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Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3

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Annny27 · 17/05/2020 22:55

Setting up this new thread for all the lovely ladies who have been on the ttc after miscarriage journey. And also all the ladies who have had their bfps but still want to stay in touch:)

Will post this in the existing chat :D

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SunnySideUp2020 · 27/07/2020 14:02

@Annny27 he had planned to do it on that day from 6 months ago apparently !!!
But he pushed a little to take the test that day and not sunday thinking if it's negative he would cheer me up with the proposal!! 😅

As for telling people it's just been a weird one.. i am not a social media person and i find it awkward to just tell people 😂 i am such a weirdo! Have you ever felt like this? How did you announce?

Also how do you plan a wedding? Do you ask people first to knwo how many will come and then look at venues or do you get the maximum number??????

I know what you mean about the ttc sex... before we went on holiday it was just becoming such a chore. 😒😒

SunnySideUp2020 · 27/07/2020 13:57

Ok so just typed an entire response and pressed wrong button 🙄

I just bought a clearblue at pharmacy now and it's the not early ones, just standard one and the test is very strong, not fmu and 13 dpo. And i read about molar pregnancy. I know it sounds completely insane to be worried that the tests are too dark and i am super happy and grateful that i was given this chance again but i am completely losing my mind worrying ....

Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3
Annny27 · 27/07/2020 10:17

Yep thats definitley a bfp @SunnySideUp2020 :D congratulations 💗💗💗

Have you told people about your engagement news yet aswell? Did DP plan to do it on the day that you got a bfp? Or was he always going to pick that day. So exciting.

And yes we will still use a bit of presseed. I'll be honest, ttc sex isn't doing the best for my libido so I need the help on most occasions haha 😳 🤣

@fizzl totally I am shocked I am here 8 months post mmc /14 months in total haha!! Could have had a baby and then been pregnant again by now!

How's all the two week waiters getting on?

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Leok83 · 27/07/2020 08:49

@SunnySideUp2020 that's definitely progressing! So happy for you☺️☺️!! You have definitely got ur BFP now!xx

scrumdiddly123 · 27/07/2020 08:42

@SunnySideUp2020 eeeek! So pleased for you x

Fizzl · 27/07/2020 08:29

Definitely looking good @SunnySideUp2020! There's no denying that's a BFP 😁

SunnySideUp2020 · 27/07/2020 05:53

13 dpo today and did another boots strip.
I think it's working 😬😳

Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3
SunnySideUp2020 · 26/07/2020 20:40

Thank you @Whiffle77 xx

Whiffle77 · 26/07/2020 09:18

Eeeekkk congratulations on your engagement @SunnySideUp2020 what an absolutely stunning ring!!! How exciting!!! And congratulations on your bfp too, what an overwhelming few days for you! 💞
Hope you feel a bit better in the next few days xxx

Fizzl · 26/07/2020 08:57

@Annny27 nope nothing 😒 and my skin has cleared up again which is great but also a give away that somethings not right again as my skin normally breaks out 🙄 I have no idea what's wrong with me. I'm seeing my acupuncturist again on Tuesday so hopefully she can get things moving again like she seemed to last time for me.

I don't blame you not using opk's. The hydration balance struggle is real!

I'm also missing everyone on this thread - it's getting very quiet on here now! Which is great and I'm so happy for everyone as it just shows there is so much hope after this whole saga. I just don't think I ever thought I'd still be here in August! 😒

SunnySideUp2020 · 26/07/2020 08:40

@Annny27 i am still here!!
Woke up with a cold and been having a Bartholin cyst for 3 days now.
Was awake in the middle of the night my body was aching and i felt so rough so now worried i caught something.

DP and I have our flight to Reunion island on Friday and our covid 19 test on Wednesday that needs to be shown negative upon boarding or else we won't be allowed to fly there

Then was thinking maybe i have low progesterone so i need a blood test etc etc

Basically the middle of the night anxiety :(

So yeah for now i am here and until thursday when period is due not gonna move anywhere 😶

As for your cycle, are you still using preseed?
This was our first we didn't use it at all.

Annny27 · 26/07/2020 08:29

@SunnySideUp2020 thats a really good evening line for 11dpo! Deffo a bfp!!!! I'll miss you when you leave us 🥺🥺🥺 but hopefully we can all join you soon 🥰🥰

@fizzl ahhh thats gutting no ovulation signs yet! Not even ewcm? Hopefully it isn't toooo delayed 🤞

@ELM7 sorry you think AF is arriving:( its always gutting!!

Cycle day 8 now and dtd every other day. Havent been using opks and not sure I will this month. Cba to make sure I am hydrated enough but also not too hydrated so that I can get a decent opk result haha

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SunnySideUp2020 · 26/07/2020 08:17

Thanks @Nuggetlover27 and @Ejb86
😘😘😘

Ejb86 · 26/07/2020 07:45

Yes @SunnySideUp2020!!!! I'm so frigging happy for you! Congratulations lovely!

Nuggetlover27 · 25/07/2020 21:39

Congratulations @SunnySideUp2020 on your engagement!!! 😃😃

SunnySideUp2020 · 25/07/2020 21:31

@Fizzl tonight s one is on the high!! I'd say it will happen sooner than you think!

@ChampooPapi thanks lovely xx
Very pleased with today... was quite magical 🥰

And to my fellow ttc ladies, honestly don't even bother with those one step cheapies.
They re so so so faint i can't even take a decent picture. On the other hand, pleasantly surprised with boots pregnancy strips (packs of 5). I only had those left now and did one out of curiosity not expecting much as i know these aren't "early" ones and i got a line. Just like the frer!

But yean forget about one step super early. Such a scam!!!

Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3
Fizzl · 25/07/2020 20:43

@SunnySideUp2020 no they are very negative ☹️ Although mine does seem to just jump from negative to positive quickly I don't normally get a gradual build up but there's just no other signs of ovulation yet at all!

These are today's two tests 🙄

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ChampooPapi · 25/07/2020 19:43

Arhhhhhh! @SunnySideUp2020 ! This is amazing news to see 🎉💒🌈👣 I'm so happy for you on your engagement I've got the tears lovely, you must be over the moon and as for that test 😆😬 obviously absolutely every part of my body crossed it's one that sticks and you can join the pregnancy club xx

SunnySideUp2020 · 25/07/2020 19:04

@Fizzl soo annoying this confused uterus but is there any line on opk at all??

Fizzl · 25/07/2020 18:16

@SunnySideUp2020 try not to worry about different brands. Id just work on the basis that so long as there is a line it's positive and then you can test again in a few days using the same brand to see if it's darker.

@ELM7 it's crap isn't it. Prepare for the worse and hope for the best tho!

I'm on CD18 and no signs at all of ovulation 😑 I really hoped last month was a one off blip but it's not looking that way. The acupuncturist did say my cycle might not go back to normal straight away after my epic 75 day-er but I really just assumed and hoped it would go back 😒

SunnySideUp2020 · 25/07/2020 16:44

@elm7 the back ache and dull period thing were the symptoms last time for me ...
So still hoping this is your month!

ELM7 · 25/07/2020 16:31

@SunnySideUp2020 the usual symptoms. Dull ache/cramps and backache but the main one is RHR has dropped by 2 bpm today.

Know I’m not out until AF arrives but think that will be the result for this cycle and I had been feeling so positive that this month was going to be the one.

SunnySideUp2020 · 25/07/2020 15:29

Aww @elm7
What makes you think that AF is coming?
Honestly this time i have absolutely nothing different from a normal cycle... so so hard to tell.
Will still have my fingers crossed for you x

ELM7 · 25/07/2020 14:37

@SunnySideUp2020 ahh congratulations that’s amazing news both on the BFP and the BFD!! A very exciting day for you.

Pretty sure AF is round the corner for me so prob won’t bother testing until Tuesday now.

SunnySideUp2020 · 25/07/2020 13:15

Also the test got much clearer after!!

Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3