TTC after MC - June 2020

@SmileyT thank you ❤️ I'm not sure what is best? I might hold off until Sunday if AF doesn't show tomorrow. Is it too early for wine? 🍷😭

I really hope he makes it up to you today! Men can be so moody. Hope you are ok xx

@Ejb86 how are you feeling? You definitely are still in. Fingers crossed for when you next test xx

@Hayleylou89 thank you hun, not feeling so positive! But will just have to wait and see xxx

BFN here this morning. As expected. Had BFN with my lb at 9dpo and then BFP at 10dpo though, so not lost all hope yet.

@VP91x hey u dnt get too down in the dumps its still veerrry early days at 10dpo.. when is AF due and its a good thing ur temps r still up 🙏🙏 implantation still has time yet x

Morning ladies, I mean look how early my body has woken me up!?

Test update - BFN 😭

Not even an evap or squinter to muse over. Tested with a FRER and CB early test. I feel crushed. Especially as my temp was higher today too. Xx

@SmileyT ah no don't think like that! You DTD day before anyway didn't you? And he will probably be fine for today/tomorrow and that will have you more than covered, honestly ❤️

@Spottybluepyjamas yeah use the frer with fmu good luck. Xx

@SmileyT happy peak day enjoy your round of dtd are you following SMEP this cycle? Xx

@HE88 they're just the cheap amazon ones - I think they're called One Step. I did treat myself to a FRER today, but it was still negative. I've still got one left from the pack of two so I might try to do that with fmu tomorrow

@peonyrose87 sorry af got you fingers crossed this is your cycle ☺️🌈. Xx

@2020wish that is insensitive but like others have said they probably haven't meant it intentionally. Xx

@Spottybluepyjamas hi and welcome to the thread sorry to hear about your loss. What tests have you been using? Xx

Hi Ladies,

I was on the May thread but AF arrived two days ago so here I am! 32, had a MMC at the end of January. It took ten weeks for my cycles to return and I'm now on my third cycle.🤞🏻 we all have more luck this month!

Happy peak @SmileyT ...time to get down to business 😉 x

Hope ur ok @2020wish sending lots of love, they should listen to you but ppl just dnt understand until they have been through a loss... maybe silence the chat so ur not even notified of messages until u are ready to deal with it again xxx

Hi ladies I'm just going to use ic opks this cycle as I've only 2 cb tests left and didn't really want to fork out the money for more. Just wo sering those of you that use ic opks do you test twice a day with them? Xx

Hi @Spottybluepyjamas xx welcome to the thread xx sorry for your loss xx good luck x keep us posted on how u get on x

Yay to peak @SmileyT xx

Hi all! I'm TTC number 2 after a miscarriage at 10 weeks in March. Have had 1 period since then and currently waiting for AF. I think I'm 3 days late, but think my cycles could be messed up after the MC.

Been feeling nauseous off and on for a week, but presuming it's too early for morning sickness - plus all tests have been negative so far (and surely if would be positive if it were morning sickness!).

Anyway - hello! Good luck to everyone and fingers crossed for lots of bfp's soon

@2020wish sorry to hear that. It is insensitive. Are you going to message them again to tell them how it has made you feel?
@VP91x & @Ejb86 fingers crossed for you for tomorrow! X

@2020wish you’re totally justified! I doubt it’s intentional on their part but still doesn’t help you when you’re having to hear about it all.

@SmileyT ahh amazing news that you got your peak!! Yeah I think I prefer the ICs because you can see the line progession and then it fades off again at least you know where you stand. Also much cheaper to pee on those to your hearts content!! 3 day stint for you now then? Xx

@smileyT haha literally the reaction my family and friends have had but I love her loads already and I really think we needed this addition to our family right now. I've deffo thought about TTC a whole lot less already rather than sitting at home over thinking it . Just hope we ensure we have enough energy to DTD as it is tiring haha but so worth it xx
@2020wish yeah sorry that's happening to you hun xx not on .. some people just really dont get it though x x none of my mates anywhere near wanting to try for a family at the mo and they know what's happened but they haven't since asked how I'm doing or when we all had a girly zoom call were talking about pregnancy and babies etc generally 🙄 i was just mute at this point hoping theyd get the point that its hard for me . I'd struggle even more so if they were actually pregnant themselves . Xxx sending hugs and rant away here any time xxxxx

@2020wish I'm so sorry. I can completely understand that you don't want to be reminded about it now. I'm going through miscarriage myself too now and being hurt seeing updates from women in my surrounding who have the due date of my previous pregnancy( which I also lost two months ago) but they don't know i was also expecting at the same time ...
I just ignore some messages now... I know it is not a method but helps me. And I reply when I'm ready.
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@2020wish oh no!! That's so not okay! I'm so sorry. What did they say to you when you asked them to give you some space? Xx