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Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3

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Annny27 · 17/05/2020 22:55

Setting up this new thread for all the lovely ladies who have been on the ttc after miscarriage journey. And also all the ladies who have had their bfps but still want to stay in touch:)

Will post this in the existing chat :D

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Babyghirl · 04/08/2020 19:58

@abi0795

Hi sorry for your loss in new to the group myself as I find it comforting talking to people that have been through the same as myself, I have had two losses one in Nov 2018 at 10+4 weeks and second in Oct 2019 at 6+5 weeks second time took me ten months again to conceive and lost it I'm now on to month ten and still trying you will have your good days and your bad as I did I still do there's no txt book to tell you how you should be feeling and how long you should be feeling it for be easy on yourself and take the time to heal. Remember when you fall again it's a new pregnancy new baby new outcome and it's something we can't control. 💚💚💚💚

Abi0795 · 04/08/2020 19:37

Hi everyone. Sorry if I'm in the wrong place, but this is my first month TTC after my Miscarriage in June and I'm struggling more than I thought I would. I'm constantly worried that I'll get pregnant and miscarry, and worried that I WONT get pregnant.. so can't win. I'm also not even sure I've ovulated this month so I'm expecting a BFN in 2 weeks.

Hope your all doing ok xx

SunnySideUp2020 · 04/08/2020 18:50

sorry to see you back here @BeeMakesTea
Did you have a private scan after your march bfp?
Are you going to have some investigation done?

SunnySideUp2020 · 04/08/2020 18:49

Fingers crossed the every other day worked for you too @Annny27 !!

Babyghirl · 04/08/2020 16:39

@Fizzl

It's good to talk to people who understand what you have been through, I can talk to people but they really don't understand unless you have been there. I feel sometimes if I bring it up they r saying. To them self's like she should be over this already 🙈🙈🙈🙈 we will all get r bpf and the beans will stick 💚💚💚💚

Babyghirl · 04/08/2020 16:35

@Annny27

Norm between CD 11/13 I only temp and have a dip the day I ovulate then day after temp rises and cm turns creamy sticky I tryed ovulation strips but could never find my peak I'm cd11 nw so just waiting for ff to determine when it's happened. I have a 27/28 day cycle norm lp is bot 15 days.

Annny27 · 04/08/2020 15:39

afternoon girls :) fairly sure I have pvulated and am around 1/2dpo - cm is now sticky/ creamy which usually indicates its happened! Will start taking the progesterone tomorrow :)

@Nuggetlover27 tbh we haven't dtd that much this month, just every other day with the last time on the day of ovulation. I did every day last month with no luck haha so not stressing myself out anymore pressuring DH to dtd 🤣

@fizzl I am gutted you haven't ovulayed yet! Are you still dtd every few days or so just incase it happens unexpectedly?

@BeeMakesTea welcome back, sorry that AF arrived :( its always shit!

@Babyghirl when do you usually ovulate?

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Fizzl · 04/08/2020 10:43

@Babyghirl sorry I've just realised your new to this thread. Sorry you're here with us but this thread has been a huge support to so many ladies - most now who have their BFP! Which is great and keeps our spirits up that it will happen one day.

@Nuggetlover27 I think something might be starting to happen today!! I'm not getting too excited yet but the tell tale signs are there and I expect (hope) I should get a positive opk probably tomorrow! 🤞 hallelujah - it's late but better than day 60 something like last month 😅

@BeeMakesTea so sorry you're back with us 😞 life can be really cruel sometimes. Hopefully this next one will be your sticky rainbow!

How's everyone else doing? @Annny27 @ELM7

BeeMakesTea · 04/08/2020 09:28

Hi, hope you don’t mind me re-joining you? Not sure if you remember but I was on Feb and March threads with a different username, I got a BFP in March but then had a MMC and D&C in May-June. We waited 1 cycle so started ttc again this month but AF showed up today (sorry just realised that’s a lot of acronyms!). So it’s on to round 2.

Hope you ladies are all well? Congratulations @SunnySideUp2020 and @scrumdiddly123, lovely to catch up and see your BFPs

Babyghirl · 04/08/2020 09:08

@nuggetlover27
Thanx for the warm welcome not a thread anyone wants to fine themself on, but so greatful to have found it💚💚

Nuggetlover27 · 04/08/2020 08:30

Sorry to find you here @Babyghirl but welcome 😊 really hoping we get our rainbow babies soon 🤞🏻

CD4 for me so nothing to report. Feels like ov is so far away (normally around CD21-25)

@Fizzl oh no ☹️ have you had any signs of it happening soon?

How are you doing @Annny27 ? Did you peek again yesterday? Did you cover with DTD just incase?

Babyghirl · 03/08/2020 18:31

@Fizzl
Hoping ovulation happens soon for you and you can be in the tww, and we all get r rainbows very soon 💚💚

Fizzl · 03/08/2020 17:42

CD27 here and still no ovulation 🙄 keeping everything 🤞 it happens soon and we can be cycle buddies!

Babyghirl · 03/08/2020 12:49

@Annny27
It's good to have someone that's around the same as you for the tww lol, I try nt to symptom spot but it hard 😂😂😂😂😂 I normally ovulate around CD 12/13 so reaching it. Only way I knw for sure is temping so just baby dance as much as possible only time I get a break is when the witch pays her monthly visit 😂😂😂😂

Annny27 · 03/08/2020 12:36

@Babyghirl I think a few people have just had AF and then me and @fizzl are waiting to be in the tww so we are all all over the shot haha

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Babyghirl · 03/08/2020 12:21

Any girls on cd10 we can be cycle buddies lol 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💚

Annny27 · 03/08/2020 11:36

Morning :) cd16 - I thought i ovulated yesterday but then had another nearly positive opk this morninf so maybe its a 2nd peak and the 1st one didn't quite make it....who knows haha!

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scrumdiddly123 · 03/08/2020 09:36

Thank you @Whiffle77! Hope you’re doing ok.
@SunnySideUp2020 that’s great your HCG went up by so much! Will you be having an early scan? I don’t know whether to ring the EPU yet to arrange mine or leave it for a bit as don’t want to tempt fate!

Whiffle77 · 02/08/2020 17:13

Ahhhh just checked in here and seen your news @scrumdiddly123 congratulations!! So pleased for you, that looks like great line progression! 💞

Babyghirl · 02/08/2020 09:44

@Babyghirl

I tryed using them but stressed me out lol, never found my peak on them I do temp everymorning and I I get a dip on ovulation day so I just try to work off that we baby dance everyday or every 2 days so not to miss anything. We had our first app in the fertility clinic back in Feb was meant to get our results in April but with everything going on been told could now be January before that happens 🙈🙈🙈🙈. I'm from Belfast and work for the NHS and I know all that's going on but can't help but stress out.
@Annny27
Babyghirl · 02/08/2020 09:39

I'm new to this lol how do u tag people in your posts.

Babyghirl · 02/08/2020 09:37

I tryed using them but stressed me out lol, never found my peak on them I do temp everymorning and I I get a dip on ovulation day so I just try to work off that we baby dance everyday or every 2 days so not to miss anything. We had our first app in the fertility clinic back in Feb was meant to get our results in April but with everything going on been told could now be January before that happens 🙈🙈🙈🙈. I'm from Belfast and work for the NHS and I know all that's going on but can't help but stress out.

Annny27 · 02/08/2020 09:22

@Babyghirl we cross posted sorry!

Welcome to the club that noone wants to be in 💗 best of luck for you that you get your rainbow soon. Do you use opks or take a more casual approach?

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Annny27 · 02/08/2020 09:21

Morning girls. Think I ovulated early this morning- opk was peak last night around 8pm and only high this morning so eggs been released! Didn't dtd last night as was just exhausted but dtd this morning so hopefully its done the trick.

@SunnySideUp2020 yes for last few months we have dtd every day and hasn't worked so I am.not too worried haha 🤣 how are you feeling?

@scrumdiddly123 that's really good progression. I would be very chuffed if that was my 11dpo line! :D

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Babyghirl · 02/08/2020 09:20

I hope you girls don't mind me hoping on your ttc train, I have had 2 miscarriages one in Nov 2018 at 10+5 weeks send in Oct at 6+5 weeks so took me tens mons after my first loss to conceive again both times falling pregnant in Sept so now on to month ten after my second loss, hoping I do nt fall pregnant in Sept again lol. Im 37 no living children just to two angels by my side. Took me a long time to fing my rock my husband to be, baby dust to everyone and hope we all get our rainbow babies soon. 💚💚💚

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