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TTC after MC - June 2020

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SmileyT · 21/05/2020 19:55

I'm 31 TTC #1 after a MC in March this year, AF has just finished and I'm on CD6 and all ready to go for my 2nd full cycle.

This month I will be tracking with opks, CB connected, BBT and following SMEP plan.

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HopeForRainbowbaby · 03/06/2020 21:41

@2020wish im so sorry regarding the call. They should keep better admin there.

You don't need a r
Actually my post MC check up was mine ( what it supposed to be ) 11or 12 weeks pregnancy appointment... I am waiting for check up post MC 2.

I'm also postponing exercising😂I squeeze few squads in daily routine... but I really need to take care of the fatness 🤨

Tink20058 · 03/06/2020 21:27

@VP91x thanks for the add it’s nice to follow all your stories and give Any advice if I can xxx

HE88 · 03/06/2020 21:18

@elliew818 same here I hate the bfns. Fingers crossed for you that you get your bfp xx

MummyMilla · 03/06/2020 20:59

Thank you all for the warm welcome! Just ordered my pre seed and husband is bracing himself for next week 😂

My MC only started last Friday so I'm CD5 I think. It was a really short period/MC and only two days of full bleeding. But I've tested and defo not pg.

Actually feeling quite excited! Really want to conceive quickly (don't we all!) just because I'll be 40 in Jan and my eldest in 10 in May, so would like another born before his birthday if possible!

That being said, I'd just like a healthy pregnancy. 😊

elliew818 · 03/06/2020 20:47

@MichT4 yeah it’s ruined the mood a bit for DTD though, feels like someone has kicked me in the vagina lol
@HE88 I am the same I find seeing a BFN even worse than AF so I’ll hold off until 19th I think. Which coincidentally is the date of my first MC in 2017 so will test FMU before going to the cemetery if AF hasn’t already arrived!

HE88 · 03/06/2020 19:58

@MichT4 these are the ones I have too. Xx

@elliew818 happy anniversary to you, a cycle buddy 😀. I never really plan when to test tbh I've had so much disappointment over the last couple of years I tell myself just to hold out to see if af comes. What about you when do you plan to test? Xx

MichT4 · 03/06/2020 19:57

@elliew818 I have been using glow and it’s pretty good I think. Not that I know much about the apps, but I like it so far.

Good to think you have ovulation pains, would love to feel it so I knew it was happening.

And Happy Anniversary 💕 xx

elliew818 · 03/06/2020 19:50

@2020wish thanks, it was concerning because the IBS came on quite suddenly when I was out walking and had to march home pretty sharpish!
@ManchNic I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve been through. I have a 19month old DS so I can’t begin to imagine, you must be one very strong lady.
@VP91x well I’ve only just downloaded it, think it’s similar to other tracking apps, I’ve only got the free version but seems so far so good. Hoping it was definitely the peak but will POAS and DTD again tonight just to be sure!
@HE88 I’m a day behind you cycle wise - plus my wedding anniversary is today so a day before you too, happy anniversary! When will you be testing this month?
@Hayleylou89 glad you got your meeting/ scan sorted, I think everyone on here will be having fingers and toes crossed for you.

SmileyT · 03/06/2020 19:46

@MichT4 yep those are the ones I have, I actually find them quite enjoyable but I have been trying to reduce sugar so maybe my body is just holding onto that little bit of taste 😂

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MichT4 · 03/06/2020 19:15

@SmileyT 10?? 😳😂 I bought these ones, are they the same? I hope they taste like marshmallows.

@VP91x I think I’ll leave the preseed. We are usually ok, and I think that might send him over the edge on top of all these other purchases. Although he did tell me to put my legs in the air after DTD the other day 😂😂 I didn’t want to tell him it wasn’t in the fertile window as I thought that was pretty sweet he was thinking about it. Bless him, don’t think I give him enough credit sometimes about him wanting it too

TTC after MC - June 2020
VP91x · 03/06/2020 19:10

@Tink20058 here you are hun ❤️

HE88 · 03/06/2020 19:07

@SmileyT oh that's good to know they taste like marshmallows. I don't imagine you can if you can take max 24 a day plus like you say will be good for your teeth and hair. Xx

SmileyT · 03/06/2020 18:59

@HE88 haha oh yeah, well I've been trying to diet and they taste a bit like mini marshmallows so I keep popping them in, hope you can't OD on them and it'll just help with my teeth and hair aswell x

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VP91x · 03/06/2020 18:56

@SmileyT I didn't realise you had to take so many of the calc flour!! That's crazy, haha. I'll be popping them too this month. Yeah I am sure it will be! 🤞Xx

HE88 · 03/06/2020 18:52

@SmileyT I'll start tomorrow then. Ha ha 10 a day jeez that's a lot we bought the same ones didn't we the ones that dissolve and say take 4 to 8 3 times a day? Xx

HE88 · 03/06/2020 18:50

@MichT4 and @VP91 thank you looking forward to dtd ha ha. Xx

SmileyT · 03/06/2020 18:48

@HE88 I started taking them day after positive but apparently you can take them all through cycle, I've been taking like 10 a day 😬 but somebody said you should just take 2.

@MichT4 which calc flour are you taking mine are really small so take a lot, ive used preseed but actually only used it once this cycle x

@VP91x temp spiked yesterday but fallen today definitely more erratic this month but hopefully clearer after the weekend aswell x

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VP91x · 03/06/2020 18:44

@SmileyT I'm glad you are doing okay. Don't stress over not getting as many twinges. It might even be the best sign. How are your temps etc? At least work is keeping you busy.

@MichT4 haha yeah, but I end up with all sorts of other stuff. I'll set a reminder and go again tomorrow. Pre-seed is like a sperm friendly lube. It is meant to mimic fertile CM to help them swim up. I suppose if you get loads of fertile CM anyway it doesn't make a difference but I don't always get loads. I liked it! A little goes a long way.

@HE88 yay for peak!!❤️

@Hayleylou89 ah fab that's a result xx

MichT4 · 03/06/2020 18:33

@Hayleylou89 great you got it sorted. So excited for you. Can’t wait to hear about it xx

MichT4 · 03/06/2020 18:32

@SmileyT how many do you take? I got some and the bottle says 4 but that seems extreme.

I’m sure they are as appetising as grapefruit juice 😝

Also girls, opinions on preseed? I’ve never used it - what’s it supposed to do?

Hayleylou89 · 03/06/2020 18:30

Thanks @SmileyT will do xx Hoping to see some more bfp in this thread very soon 🙏🙏 xx

MichT4 · 03/06/2020 18:28

@ManchNic @MummyMilla I’ll add my welcomes. I only joined the group a couple of days ago after taking comfort from afar. The girls are lovely and you’ll definitely get lots of support here.
Sorry to read your stories, it’s so sad we are all here, but I’m excited to see everyone get good news xx

@VP91x I’m not surprised you forget it, it’s not like going in for a bar of dairy milk! It’s just another tick to make me think I’m not missing anything. Although sometimes I think back to when I conceived before and I wasn’t doing anything. Sod’s law!

@2020wish sorry you’ve had a rough few days. I’ve seen your messages and so sorry you are here again. I hope the tests give you some answers and give some solutions. Pamper yourself tonight, or better still get OH to do it 💕

@HopeForRainbowbaby my cycles seemed to back to normal quite quickly, but I have long cycles at the moment (about 34 days!) and I don’t know how normal that is because I was not long off the pill so my cycles were still working their way down in length. My AF symptoms have changed since the MC though - and annoyingly are nausea and sore boobs, never had them before really - has given me false hope both months so this time I’m going to ignore anything until I know either way (she says!). I think a MC must really throw things out of sync for a while

@Rainbowhope11 I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you

@HE88 that’s lovely timing with your anniversary! I’d say that’s a good sign for sure

xxx

HE88 · 03/06/2020 18:28

@SmileyT ha ha when did you start taking them day of positive or day after also are you just taking 2 a day? Xx

SmileyT · 03/06/2020 18:23

@Hayleylou89 glad you sorted the scan definitely let us all know how you get on xx

@HE88 yep I started this cycle see if it helps me at all, been popping them like candy 🙈

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HE88 · 03/06/2020 18:21

@SmileyT thanks are you taking calc fluor this cycle? Xx

Also welcome to those ladies that are new to the thread I'm really sorry for you loss sending lots of love to you all ❤️ xx

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