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No one will remove it!

243 replies

vinotinto88 · 19/05/2020 09:49

So long story short - we are hoping to TTC our third and final baby.

It's pretty much now or never - certain work opportunities and home finances etc, plus my age. And I'm so broody it's unreal.

My GP won't remove my implant, no clinic within a 20 mile radius will remove my implant.

I've called and hassled and nagged everyone. The last person I called said it'll be well over a year before their clinic is up and running again.

I know this is totally a first world problem. And it's more a whinge than seeking any kind of solution. I just had my heart set on it.

Has anyone else up and down the country managed to get their contraception sorted?

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Wildflower2 · 09/06/2020 17:46

Been reading this thread with interest and I'm happy for those of you who have been about to get yours removed. I'd planned on getting removed at the beginning of the pandemic but I think I missed being able to by a few days. I've been trying my GP surgery but still getting a no. Not even being able to speak to a nurse or doctor. Sexual health clinic will be my next try so crossed fingers. I completely understand why this has all been limited however things seem to be opening up again.

EmmaAM · 04/06/2020 20:56

As someone who is also TTC, I have just read this thread with a great deal of interest as I have had the coil in for just over four years and was worried that I wouldn't be able to have it taken out because of the pandemic. I almost felt guilty ringing up and asking if it would be possible but the receptionist was so lovely and put me at ease straight away. I was booked in a week later by the friendliest nurse imaginable and I am so grateful that me and my husband can now start our TTC journey! I'm so sorry that OP had to fight so hard to be seen but I'm so happy for you now, good luck on the rest of your journey! 😊😊😊

Juno231 · 04/06/2020 14:42

Yay OP I'm happy it came out! Ignore the trolls, they've clearly got about 20 IQ points between them. FWIW my GP friends have all been complaining about how quiet things are and how they've very little to do at the moment!

YellowPenny · 04/06/2020 13:31

@vinotinto88 I'm so glad! Oh gosh, thank goodness you didn't do it yourself!
Good luck TTC!

zippityzip · 04/06/2020 12:25

@YellowPenny After much digging and shoving and a second round of local anaesthetic- it's officially out. I am soooooo happy. Thanks for checking in 😁😁
He did say that he was pleased I didn't attempt it myself as it was so covered in scar tissue I would probably ended up at the GPs after hurting myself.
TTC here we come.

YellowPenny · 04/06/2020 11:46

@vinotinto88 did you ever get it removed??

vinotinto88 · 28/05/2020 06:22

@borntohula Do you think I can get a sleeveless Mr Blobby?!

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borntohula · 28/05/2020 00:15

OP, please go in a Mr Blobby suit.

minemineminemine · 27/05/2020 22:13

Gosh. I've just read this thread. I'm so pleased for you OP.

I very nearly had a coil fitted a few months ago and I'm SO pleased I didn't go through with it. If I didn't like the side effects I'd be stuck with it now!

zigaziga · 27/05/2020 21:53

Have been following this and thrilled it is coming out for you!

I’m contemplating number 3 (and final) at some point and I’d been wondering about getting something like the coil in the interim. So glad now that I kept putting it off as I’d hate to have something in place that I have to beg to have taken out.

Obviously it was right that you weren’t high priority but we’re many months down the line now and life has got to go on in some form ... my DC1 has had some appointments postponed and whilst it was all fine for a little bit, I’m starting to get really frustrated now at the suspension of routine health provision.

Lonelylockdown22 · 27/05/2020 20:02

Brilliant!!! And all that fuss for nothing Smile

vinotinto88 · 27/05/2020 16:57

Yayyyyy @YellowPenny so pleased for you!

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peperethecat · 27/05/2020 16:11

Haha well congrats to you and happy baby making!

YellowPenny · 27/05/2020 15:49

ahaha no I'm not!
I was also having issues getting it removed for the last week, but managed with a Sexual Health Clinic.

peperethecat · 27/05/2020 15:37

Are you the OP? Did you name change?

YellowPenny · 27/05/2020 15:16

IT'S OUT! Hallelujah !!!

lucymagoo · 27/05/2020 10:16

You don't have to justify yourself at all, everyone has their own reasons and I actually think now is a great time to try and get pregnant. As do most people on this board! Good luck with your appointment, I'll spare you the details but getting mine out was not pleasant Confused

vinotinto88 · 27/05/2020 06:32

And I'll be as self absorbed as I like thanks!

My life has also been affected by the pandemic with family, friends, colleagues, work etc.

Even more so that life is too short, I'm not getting any younger and I'm a damn good Mum.

So I'll live in my self absorbed bubble - where I am happy. And it doesn't actually affect you 👍🏻

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vinotinto88 · 27/05/2020 06:28

Well isn't she charming - "common sense" and "breeding during a pandemic". Slightly hypocritical.

And not that I have to justify myself to anyone but my first two babies were not easy to have. And for various reasons it is now or never for us to complete our family. I'm certain I'm allowed to make decisions for myself, pandemic or not.

Anyway the support and kind words VASTLY outweighs the judgemental (incredibly flawed and very hypocritical) thoughts of another person.

Funnily enough it's a conception forum. Generally on here we want to conceive.

And THANKS EVERYONE! I'm so excited. I've found you all to be helpful, supportive and wonderful!

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FourPlasticRings · 26/05/2020 20:29

So pleased it's coming out without you needing to slice yourself open, OP! Excellent perseverance, so glad it paid off. Ignore the naysayer.

RyanBergarasTeeth · 26/05/2020 20:08

Yay congrats on finally getting somewhere op! I agree with @peperethecat. Its always galling when pregnant posters crop up berating others for trying to "breed". And then have the audacity to say how easy it is to wait. Some people dont have the luxury of waiting. Oh and also pandemic or not a woman has rights to body autonomy and that includes having foreign objects removed from her that she no longer wishes to be there.

mumandcub · 26/05/2020 19:11

Congrats on finally getting an appointment for removal.
Shame on the other poster on here saying it’s not right TTC right now...who knows how long it’ll take for any of us TTC to actually conceive. No ones getting any younger (no offence anyone) and things will be ok in the end.
I’d be more concerned about your own situation because unless you’re having this baby on your own at home with no midwives then YOU are stretching the resources more currently.
When I had my implant out two weeks ago, the lovely nurses said to me that they’ve never been so quiet so I didn’t feel guilty and they’d asked me to come in, same goes for the OP.
Good luck with the removal and let’s hope for BFP to all those TTC during this pandemic because at least there will be something beautiful at the end ☺️

peperethecat · 26/05/2020 19:02

OK, let's make it simple for you.

  1. GPs are not involved in treating coronavirus patients. If you have coronavirus you are either self-isolating at home and under strict instructions not to go anywhere near your GP, or you are in hospital and hooked up to a ventilator.
  1. GPs are always overstretched. It's got fuck all to do with coronavirus. In fact, some parts of the NHS are considerably less stretched than usual (A&E, for example).
  1. What other people do with their bodies and their contraception is none of your business.
  1. Nobody on this thread cares about your opinion.
  1. What are you even doing on the conception board if you are already up the duff? Bugger off and browse for baby onesie online or whatever it is pregnant women do.

Does that clear things up? (I really don't care if it doesn't but please still follow the advice in 5 above anyway.)

Trebolla · 26/05/2020 19:00

like breeding during a bloody pandemic

Ah so you’ve made the decision not to have your child and stretch precious resources? As a pregnant woman, conception date not valid, you are still using precious resources others should also have access to. Or is it different for you, Mumma? 🤨

Trebolla · 26/05/2020 18:57

Oh bloody hell @Mummatobe2020. If you are going to be nasty on someone else’s thread can you please sort out your spelling? Makes you sound, to use your own phrase, like a fucking turd.

Excellent news OP. Not entirely sure why the world has to stop - it hasn’t for government advisors....

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