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TTC after MC - June 2020

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SmileyT · 21/05/2020 19:55

I'm 31 TTC #1 after a MC in March this year, AF has just finished and I'm on CD6 and all ready to go for my 2nd full cycle.

This month I will be tracking with opks, CB connected, BBT and following SMEP plan.

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HE88 · 07/06/2020 19:02

@1990EM sorry you have been feeling a bit down. Fingers crossed you get that bfp soon 😊. Xx

@2020wish oh I hope you get that peak soon 😁. Xx

2020wish · 07/06/2020 18:45

@1990EM sorry your feeling low. It’s ok to take time for yourself what CD are you on now x

2020wish · 07/06/2020 18:43

Yay I think I will get my peak tonight or tomorrow! Tests are getting darker from 0 this morning. Last month I didn’t ovulate til very late CD19. So I’m glad my cycle has normalised this month and looks like I will ovulate CD14/15

TTC after MC - June 2020
VP91x · 07/06/2020 15:20

@1990EM so sorry that you have been having a tough week, sending you lots of love ❤️

Definitely always have to keep the faith and that hope will see you through the toughest days. I have seen alot that Fertility can have a boost post-Mc so it is so so possible. Test whenever you feel comfortable! Xx

1990EM · 07/06/2020 14:38

Hey everyone. Been really quiet, sorry for not commenting much but I read this thread every day and always come away feeling so much better. Some incredible women on here, sending love to you all and thanks for sharing all that you're going through. It's no easy journey and my heart just goes out to you all.
I have just been dealing with a bit of delayed grief this week and also keeping my head down in my first TWW since my miscarriage. Never got a full peak on my OPK but I didn't the last time I got pregnant so I could have missed it.
@smileyT I'm due AF next weekend too, that's if my cycle has regulated to some extent. Am so torn about testing.. I badly want to test this week but I also don't want to put myself through it🙈 I know the chances are slim first cycle post miscarriage but there's always part of you that hopes beyond hope isn't there!!

VP91x · 07/06/2020 14:30

@SmileyT yeah I don't think I get any AF symptoms until the day where I get that lower backache that's really dull. I was looking back at both times I have been PG and I tested with them both the day AF would have due or day after. Trying to remember why I was prompted to test because I never used to really track much. Suppose its irrelevant now!

@chloedancer897 the waiting really is the worst!

chloedancer897 · 07/06/2020 13:52

The waiting is the worst part. It feels like every month is about 60 days long! I don’t want to test on 20th as I tested on the day I was due last time and then miscarried a week after. So I’m going to try and hold off. Of course if AF comes then I don’t need to test 🙁

SmileyT · 07/06/2020 12:30

@VP91x tbh I'm not a big symptom spotter and don't think I feel any different but I'm also not sure I did the month I was pregnant as I wore a pad basically the whole week I was due on convinced it was coming 😂 I'm not sure I even get AF symptoms until about the day before so it's just a waiting game. We'll just think this time next week you could be in your TWW so fertile period will definitely be starting this week 👌🏾

@peonyrose87 and @2020wish looks like you'll both be joining us in TWW next week so not long until you'll both be testing aswell and looking like both of your cycles are pretty regular xx

@MichT4 how are you feeling in yourself? xx

@HE88 yay to being in the TWW xx

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2020wish · 07/06/2020 12:07

I’m hoping I get my peak later today a like last month where it went from
Negative to positive in the same day lol DTD is tiring 😂

HopeForRainbowbaby · 07/06/2020 11:39

@peonyrose87 good luck ! It sounds like you are covered.

HopeForRainbowbaby · 07/06/2020 11:38

@2020wish my tests are also negative. CD13 today. But more ECWM last two days, I don't know if it is a sign of coming ovulation or it is due to grapefruit/plum juices.

VP91x · 07/06/2020 11:36

@MichT4 did you order the OPKs in the end?

@2020wish ahh that's annoying, femometer can be like that sometimes its so fickle! Keep testing and hopefully you get your peak soon xx

peonyrose87 · 07/06/2020 11:36

I got a very clear positive OPK this morning! I only started testing last cycle and this is the first time I've seen a proper positive test so I'm glad my body is working after MMC. A bit worried as we're CD12 and only started DTD on day 10, although we've done it the last two days and will do the next three at least. 🤞🏻

MichT4 · 07/06/2020 11:26

I’m CD15, and have different predicted ovulation dates, spanning the next 7 days, with AF predicted somewhere between 27th and 30th June 🙄
So basically, who knows. Hoping some OPKs and more Ava data will give a better idea 🤷🏻‍♀️

Excited for you @SmileyT, not long to go 🤞🏼

2020wish · 07/06/2020 11:14

Cycle day 14 for me. Opk tests still negative. Femometer has changed my predicted ovulation from tomorrow to yesterday making me 1dpo which isn’t true. All because I noted ewcm on Friday lol which is down to the grapefruit juice lol my temp did go up a bit but I think that’s cause I did have a drink last night and didn’t go to bed til 3am lol talk about all over the place lol

HE88 · 07/06/2020 10:42

@SmileyT and @Renna I'm also joining you in the tww.
@chloedancer897 af is due around the 18th for me.

VP91x · 07/06/2020 10:33

@chloedancer897 hey 😊 I'm due AF on 30th June. Yay for your peak, hopefully your TWW flies by quickly xx

peonyrose87 · 07/06/2020 09:36

@chloedancer897 I'm due AF on the 23rd! I'm CD 12 and had a strong OPK last night. Just waiting to test now to see what it's saying today. My strongest lines were day 12 last cycle so 🤞🏻 how are you doing?

VP91x · 07/06/2020 07:59

@SmileyT so excited for you! Have you felt any different?

Yeah of course, plus nice to just have interrupted time with them after everything that has been going on.

Both on CD17 actually! But FF is taking an average of my cycles and saying I will have a 26day cycle which won't be right, but that's okay. I had a 11 day LP last month, so if I do ovulate Cd17 I will have a 28 day cycle. If I stay at 31 days then I expect to OV on CD20. But everything is still settling I think so who knows 😂 xx

SmileyT · 07/06/2020 07:51

@chloedancer897 I'm due AF next weekend so think I'm about a week ahead of you and just getting to that crappy part of TWW. How are you feeling?

@VP91x yeah I'm testing on Wednesday or Thursday so not too long to go but last few days are always the longest aren't they. Weekend definitely seems to have flown past at home, they are only a 20min drive away but I don't have a car so just easier for me to stay over, because I was still going out to work I avoided seeing them before restrictions were lifted. When are your apps estimating you will ovulate this month? xx

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Rainbowhope11 · 07/06/2020 07:25

@VP91x thank you!! This has taken forever, but hopefully it will all be worth it soon💕 fingers crossed for you too hun Xx

VP91x · 07/06/2020 07:22

@Rainbowhope11 yeah, it probably has taken that first reading super high so might not turn static. Fingers crossed for you this month after such a long wait for OV! Xx

Rainbowhope11 · 07/06/2020 07:17

@Re6ecc4 I'm sorry that you're having a hard time😘 Its good that you've taken some time for yourself to deal with your emotions and feel whatever you're feeling...thats a great step towards healing ❤️ We're all here for you hun Xx

Rainbowhope11 · 07/06/2020 07:13

@VP91x I did try and test again with the cb, but I just got flashing smileys. My pregmate opk strips are still pretty dark so just going to dtd over the next few days and see what happens. I've got a couple more cb sticks left so I may just give it a try and test to see if it ever reaches peak. If I really am ovulating now, then I'm currently in week 3 of a 5 week wait😂

VP91x · 07/06/2020 06:49

@Re6ecc4 hey lovely, I'm so sorry that you've had an awful week. It is good to have that space to cry and grieve. Glad to have you back with us. How are you feeling today? Xx

@Rainbowhope11 oh yes, of course it won't pick it up now I don't think. Did you try it again to see if it did? But, if your OPKs went positive then that is morning than enough. If it still dark, you've definitely caught it because after your positive opk you will ovulate between 12-36hrs later so 👍

@SmileyT ah that must have been so so nice to see them. I bet the weekend went quickly for you! Do they live nearby? Haha, priorities. Yeah, for sure. Will start on CD10 so, Tuesday.

Not long until you test 🤞🤞

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