Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3

@scrumdiddly123 I’m joining you in the TWW also at 2dpo. It’s the second week that I always find sooooooooo long 😂

@scrumdiddly123 my average lp has been 6 days since MC, so if I get past tomorrow it's a bonus. I'd love to have a longer cycle and a longer lp, suggesting everything is finally starting to get back to normality.

@Ejb86 similar to me then, I’m CD30 which is my normal cycle length. My normal LP is 12 days so will be expecting AF CD 41! It’s been a long month!

@scrumdiddly123 me! I'm 5dpo on cd29 and no idea when to expect AF due to average cycle since mc being 25 days.

Morning, my temp has finally spiked this morning so think I did ovulate! Reckon I’m 2dpo so looking forward to the 2 week wait in a weird way! Symptom spotting will give me something to do 😬
Anyone else in the 2WW?
@Fizzl really hope AF comes soon!
@SunnySideUp2020 how are you? Any more spotting?

Ya and she’s doing well cause she was in the chat from a due in August group, and I’ve kept an eye on the chat until recently and everything going good on her scans etc.
I suppose you could try keep an eye on CM and if any inkling of change on that then start opk?

@Leok83 oh gosh I'd better take out shares in opk's! That's interesting that she fell pregnant in that cycle, I'd assume your lining is a bit old and not in the best shape to conceive (but that's based on nothing just my worries that my lining will be old and useless by that point!)

@Fizzl I’d say just keep an eye for any new signs of ovulation and that you aren’t going into new cycle without a bleed as another forum i saw a lady that happened too and she did conceive on that cycle but It looked like one seriously long cycle as she had no bleed in between the anovulatory one and the next one.

@Leok83 normally between CD28-30 so not massively late yet just don't know when/if to expect af/withdrawal bleed now

@SunnySideUp2020 sorry it’s still negative, you never know it might change but I know it’s less likely after negative at 12 days but still 🤞 for you!

@scrumdiddly123 oh no that’s so cruel of you haven’t ovulated😞 hopefully temp goes up again for you tomorrow.

@Fizzl when would you be expecting AF on a normal cycle?

@Annny27 CD5 here too..are you doing OPK this cycle? I don’t think I’ll manage not to! Will prob hold off until CD 10-11 to start though.

@scrumdiddly123 your chart is like mine a bit up and down all over the place. I got bored inputting everything so gave up other than temps about a week ago. My temps are always taken roughly at the same time each day within about a 30min window I just sometimes don't input them until later in the day and don't change the time which is why I've got a few triangles.

I'm also surprised at how low my temp is today as I had half a bottle of wine last night so expected it to be higher. My body is just doing the opposite of what it should this month I think!

@Annny27 this is my chart, never done it before and this was probably not the best cycle to start with in hindsight! I think if it still hasn’t risen by tomorrow I’ll know I haven’t!

@SunnySideUp2020 I have had a cervical erosion in the past which caused bleeding after sex (had hysteroscopy and they treated it). The last couple of months it’s started up again but not all the time (strangely its when we have sex outside my fertile window!) so could may well be something like that.

My temp has gone down today so I definitely haven’t ovulated 😔 gutted!

@Leok83 ah I'm sorry that's tough! I just don't think men understand the same. I had a wobble a few months back when in the space of a day or two there'd been two pregnancy announcements and my cousin gave birth. I got upset, not because I wasn't happy for them but just by how unfair it all felt and like you've said, it compounded the loss and that feeling of that should have been me. Initially my husband couldn't understand why I was upset and I was of the view that we're at that in our lives where people are going to be having babies and I just needed to suck it up and not let it bother me oh to think like a man and to not have hormones raging around.

@SunnySideUp2020 the bleeding could have been caused by dtd. When I spoke with the gp the other week about my spotting the first thing she asked was did it happen after sex as that can happen sometimes. Try not to worry too much.

CD31 here now... and counting 😒

@SunnySideUp2020 I have a cervical erosion which I've had for about 15 years so that may be why for me although it happens a lot more since the MMC x

@Dipsy77 ok thanks for letting me know. The only person i know who bled during sex had some cervix problem so i am a bit freaked out.

Also being 12 dpo and the frer being the whitest i know i cannot be pregnant...

@SunnySideUp2020 yes it happens to me after DTD it's happened a few times since MMC but it also happened in early pregnancy with my DD so you never know fingers crossed 🤞 x

I made it to cd28! Longest cycle since MC. Still only 4dpo so could be going from a 25 day cycle to a really long one, but I'd rather have a long cycle with a good lp than a 5 day lp!

@Leok83 sorry about the news... unfortunately we can all relate. It's such a mixed feelings thing. Hope you are ok today x

@Mococo1 it does seem like everybody gets pregnant but you when you are trying for a while... 😒

So i tested with a frer with fmu today and it cannot be more negative. I also dont feel pregnant at all. Can't even make up symptoms.

The pink light bleed only happened whilst dtd and then nothing since just normal cm.
Really weird...

Has anyone had this type of bleed because of dtd?

@sunnysideup if it's implantation bleeding from the day of implantation you should be testing positive in a few days time with an early detection test! Really hope this is it for you 👌🏽

Hey all I'm the same

My neighbour has just announced she's pregnant (I would have been 3 weeks ahead of her). Colleague at work has announced she's pregnant and also one of my best mates

Seems like everyone has just had a baby/announcing pregnancies and I'm really feeling it as I would have been 15weeks by now and hopefully growing a bump x😭

Bless you @Leok83 it’s hard isn’t it! My sister is due in 4 weeks time and I should have been due the same week as her. And also had a few Facebook friends announcing their pregnancies this week. I just think why is this happening to me when everyone else is getting their babies!

That’s strange @SunnySideUp2020 especially if you don’t normally spot. Fingers crossed it’s implantation 🤞🏻