they scan you for definite in a weeks time? Xx

Diorissimo1985 · 04/06/2020 16:56

Thanks @Tink20058 - I was tracking with test strips so certain I ovulated 07/05.
I can’t bear the waiting I was hoping they could confirm either way today but it just continues Sad

Tink20058 · 04/06/2020 16:44

@diorissimo1985 do you know when you ovulated? You maybe just not as far on as you thought and they are unable to see anything yet and hopefully everything will progress for you got my fingers crossed for you xx

Diorissimo1985 · 04/06/2020 16:40

@VP91x 6 weeks I think

VP91x · 04/06/2020 15:39

@Diorissimo1985 how many weeks would you be now? Xx

Diorissimo1985 · 04/06/2020 15:33

Well that wasn’t very conclusive to be honest. Had to have an internal scan and all that was found was the sac, but nothing else could be seen. The person scanning me said I need to go back in 1-2 weeks for a rescan as nothing else was visible.
I actually feel more in limbo than ever now Sad

Mrs173 · 04/06/2020 13:41

@Diorissimo1985 thinking of you 💜🌈

Diorissimo1985 · 04/06/2020 12:38

Thanks girls, scan is at 2.30 - wish it had been first thing!

Tink20058 · 04/06/2020 09:19

@Diorissimo1985 sending love 💕 Really hope your ok xx

VP91x · 04/06/2020 06:36

@Diorissimo1985 god, I'm so so sorry 😩
What time is your appt today? Xx

Mrs173 · 04/06/2020 05:08

@Diorissimo1985 I am thinking of you and sending lots of hope and safe vibes your way. I am so sorry you are going through this worry right now 💜 xoxox

Jazper · 03/06/2020 23:49

Oh @Diorissimo1985 I am so so sorry. Please do let us know how you get on tomorrow. Thinking of you, and sending lots of safe baby dust your way xx

Diorissimo1985 · 03/06/2020 23:13

Thanks @VP91x - unfortunately the bleeding is now bright red and the pain has ramped to again, so I’m not expecting good news tomorrow. I am so sad, I can’t believe the bad luck of two consecutive miscarriages. I know people suffer far worse but I’m still sad and angry. This is really hard Sad

VP91x · 03/06/2020 19:11

@Diorissimo1985 I really hope everything is okay tomorrow - please let us know. Thinking of you xxx