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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC after MC - June 2020

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SmileyT · 21/05/2020 19:55

I'm 31 TTC #1 after a MC in March this year, AF has just finished and I'm on CD6 and all ready to go for my 2nd full cycle.

This month I will be tracking with opks, CB connected, BBT and following SMEP plan.

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VP91x · 29/05/2020 20:03

@SmileyT haha yes! I'm glad you got the goods 😂 yeah you have definitely caught it. Can't believe you're going to be in your TWW now. I feel like it's gone so quickly for you - although I'm sure you won't agree.

Don't - I literally need to calm myself down so I can actually sleep and not mess up my temp in the morning. So so nervous xx

SmileyT · 29/05/2020 19:59

@Renna I do hope it's like hayley where you don't have to bother with the Ava as you get your BFP beforehand. No tips for the fertilily as I don't have that but your story did make me laugh 😂 I'm sure you'll smash the interview and means more money on Mat leave 👌🏾

@VP91x DP walked through the door from work after a 12hr shift and was like 'let's rectify last night right now' so 20hrs later than I'd hoped but I think I'll ovulate tonight so hopefully still covered. Can it be morning already so you can POAS x

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Hayleylou89 · 29/05/2020 19:39

@renna ohh noo whats wrong with these sellers!
🤦🏽‍♀️ have u contacted them, what have they said?

The ferti lily wasnt the best first time round for me as it leaked out but see if the hubby will push it up and pull it slowly once its in position ... it worked for me and iv got a good feeling this is ur month it seems to be planning out like mine last cycle where the ava arrived after the bfp haha x

And best of luck for ur interview too 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

2020wish · 29/05/2020 19:39

@HopeForRainbowbaby yes would be good :) here’s to this being our month :) honestly I’ve just been cleaning and doing bits and pieces to the house while I’ve been off, my partner works nearly everyday so I’m on my own most of the time m. My daughter is at that age she goes about and does her own thing lol so I’m not much help on passing the time lol

HopeForRainbowbaby · 29/05/2020 19:35

@2020wish indeed just one day difference! It will be nice to support each other! Cycle buddy. I'm already waiting anxiously for bleeding to be over but I'm trying somehow not to think about it.

Ladies, Any good ideas on how to pass the time faster and relax in the meantime?
Also, are you ladies enjoying some date time during the lockdown ?

Thank you😘 @Niisa

2020wish · 29/05/2020 19:31

@Renna that’s annoying hopefully she gets u sorted quickly. I put mine in like @VP91x

VP91x · 29/05/2020 19:16

@Renna oh I thought you'd bought both!! I didn't realise they'd sent you the wrong thing. How annoying! Hope it gets sorted quickly.

Congrats on getting the interview for the promotion!! I'm sure you'll smash it 🤞🤞

So what I did with the ferti-lily was turn it inside out and put both my fingers in it to like properly push it up as far as I could and then I tugged on it so it goes back to its cup position xx

Renna · 29/05/2020 18:48

... also ... CD8 today... ovulation due 5 days time... tried the fert illy for the first time... have it in right now. Just about got it in, I nearly gave up. Haven't practiced with it. But just put it in after DTD think more stuff came out than pushed up ... it wouldnt go in right position and I had to take it out couple times , I nearly took it out but thought now the time to practice before peak .. managed to get it in with maneuvering. Any one got a 'nack' ? Lol ... I cant feel it now it's in... but feel like its pointless as a lot if it came out when I had to pull it out couple times xx

Renna · 29/05/2020 18:42

@SmileyT @VP91x yeahh probs got mixed up ..weird though as they packed it like they were a pro seller or something like with a little sticker on the inside packaging ... like gone to effort lol if I sold it I'd just pack it a basic in a box 😂. I've messaged them so have to wait and see ... see if the person who has received an ava for the price of a fertility monitor will be returning to the seller lol ! So so frustrating... have to not let it annoy me and not stress 🙄 ...
I like to stress myself out ... just found out passed the assessment of a promotion I applied for and have an interview next week... didnt actually think itd get any where .. stress streesss.. I need more meditation xx

VP91x · 29/05/2020 18:30

@SmileyT god, I almost forgot I have to temp first 😂. Hope it doesn't crush the little hope I have. Xx

SmileyT · 29/05/2020 18:26

@VP91x ooh I'm excited to check the thread when I do my temp first thing tomorrow 🤞 the line progresses.

@Renna wtf so annoying... I thought you'd ordered that aswell when I saw the pic 😂 somebody getting rid of all their conception stuff maybe and got mixed up x

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VP91x · 29/05/2020 18:20

Ahh I think everything is back up and running again!

@Renna oh how annoying!! Did they mention when it should be arriving ijg? Xx

Renna · 29/05/2020 18:17

Ugh got excited that my ava bracelet was being delivered by Hermes today.... its arrived ... see attached ... does this look like an ava bracelet to you ... ? 🙄🙄 @Hayleylou89 having same problems as you with ava now not gonna arrive for ovualtion by next week 🙄 so annoying and disappointing.. also weird as it was a bid I won on ebay and is classed as used ... so not sure if it's actually someone who sells stuff on ebay and got mixed up with orders or if someone selling their used stuff got mixed up .. xx

TTC after MC - June 2020
VP91x · 29/05/2020 17:32

Girls, sorry I think I have spammed the thread. The web version has gone nuts! X

VP91x · 29/05/2020 17:28

@SmileyT sorry I replied twice, it didnt show that my reply had sent and it said I wasn't following any threads! Silly thing.

Going to use a CB again tomorrow to compare properly any progression if there is any!

VP91x · 29/05/2020 17:26

@SmileyT yeah I am definitely going to test again tomorrow. I posted a pic on the other end of May thread we have and the girls thought they might see a vfl so fingers crossed something progresses 🤞🤞

I'm glad you are feeling much better and I'm sure your OH will make it up to you. It can all get a bit much can't it xx

SmileyT · 29/05/2020 17:24

@2020wish thanks, that's great I'll start taking it now then 👌🏾

@VP91x well I've said to him that we'll just have a chilled one and whatever happens it'll all be good don't want to put any extra pressure on him, so annoying that we need them to perform to get pregnant - I am quietly confident it was just a one day blip though 😂 ooh just had a look on the thread and I can see a faint line 🤞 what test are you going to use 2m? xx

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VP91x · 29/05/2020 17:23

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VP91x · 29/05/2020 17:00

@SmileyT ahh yeah I'm going to test tomorrow for sure. The girls on the other thread we have thought they might see a faint line so has given me a bit of hope. Fingers crossed 🤞🤞

I'm glad you are feeling better. Honestly, men can be such shitbags sometimes. Hopefully he is raring to go tonight 🤭

Xx

2020wish · 29/05/2020 16:57

@SmileyT I’ve just continuously taken the calc fluor every day from last month. I read is had benefits when ttc and during pregnancy

SmileyT · 29/05/2020 16:53

@VP91x tbh I think when you start testing might aswell do it everyday 😂 unless you want to save money on the tests, 2 days will give it more time to progress if you want to be patient. I've shaked yesterday off I felt bad that he just couldn't get into it but it was so frustrating I just got mad which obviously made it worse, will try again today x

@Renna it's good you are getting it looked into and the GPs are being supportive. I had surgery in March and haven't noticed anything tbh apart from around ovulation I really notice the pain but wasn't tracking before so maybe I'm just more aware x

@Ejb86 like you said you got a BFN at 9dpo before and went on to get good news so keep positive x

@elliew818 thanks for your kind words, think OH was just knackered and I really didn't help, we've had sex every day apart from 2 since my period ended so maybe I'd burnt him out 🙈 he is feeling so bad for it today and I'm sure we'll make it up this weekend x

Welcome @gwen7896 sorry for your losses and definitely understand not wanting to test early, hope the next bean is super sticky xx

Question to you ladies - when do you start taking your calc flour? Is there any issue if it's the day of ovulation rather than day after as not 100% on date at the moment ❤️

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Dipsy77 · 29/05/2020 16:46

I'm on cycle 3 since MMC in February currently 4dpo taking pregnacare conception vitamin d and Calc fleur also used the cup this time and followed SMEP apart from the one for luck x

2020wish · 29/05/2020 16:09

Im so happy for her and so glad everything is going well for her. I know I will be ok tomorrow

Ejb86 · 29/05/2020 16:05

@2020wish ah no. That's hard. You've been through the ringer lately. Be kind to yourself.

2020wish · 29/05/2020 15:56

My friend who was due the same day as me when I MC in April has just announced her pregnancy on fb :( I would have been 13 weeks. Trying not to be in funk now

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