TTC after MC - June 2020

@VP91x I drink plum juice. And I felt the difference last time around ovulation. I will check how grapefruit juice can support the conception ( maybe I will just stock on both)

Welcome to new ladies!

Btw I have clicked on posting button accidentally ( a fly was attacking me 😅🤣)

@2020wish if you are worried I would definitely give a call to specialist. My bleeding was lasting 10 days( with miscarriage at 9 weeks ), now it is 5/6 days ( MC at 5 weeks ) and I think that's it. However I was advised by midwife that typically MC at 5 weeks can last up to one week.

I also enjoy doing ovulation test, just to pinpoint when I ovulate, but continue frequent DTD just to be sure.

@SmileyT haha!

Well I already have -
Ferti-lily
BBT (as you know)
I used pre-seed last month but have ran out. Wondering whether to re-buy!? Or try Conceive + lube?
Going to try Grapefruit Juice.
Considering Calc Flor for TWW.

Do you reckon that's enough? Or worth throwing anything else into the mix? Xx

Welcome to new

Also welcome @Girlmum83 and @bubblybon20 ❤️

@Hayleylou89 thank you, I'm feeling okay about it now. Looking forward to fertile week. Yeah I have the ferti-lily. Wondering whether to get pre seed again or not - what do you think? Or Conceive Plus?

Calc Flor is for TWW isn't it? Wondering also whether to bother with CB digi this month or just stick to the cheapies. Xx

@2020wish if you're worried definitely get checked out hun. Better to be safe! Xx

@1990EM thank you 😊 ahh do you think you could still be about to OV? It might just be having a slow build up for you or still due to come xx

@2020wish your body has been through a lot, hopefully it is just your uterus re-adjusting and starting to build up a nice new lining for this cycle. But if you're worried it is totally acceptable to phone the early preganacy unit and ask for advice. I think if it was an ectopic you would still be getting positive preganacy tests. Have you got a total negative yet? Sending hugs x

Hi to those who have joined 👋 hope this thread will soon be filled with good news from everyone!

@VP91x ah sorry AF came.. but glad you'll still be around this month and not long till fertile window again!

@SmileyT ovulation test was the same as yesterday, either I missed the peak or I'm not ovulating this cycle. Or else ovulation is taking longer than normal 🙈 thanks for asking. Did manage to dtd this morning because we were both exhausted last night. Hope you're having a good weekend.

Girls question is now day 7*

Also I didn’t even bleed this long when I lost at 7 weeks. And not spotting either side with that loss either. Just 5 days bleeding

Sorry to hear af came @VP91x hopefully this month is our month

Welcome @Girlmum83 and @bubblybon20 sorry to hear about ur loses: this is a lovely thread to join

Girl question it’s not day 7 from I started bleeding and although it mostly stopped it’s just still light blood stained when I wipe and I have ningles and slight sharp shooting pain in left side of lower abdo. Should I be worried? My mind is going along thinking etopic or something. Because this one was chemical this month I half expected my af not to impacted as much as if I didn’t test at 10dpo I would never have known I was pregnant as the tests went basically negative on the day af arrived. My af usually last 4 days. No spotting either side

Hi, hoping to join this thread!

I've been following since the start;
Suffered a MC, on the 9th April, around 8+4 weeks. Already have 2 DSs age 6 & 4.

Really thought I was lucky this month as normal have 25 day cycles.
Had loads of cramping and nausea the past week. And even 2 days late, for AF to arrive today 😩 absolutely gutted. Onto the June bus I am.

Sending lots of luck to everyone for a fresh and successful month!x

@VP91 sorry to hear AF got u, I was hoping to see a late bfp :( ... but about ur amazon order ... did u get calc fluor and ferti lily? I used both aswell as preseed last month and also make sure u orgasm (pref after him) 🤦🏽‍♀️ think that could always help too, iv also been on omega 3 tablets for a while now too xx

Hi I hope you don’t mind if I join you all . I’m 36 and currently mum to 2 girls . Af has just finished for the 1st time following the loss of my mcma twin boys at 15 weeks in April so I’m officially setting off again on my 1st ttc cycle . It took almost 2 years of not preventing but actively trying to conceive the boys so although very nervous I don’t want to wait any longer to start trying and am planning to be a bit more active with the trying this time . I wish you all lots of love and luck and hope this a very lucky month full of rainbows of hope for everyone x

Ladies, is there anything I should 100% stick in my Amazon basket today to try this month??

I'm going to stock up on the grapefruit juice and I ran out of Pre-seed do you think I should get some more? 🤔 Xx

Little update - AF is here! I'm actually relieved I didn't want to have a super long cycle.

@Ejb86 we are pretty much cycle buddies again 😊 xx

@SmileyT I'm 12DPO today. So weird my cycles are still a bit bonkers. I know I just want my temp to plummet it gives me a bit of hope in the morning haha. Yeah, positive will be a longer LP!

I've been meaning to ask what you use to measure your RHR? I have a Samsing Active Watch and wondering if I should get a fitbit or something for this purpose?

You're 1DPO now aren't you? xx

I admire your patience @Jazper
Hoping for BFP😘

@Jazper thank you hun!! Yeah definitely try and hold out if you can. I've started to get that dull backache that comes before AF so I'm sure I am not far off. Xx

Thank you. Will use the 6th as my earliest day to test. I'm not holding out much hope. I get pms symptoms way before af and I've already got the back ache and the tight legs.
If I'm unsuccessful this time, this will be my third cycle (fourth bleed) since mc.
Really hoping June is your month xx

@Jazper just going by my current testing saga I would say wait (if you can) until 12DPO so the 6th?😊

I know, it gets you into such a weird mindset. Once you get round that you are out for the month you just want to move on! Xx

@VP91x
It's funny ttc isn't it? You're always half hoping af doesn't come and half wanting it to so you can just get on!
7dpo going by pos opk only. Still no plans to test. Really trying to hold off until at least this coming weekend.
My 'usual' 29-30 day cycle would make me due-on on 6th/7th but 14dpo would make me due-on on 8th. Which should I go by do you think? (Just in case I decide to test early) 🙈

@Jazper how many DPO are you now?

This will be Cycle 4. Yeah, still super irregular! But I know I'm ovulating so that's the main thing. Just hope AF shows up ASAP so I can start fresh xx