TTC after MC - June 2020

@HopeForRainbowbaby when do u normally ovulate?? Xx

Can i ask how any of you celebrated the due date of ur babies? Xx I want to do something nice tomorrow for Bonnie... I made a flower wall for her nursury before i ended up in hospital so im still going to put it up in the house in my dressing room as its so pretty and it should go to waste but what else can we do? Xx

@2020wish thanks lovely! We all deserve it! And it will happen for us all xx 💖 the grapefruit juice def helps with the cm doesnt it

I didnt think it would but one time dtd it was literally so slippy down there i had to ease of the juice a bit haha x

@Hayleylou89 I definitely think there is a connection with not having as much sex and stressing out compared to stressing about having sex all the time. I’ve noticed that any month I’ve caught we have just had sex a few time’s around ovulation where as before we had loads

Morning everyone!

@VP91x yay no periods coming back for the right reasons!

@Hayleylou89 I know what you mean with joy being taken away . So unfair. Hope ur scan on tues goes well, you definitely deserve it

@HopeForRainbowbaby CD13 for me awaiting ovulation also!

@renna I never remember to take mine out lol always sleeping for hour with it in lol

Anyone notice a difference with grapefruit juice? I definitely have noticed a difference

@VP91 yeah that was my plan with smep to start later as didnt see the point if my cycles was stupidly long x thanks im sure all will be ok iv been feeling really sick which is a good sign... i was really looking forward to a big mac yest and just threw it straight bk up haha 🤢🤦🏽‍♀️ so its all good sign that the hormones are kicking in properly x

@Renna yeah i was the same with the ferti lily as I was worried i would end up with a uti leaving it in overnight, and ur the same with suffering with them. Uv done so well following smep!

You know nc said ovulation was originally the wednesday but i def felt like it happened on the tuesday.

Remember I was shocked to get my peak on the monday as it wasnt due until the following weekend so we had only dtd

Friday
Mon
Tues (ovulation)
Wed

Thats it 🤦🏽‍♀️

The month before was stupid amounts of times heres both months on my graphs (first one is current) that obv worked having less sex and second pic was last cycle that didnt work 😂 x

@Renna glad you've got on well with the ferti-lily 😅 I was so naughty with it. Would always fall asleep with it in sometimes until the next morning 😶

Yay that you are in TWW now. Hope it goes quickly!! Xx

@Hayleylou89 thanks hun, looking forward to hearing about your scan on Monday❤️
Meant to be starting SMEP tomorrow but think I will start from CD10 I've got ages until OV I think.

@HopeForRainbowbaby wont be long now! X

@Hayleylou89 hey xx yeah 1 dpo now :) DTD last 2 days ... used the fert illy. I think its great now I have the knack lol. Ive been falling asleep so been setting an alarm an hour later to wake up and take it out as not sure I should leave it in any longer as the instruction say 1 hour . Managed to follow SMEP exactly this cycle without planning too much . So think I also need to DTD today to have followed SMEP properly .. :)
@@Hayleylou89 what days did you DTD around ovualtion last cycle ? X I can imagine how you're feeling as I'll be the same xx but do try and enjoy what you can of this amazing time I'm confident everything will work out perfectly healthy and amazing babe xxxx

@Hayleylou89 CD12 now. Anxiously waiting for ovulation

Hey @VP91 glad ur back to a fresh cycle and ready to go!! Hopefully this one is urs! 🌈

@renna how r u doing r u 1/2 dpo now? X x

@HopeForRainbowbaby where r u and @renna upto now 1/2 dpo?

@Ejb86 you know its not jelousy that ur feeling i learnt from a pregnancy loss meeting that grieving is same emotion as jelousy so dnt beat urself up about feeling like that, Iv only just been able to face social media now im pregnant again, my due date should have been tomorrow but im starting all over again with my first scan the day after (monday) its like the baby is reborn in me again, its wierd as my due date is the same week she was actually born....Feb 21... im absolutely bricking it thinking will everything be ok this time, its so shit all the joy is taken from us even when we fall pregnant again. Xx

Morning ladies - how is everyone doing today?

CD7 here now - AF has well and truly gone (hopefully never to return!) xx

@DBTJ glad I'm not the only one feeling like this then it's not nice eh! Xx

@HE88

I think we both are identical I am also 1dpo and my belly is singing different sound tracks from bass 2 opera. The cramps are really something

@Ejb86 I understand this:( I'm sorry it is not a great day for you. I hope that we ladies on the group can cheer up little bit and be your support. I wish I could just skip to the moment when I'm pregnant again with healthy baby and all goes smooth! I guess dealing with pregnancy announcement will be easier then. For now, it is tough. I hear you! Sending lots of hugs 😘

@Chickoletta technically it does include plum and we woman are resourceful! So enjoy one for our health 🥰and yours of course 😉

xxxx

@VP91x yeah I had read that it can alternate maybe I am just feeling more sentisitve tonight just hope it's not a uti. Xx

@Renna

Mine was dull not sharp almost period type on and off for 2 days and then my boobs began to hurt and seemed to be a little heavy.

@Ejb86 I'm so sorry that you have such a rotten day. That is so unfair that this has happened. I hope you allow yourself to feel angry/sad and hopefully try to feel a little better soon. It will be your time and your mum will be thrilled for you and it will be all your time.

Sending you lots of love ❤️

@HE88 I think it can alternate where you ovulate from it might just be your particularly sensitive to it tonight. Hope you feel better soon xx

Yeah I will do @2020wish I can't even bare to dtd tonight so I really hope Wednesday and yeasterdy have me covered. It's also throwing me off because it's my left side I never get pain on me left side around ovulation it's always my right so wondering if it could be that everything is working harder ha ha. Xx

Yea sorry it was for you. It does sound like it should be ovulation but can’t remember mine being that sore, although it is sore for me and I do take paracetamol every now and again. Maybe give it till later tonight or tomorrow and if it’s not subsiding or gets worse ring your doctor and maybe get checked out?

@2020 wish was that for me? If it was I'm only 1dpo. I got my peak at 5pm on Wednesday then later on that night started feeling the twinges then nothing really yeaterday and now today it's quite sore 😢. Xx

How many days dpo are u?

@Ejb86 aw that is really rotten I'm so sorry you have had to go through this sending you love xx

Ladies this left sided pain I'm getting is actually really sore I've took some paracetamol but it is shifting I feel like I want to put a hot water bottle in it but I'm so mindful of what the homeopath lady said about avoiding heat during the tww!

@Ejb86 that’s tough :( I’m so sorry